Name: 如果他想，他就會！ (If he wanted to, he would)
Uploaded: 2025-12-05T16:51:23.000Z
Duration: 3 min 19 s

進階被動語態

No, I've been left unread for two whole minutes.

沒有，我已經被已讀兩分鐘了。

天啊，寶貝，我真的好對不起。

You know, I hate to be like a newsy about it, but, like, if he wanted to, he would.

妳知道，我不太想講這種掃興的話，但，如果他想的話，他就會。

Like, I get that he's going through the trial for his estranged father's brutal murder and navigating that grief as the sole pillar of his mother's support system, but

像是，我明白他正在經歷他疏遠的父親被殘忍謀殺的審判，並且作為他母親唯一的精神支柱來處理那份悲傷，但是

like, if he wanted to buy me a seven day cruise to the Mediterranean, he would.

像是，如果他想買一趟七天的地中海郵輪給我，他就會。

I mean, guys are just not that complicated.

They're basic, you know, it's an equation as simple as 6C026H20 goes to C6H12O6602.

他們很基本，你知道的，就像 6C026H20 變成 C6H12O6602 一樣簡單的公式。

Like, he didn't even want to hang out for St.

像是，他連聖派翠克節都不想出來，因為他狗狗過世了，他想辦喪事。

Patty's Day because his dog died and he wanted to throw at a funeral.

拜託，你為什麼要用這種掃興的氛圍破壞我們的追劇日？

Like, why are you ruining our binge day with this bummer vibe?

If he wanted to guzzle a dozen beers with you decked out like a green machine instead of sending off the spirit of his loving companion, he would.

如果他想穿得像綠巨人一樣，跟你一起大口喝一打啤酒，而不是送走他心愛的毛小孩，他早就這麼做了。

Like, okay, you were laid off, your dog died, you're in a legal circus and you're battling all this childhood trauma, but

像是，好吧，你被裁員了，你的狗狗過世了，你還在處理一堆法律問題，同時又在對抗童年創傷，但是

like, if he wanted to, he would, he would, he would.

像是，如果他想，他就會，他就會，他就會。

Like a thought entered my brain just to play devil's avocado.

就像，一個想法跑進我腦袋裡，只是為了跟我唱反調。

Do you maybe think that oversimplifying a complicated situation that a three dimensional human being is undergoing that we don't understand and never will into a platitude like, if he wanted to, he would.

你是不是覺得，把一個三維人類正在經歷，我們不理解也不會理解的複雜情況，簡化成一句「如果他想，他就會」這種陳腔濫調，

Is a huge disservice to the nuance that comes with any relational dynamic.

是對任何關係動態中固有的細微差別，造成了巨大的傷害。

That I can't explain the complex behaviors of another person with a generalized trendy statement from TikTok that maybe factors out of my control and his control mean I have to approach our budding relationship with patience and compassion and kindness instead of being completely self centered about my need for external validation?

意思是，我不能用一個來自 TikTok 的、時髦的、籠統的說法，來解釋另一個人的複雜行為，而這個說法可能忽略了我們雙方都無法控制的因素，導致我必須用耐心、同情和善良來面對我們剛萌芽的關係，而不是完全以自我為中心，只顧著我需要外部認同？

對啊，因為如果我想，我就會。

Thank you, the Patreons who supported today's video.

謝謝今天支持這支影片的 Patreon 贊助者們。

And thank you as always, to my father, my biological Daddy Squarespace for sponsoring today's episode Daddy Squarespace makes it easy for creators to monetize our content and expertise in a way that fits our brand.

還有，一如往常，感謝我的爸爸，我的親生 Daddy Squarespace 贊助了今天的節目，Daddy Squarespace 讓創作者能以符合品牌形象的方式，輕鬆地將我們的內容和專業知識變現。

So with member areas you can unlock a new revenue stream for your business and free up time in your schedule at the same time by selling access to gated content like videos, online courses or newsletters.

所以透過會員專區，你就能為你的事業解鎖新的收入來源，同時透過販售影片、線上課程或電子報等付費內容的存取權，來節省你的時間。

Plus, online booking and scheduling is available if you offer services, making it easier than ever for your clients to schedule classes or sessions.

另外，如果你有提供服務，線上預約和排程功能也一應俱全，讓你的客戶能比以往更容易預約課程或時段。

And they have access to your availability and can reschedule online so you don't have to deal with any of the hassle of coordinating calendars.

而且他們還能查看你的空檔時間並線上重新預約，這樣你就不用費心處理協調行事曆的麻煩了。

If you're a content creator like myself and you utilize video, they have videostudio where you can create pro level videos effortlessly and their VideoStudio app helps you make and share engaging content so that you can tell your story, grow your audience and drive sales.

如果你像我一樣是個內容創作者，而且有在使用影片，他們有 videostudio，讓你輕鬆製作專業級影片，他們的 VideoStudio app 也能幫助你製作和分享引人入勝的內容，讓你說出你的故事、拓展觀眾群並帶動銷售。

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到 squarespace.com 試用看看，準備好上線時，請到 squarespace.com/anna 並輸入代碼 Anna，享有首次購買網站或網域 9 折優惠。

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