Name: 你每天無意識就在說的「髒話」！ (RUDE Words You Use Every Day Without Realizing)
Uploaded: 2025-12-10T17:58:45.000Z
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Ever had someone take your compliment the wrong way?

你是否曾經遇過別人誤解你的讚美？

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There may have been times in the past where you thought you were being nice to someone, only for it to backfire and be mistaken for rudeness.

過去可能有些時候，你以為自己對別人很好，結果卻適得其反，被誤認為是無禮。

If you want to avoid the unintended consequences of rubbing someone the wrong way, it's better to carefully choose our words when navigating tricky social interactions.

如果你想避免惹惱別人而產生意想不到的後果，在處理棘手的社交互動時，最好謹慎選擇我們的用詞。

With that said, here are seven common examples of things we think are polite to say but are actually rude.

說到這裡，這裡有七個我們認為是禮貌但實際上卻很無禮的常見例子。

Telling someone they look tired may be intended as a gesture of concern, but

告訴別人他們看起來很累，可能是出於表示關心的舉動，但

it can be received as a veiled insult, implying that the person looks unwell or unattractive.

這可能會被視為暗示性的侮辱，暗示那個人看起來不適或沒有吸引力。

After all, who wants to be told they look tired even if they're having a rough day?

畢竟，即使在艱難的一天，誰想被告知自己看起來很累呢？

Instead of pointing out their fatigue, how about asking if everything's alright?

與其指出他們的疲勞，不如問問是否一切都還好？

That way your genuine concern can still shine through without risking unintended offense.

這樣你的真誠關心仍然可以顯現，而不會冒著無意的冒犯的風險。

Remarking on another person's weight can be easily taken the wrong way, as many people struggle with body image and self esteem.

評論別人的體重很容易被誤解，因為很多人都在為身體意象和自尊而掙扎。

Telling someone they look so much better now that they've lost all that weight can hurt their feelings because it inadvertently suggests that the person was not attractive or desirable before losing weight.

告訴別人他們減重後看起來好多了，可能會傷害到他們的感情，因為這無意中暗示了那個人在減重前並不吸引人或不受歡迎。

A better approach would be simply to say wow, you look great or you have a wonderful glow.

更好的做法是簡單地說「哇，你看起來很棒」或「你散發著迷人的光彩」。

This way you can share your appreciation without potentially causing any discomfort or insecurity and you avoid reinforcing any harmful societal norms equating thinness with beauty.

這樣你就可以表達你的賞識，而不會造成任何不適或不安全感，同時也避免了加強將瘦與美劃上等號的有害社會規範。

You're so smart or talented for your age.

你這個年紀來說真是太聰明或有才華了。

Although seemingly a compliment, this remark can be subtly insulting because it implies surprise and undermines their achievements.

這句話看似讚美，但可能帶有微妙的侮辱，因為它暗示了驚訝，並削弱了他們的成就。

Instead of emphasizing their age, it's better to focus on their skills and achievements outright.

與其強調他們的年齡，不如直接關注他們的技能和成就。

You can say your intelligence and skills are truly impressive.

你可以說你的智慧和技能真的很令人印象深刻。

This way you acknowledge their capabilities without any hint of surprise or condescension tied to their age.

這樣你就能肯定他們的能耐，而不會因為他們的年紀而顯露出驚訝或居高臨下的態度。

We often tell this to our single friends because we hope it'll comfort them, but

我們常對單身的朋友說這句話，是希望安慰他們，但

it may just unknowingly make them feel worse by creating more pressure for them to settle down soon, implying that just because they're single, it means they're lonely.

這反而可能無意中讓他們感覺更糟，因為這會增加他們趕快定下來的壓力，暗示他們單身就代表孤單。

It's more compassionate to emphasize personal growth, self love, and

與其這樣，不如強調個人成長、愛自己，以及

genuine connections by saying something like everything will happen at the right time or the best chapters of your life are yet to unfold regardless of your relationship status.

真誠的連結，可以說「一切都會在對的時間發生」或「你人生最精彩的篇章還在後頭，跟你的感情狀態無關」。

This acknowledges that everyone's journey in the realm of relationships is unique and shifts the emphasis more towards intelligence, internal growth, and

這句話肯定了每個人在感情路上的旅程都是獨一無二的，並將重點轉移到智慧、內在成長和

You're so lucky you don't have to worry about.

We all have that one person we somewhat envy because it seems like their life is so easy or they have the things we want.

我們都有一個有點讓我們羨慕的人，因為他們的生活好像過得很輕鬆，或者擁有我們想要的東西。

However, uttering phrases like this can inadvertently dismiss the struggles or responsibilities they have that we might not be aware of.

然而，說出這樣的話，可能會無意中忽略了我們不知道的他們所面臨的掙扎或責任。

So rather than assuming that everything comes so easily to them and that their life is problem free, we which is never the case, it's more thoughtful to say something like I really admire how you handle challenges with grace and determination.

所以與其假設他們一切都很輕鬆，生活沒有煩惱（事實絕非如此），不如更貼心地說：「我真的很欣賞妳從容又有決心地應對挑戰。」

You might think that this is a polite and non confrontational way to disagree with someone's opinions or ideas while still acknowledging them, but

你可能會覺得，這是個有禮貌且不具衝突性的方式，可以在表示認同的同時，表達你對某人意見或想法的不同看法，但

it can easily come across as sarcasm or derision.

這很容易被解讀為諷刺或嘲笑。

So instead of using this potentially backhanded response, try a more open and respectful approach, such as saying, I appreciate your perspective.

所以與其使用這種可能帶有弦外之音的回應，不如試試更開放、更尊重的說法，例如：「我很欣賞妳的觀點。」

Having different viewpoints helps us all to gain a well rounded understanding.

擁有不同的觀點有助於我們大家獲得全面的理解。

This way you foster a constructive and inclusive conversation, valuing their input without diminishing their stance.

這樣你就能培養一個具建設性且包容的對話，重視他們的意見，同時又不減損他們的立場。

Look at the bright side Ever told someone to look at the bright side when they were going through a tough time?

往好處想：當別人正經歷艱難時刻時，你是否曾叫他們「往好處想」？

Although you probably intended to give them a positive perspective, saying things like this can actually invalidate their feelings and struggles.

雖然你可能想給他們一個正面的觀點，但說這樣的話，其實可能會讓他們的感受和掙扎被否定。

Essentially, it can subtly imply that they are overreacting or not handling the situation well.

基本上，這可能會巧妙地暗示他們反應過度，或沒有妥善處理情況。

So the next time someone opens up to you about their difficulties, aim to validate their experience rather than minimizing it.

所以下次當有人跟你傾訴他們的困難時，試著去肯定他們的經歷，而不是輕描淡寫。

試著說：「聽起來真的很不容易。」

I'm really sorry this is happening to you, or it totally makes sense that you're feeling down.

「我真的很抱歉你遇到這種事。」或「你感到沮喪完全可以理解。」

Is there anything I can do to make things better?

「有什麼我能做的讓情況好轉嗎？」

Misguided attempts at politeness can sometimes lead to backhanded compliments or harmful advice, so understanding the potential negative impact of our words is crucial for fostering respectful and genuine communication.

那些好心辦壞事、想表現禮貌的行為，有時可能會變成拐彎抹角的稱讚或有害的建議，所以瞭解我們言詞可能造成的負面影響，對於建立互相尊重且真誠的溝通至關重要。

Being mindful of how our expressions may be perceived by others is key to building stronger, more empathetic relationships.

留意我們的表達方式可能被別人如何看待，是建立更緊密、更有同理心的關係的關鍵。

Psych 2 goers what are some other polite things you've said or were said to you that you're realizing might have actually been rude?

Psych 2 的觀眾們，你們說過或別人對你說過，但現在意識到可能其實很無禮的「客氣話」，還有哪些呢？

Let us know your insights in the comments down below.

在下面的留言區告訴我們你的想法吧。

And if you're interested in learning more about this topic, click here to watch our video exposing five Qualities that Are actually Bad.

如果你對這個主題有興趣，想了解更多，點這裡觀看我們揭露五種其實很糟糕的特質的影片。

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你每天無意識就在說的「髒話」！ (RUDE Words You Use Every Day Without Realizing)

perspective

perceive

fatigue

assume