Name: 當您患有 BPD 時，是否可能獲得愛情？ (Is Love Possible When You Suffer BPD)
Uploaded: 2025-07-19T22:49:07.000Z
Duration: 5 min 13 s

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Dating with BPD feels like trying to hold on to water. No matter how tight you grip, it slips through your fingers. One moment you're terrified they'll leave, the next you're pushing them away just to test if they'll stay. Why does love feel like both the cure and the poison? Well first, let's talk about what BPD really is. BPD stands for borderline personality disorder and it's a condition where one has difficulty regulating their emotions, suffers from high sensitivity to rejection, and usually experiences dysfunction in managing interpersonal relationships. We have a video on how to know when your partner might have BPD, so feel free to check it out. But that's only one side of the coin. When you have BPD and you're in a romantic relationship, there are a whole lot of problems that are not so easy to spot from the outside. Dating with BPD isn't just a challenge, it's a storm of contradictions. One moment you're drowning in love, the next you're gasping for air, convinced your partner will vanish. The fear of abandonment isn't just a symptom, it's a constant whisper in the back of your mind. We interviewed Magenta, who has BPD, about her experience with romance and well, she summarizes it perfectly. I suffer from abandonment issues all the time. I find myself always being worried if my special person is secretly getting tired of me. Quick disclaimer, we are not diagnosing anyone with BPD, nor are we here to romanticize the condition. Our goal is simply to explore the experiences of those navigating relationships while living with BPD, with empathy and understanding. BPD is a complex condition, drenched in extremes. You become very sensitive to stress in any kind of relationship. For those with BPD, love is both the anchor and the storm. This can cause them to have trust issues and negative feelings towards their partner easily after any kind of stressor. O'Leary, 2023, also mentions that relationship stressors can cause emotional dysregulation in those afflicted with BPD. A single misunderstanding can spiral into despair while a small gesture of love can feel like salvation. Magenta's words cut straight to the heart. When my mood changes, it can be frustrating because I can get so angry or too sad in just a moment. I know it's exhausting, not just for me, but for my partner. I get in a mode that I know is overwhelming for everyone. I hate it, but I can't help it. However, not everything needs to be a frustrating endeavor. It's the light in the chaos. People with BPD feel love with a rare electric intensity. It's a lens that can magnify beauty others might miss, too. Magenta glimpses this truth as well. I get to be a really sensitive person, so I can appreciate a lot of things in a way most people don't. It's like I find magic in normal things. A study by Bouchard and others showed that in about half of the studied couples where someone had BPD, both partners experienced satisfaction and tranquility in the relationship. O'Leary and others similarly found that BPD is often accompanied by a higher development of adaptive relationship skills. And when good coping methods were achieved, the relationships could be long-lasting and satisfactory. Therapy helps. Patience transforms. Being informed is crucial. But the real breakthrough comes when partners stop seeing BPD as the enemy and start fighting together. Magenta's plea cuts directly into the starting problem. They did not understand my insecurities, my jealousy, my mood changes, my need of constant reassurance. That I just wanted to be alone sometimes, but also feel loved and heard. Within the study by O'Leary, when couples showed openness toward discussing BPD, recognized negative patterns, and offered empathy to one another, their relationships strengthened and became manageable in the long term. In conclusion, dating with

與患有 BPD 的人約會，感覺就像試圖抓住水。無論你抓得多緊，它都會從指縫間溜走。上一秒你還在害怕對方會離開，下一秒你就把對方推開，只為試探對方是否會留下。為什麼愛情既像解藥又像毒藥？首先，讓我們來談談什麼是 BPD。BPD 是邊緣型人格障礙的縮寫，是指一個人難以調節自己的情緒，對拒絕高度敏感，通常在處理人際關係時會出現功能障礙。我們有一個關於如何判斷伴侶是否患有邊緣型人格障礙的視頻，請隨時查看。但這只是硬幣的一面。當您患有 BPD 並處於戀愛關係中時，會出現很多從外表不易察覺的問題。與患有 BPD 的人

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BPD doesn't always have to be a tragedy. It's a reflection of the effort and resilience two people can bring to their relationship. It's not always easy, it can be complicated, and requires patience and understanding. But it's about navigating moments of uncertainty and showing up for each other, even when things feel difficult. When both partners commit to open communication and support, it creates a foundation for a healthy relationship. Magenta's final wish lingers. To just enjoy being loved and not to question it. Just enjoying the moment and have my mind in silent mode. So we ask you, have you loved someone with BPD or loved through it? What shattered your expectations? What gave you hope? Share your story below. Let's rewrite the narrative together. If you enjoyed this video, hit the like button and subscribe to Psych2Go for more content like this. And remember, you matter. Thank you for watching and we'll see you in the next one.

BPD 並不總是一個悲劇。它反映了兩個人在關係中的努力和韌性。這種關係並不總是一帆風順，可能會很複雜，需要耐心和理解。但是，這就是要在不確定的時刻，即使感覺困難重重，也要為對方著想。當伴侶雙方都致力於坦誠交流和支持時，就能為健康的關係奠定基礎。Magenta 最後的願望揮之不去。享受被愛的感覺，不要質疑。只是享受當下，讓我的大腦處於靜默模式。是以，我們想問您，您是否愛過患有 BPD 的人，或者在愛的過程中經歷過這種情況？是什麼打破了你的期望？是什麼給了你希望？請在下方分享您的故事。讓我們一起重寫故事。如果