Name: 6 個跡象表明你遇見對的人了！ (6 Signs Someone May Be Right For You)
Uploaded: 2026-01-14T11:55:16.000Z
Duration: 4 min 23 s

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Is an important question to ask ourselves before pursuing a romantic relationship.

這是我們在追求一段感情之前，很重要的一個問題。

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And since you clicked this video, it's probably something that's been on your mind lately too.

既然你點進來這個影片，這應該也是你最近一直在思考的事情吧。

And according to psychotherapist Annie Wright, they say you'll know when you know isn't always true either.

根據心理治療師 Annie Wright 的說法，她說「你知道就是知道」這句話並不總是正確的。

In fact, it's likely that you'll experience moments of ambivalence, boredom, and

事實上，你很可能會在一段關係中經歷矛盾、厭倦，

even doubt at some point in a relationship, even if you're already with the right person.

甚至在某個時刻感到懷疑，即使你已經跟對的人在一起了。

So what are some important things you'll want to look out for in a partner?

那麼，在伴侶身上，有哪些重要的特質是我們需要留意的呢？

Well, according to experts, you should be with someone who does these six things.

嗯，專家表示，你應該要跟一個會做這六件事的人在一起。

Has integrity in the early stages of a relationship, it's actually not that uncommon to exaggerate our positive qualities and want to present ourselves in the best possible light.

在關係初期展現誠信，其實並不罕見，我們會誇大自己的優點，想讓自己看起來最好。

But according to relationship coach Saudia Twain, when all is said and done, you'll want to be with someone who stays true to their word and has integrity.

但根據關係教練 Saudia Twain 的說法，說到底，你還是會想跟一個言行一致、有誠信的人在一起。

They don't have to be perfect, says Twine, but

Twine 表示，他們不一定要完美，但

it's important that they uphold the same values as you and that their actions align with their words.

重要的是他們和你一樣重視價值觀，而且言行一致。

Listens According to therapist Tiana Leeds, it's important that you be with someone who values your presence and shows you by putting in the effort to listen and be there for you.

傾聽 治療師 Tiana Leeds 表示，重要的是你找一個重視你在他生命中的存在，並透過努力傾聽和陪伴來展現這一點的人。

Does your partner ask how your day was and listen attentively?

你的伴侶會問你今天過得怎麼樣，並專心傾聽嗎？

Do they pay attention to what you have to say and value your opinions?

他們會注意你說的話，重視你的意見嗎？

Do they put down their phone when talking to you or make you a priority in their life?

和你說話時，他們會放下手機，或者把你視為生活中的優先事項嗎？

All of these are important signs that this person genuinely cares about you and isn't just interested in what you can do for them or how the relationship serves them gives space.

這些都是這個人真心關心你，而不只是對你能為他們做什麼或這段關係對他們有什麼好處感興趣的重要跡象，他們會給你空間。

Another important green flag to look out for is if your partner is comfortable with you spending time apart.

另一個重要的綠旗是，你的伴侶是否樂見你們分開相處的時間。

Allowing you both to maintain your independence and draw healthy boundaries between the two of you is crucial, says therapist Emily Griffin, because it shows that they are secure in your relationship and genuinely want what's best for you.

治療師 Emily Griffin 表示，讓你們都能保持獨立性，並在兩人之間劃出健康的界線非常重要，因為這顯示他們對你們的關係很有安全感，並且真心希望你們都好。

Understanding that there are certain aspects of your life you can and should keep to yourselves, like having your own hobbies, passions and careers shows emotional maturity and allows you to maintain your own identities and gain a sense of self worth outside of your relationship.

理解有些生活面向你可以也應該保留給自己，像是擁有自己的興趣、熱情和事業，這展現了情緒成熟，也讓你能在關係之外維持自己的身份認同並獲得自我價值感。

Accept Marriage therapist Virginia Williamson says that one of the most important criteria in assessing whether your partner is right for you is if you feel comfortable around them.

婚姻治療師 Virginia Williamson 表示，評估你的伴侶是否適合你的最重要標準之一，就是你和他們在一起時是否感到自在。

So do you feel that you can open up to this person about anything and that they wouldn't judge you?

所以，你覺得可以毫無保留地向對方傾訴任何事，而且他們不會評判你嗎？

Do you think they really know you and if not, do you even want them to.

你認為他們真的瞭解你嗎？如果不瞭解，你希望他們瞭解嗎？

These are all important questions to ask ourselves to determine if we're with the right person.

這些都是我們該問自己，以判斷是否找對伴侶的重要問題。

Psychologist Barbara Santini also says that being able to express ourselves freely is integral to any happy and healthy relationship.

心理學家 Barbara Santini 也說，能夠自由表達自己，是任何快樂健康關係中不可或缺的一部分。

Opens up Much like our earlier point, acceptance and disclosure need to go both ways for our relationship to succeed, says certified relationship coach Kelly Goncalves.

如同我們前面提到的，關係教練 Kelly Goncalves 表示，接受和揭露必須是雙向的，關係才能成功。

So it's important that your partner opens up to you too.

所以，你的伴侶也願意向你敞開心扉也很重要。

According to Goncalves, being able to have deep conversations with each other about your innermost thoughts and feelings is a good indicator of compatibility, trust and emotional intimacy.

根據 Goncalves 的說法，能夠與彼此深入交談內心想法和感受，是契合度、信任和情緒親密度的良好指標。

Being with someone who's comfortable talking about their feelings also makes it easier for you to resolve conflicts constructively and communicate openly.

和一個自在談論感受的人在一起，也能讓你更容易建設性地解決衝突並坦誠溝通。

Celebrate Much like friendships, relationships can't thrive when there is rivalry and resentment, so pay close attention to how your partner reacts when you tell them about your success, says relationship expert Pippa Murphy.

慶祝 關係專家 Pippa Murphy 表示，就像友情一樣，關係中若有競爭和怨恨，就無法蓬勃發展，所以要密切注意當你告訴伴侶你的成功時，他們的反應。

Do they celebrate and support you unconditionally or does it make them feel jealous and they try to put you down?

他們是無條件地為你慶祝和支持你，還是會讓他們感到嫉妒並試圖貶低你？

Being with someone who celebrates our success is important for our self esteem, encourages our personal growth, and

和一個能為我們成功喝采的伴侶在一起，對我們的自我價值感很重要，能鼓勵我們個人成長，並且

Whatever it is you may be looking for in a partner, the bottom line is you should be with someone who makes you feel good about yourself, who values the relationship and is willing to put in the effort, and

無論你在伴侶身上尋找什麼，重點是，你應該和一個讓你對自己感覺良好、重視這段關係並願意付出努力的人在一起，而且

所以，你對這支影片有什麼想法呢？

What are some other important things you look for in a.

你還會尋找哪些其他重要的特質。