每日口說挑戰別急著給建議，讓你成為更好的朋友 (One thing that makes you a better friend)

DAY462
不給意見真的很難
有時候還會覺得你不聽我意見那跟我講幹嘛
(雖然別人給我意見我也常常不想聽)

PS
一下VT不給上傳
一下誤點到重新整理
一下爸爸哥哥亂入
今天到底怎麼肥四 (●'Д'●)

Today's issue:
Do you also give your friends advices without them asking?
-> Yes. Unfortunately very often.
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1.
a. provide [prəˋvaɪd] (v.) 撫養，贍養
-> Our gender should not decide who should provide this family economically.
我們的性別不應該決定由誰來撫養這個家庭的經濟。

b. breadwinner [ˋbrɛd͵wɪnɚ] (v.) 掙錢養家的人
-> Who is the breadwinner in your family?
你們家是誰在賺錢養家的？

c. supply [səˋplaɪ] (v.) 供給，供應
-> Are you familiar with the law of supply and demand?
你熟知供給需求的法則嗎？

d. issue [ˋɪʃjʊ] (v.) 發給，配給，核發
-> In 2009, the government issued a coupon of 3600 NTD for every resident in Taiwan and they hope to help the economy.
在2009年，政府為了拼經濟，所以給台灣人民每人3600元的消費券。

e. give [gɪv] (v.) 給；送給，給與
-> This is a chance for you to give something back to the community.
這是一個你可以回饋社會的機會。

2.
a. advice [ədˋvaɪs] (n.) 勸告，忠告
-> He gives very good advice. Maybe you should turn to him.
他給出的意見都很好，或許你該向他尋求協助。

b. opinion [əˋpɪnjən] (n.) 意見，見解
-> Did I ask for your opinion?
我有問你的意見嗎？

c. suggestion [səˋdʒɛstʃən] (n.) 建議
-> I have a suggestion for you. Just hear me out.
我有一個建議給你，你聽聽看。

3.
a. intention [ɪnˋtɛnʃən] (n.) 意圖，目的
-> It’s not my intention to lie to you.
我不是故意要對你說謊。

b. aim [em] (v.) 瞄準，對準
-> Don’t settle. You’ve got to aim for the stars(moon).
不要屈就，志向要遠大一點。

c. mean well (phr.) 心存好意
-> Don’t be mad. He meant well.
不要生氣，他是好意的。

d. purpose [ˋpɝpəs] (v.) 目的，意圖
-> What’s your purpose in life?
你的人生目標是什麼？

4.
a. impulse [ˋɪmpʌls] (n.) 衝動
-> I’m so stressed out. I need to do some impulse buying after work.
我現在壓力好大，我下班後要去瘋狂購物。

b. instinct [ˋɪnstɪŋkt] (n.) 本能；天性；直覺
-> I trust my instincts.
我相信我的直覺。

c. urge [ɝdʒ] (n.) 強烈的慾望；衝動
-> If you can’t control your urges, you might as well be a savage.
如果你不能控制你的慾望，那你根本就是野蠻人。

d. intuition [͵ɪntjuˋɪʃən] (n.) 直覺
-> My intuition is telling me something’s wrong with this person.
我的直覺告訴我，這個人有點問題。

5.
a. need [nid] (n.) 需要；需求
-> I need your help. Could you come by my office at ten?
我需要你的幫忙，你可以在十點時來我的辦公室嗎？
-> She’s really needy, and she’s always seeking for attention.
她很粘人，而且總是在尋求大家的注意。

b. clingy [ˋklɪŋɪ] (adj.) 黏著的；緊貼的；易黏的
-> My boyfriend is surprisingly clingy.
我的男朋友黏人到令我驚訝。
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I've noticed recently that I have a pattern. I offer unsolicited advice all the time when my friends have problems. And I know the intentions are good, because when we see someone we care about suffering, our impulse is to, like, help and to fix them and to give them anything that they need.

I've noticed recently that I have a pattern. I offer unsolicited advice all the time when my friends have problems. And I know the intentions are good, because when we see someone we care about suffering, our impulse is to, like, help and to fix them and to give them anything that they need.

【造句深夜小劇場】
“I don’t know what your INTENTION is. But here comes my ADVICE: He has a wife and two kids to PROVIDE for, but he just can’t curb his IMPULSE dating. I’m his only love and I can give him anything that he NEEDS” said the guy’s lover, who called me the other day.

I've noticed recently that I have a pattern. I offer unsolicited advice all the time when my friends have problems. And I know the intentions are good, because when we see someone we care about suffering, our impulse is to, like, help and to fix them and to give them anything that they need.

■pattern [ˋpætɚn]方式，形式；模式；範本，典範；榜樣；圖案，花樣；圖樣；樣品，樣本
以圖案裝飾，給…加上花樣；仿造，模仿
■unsolicited [͵ʌnsəˋlɪsɪtɪd]未經要求的；自動發出的; 主動提出的
■impulse [ˋɪmpʌls] 衝動，一時的念頭；推動力、刺激；脈衝
☺I've noticed recently that I have a pattern. I offer unsolicited advice all the time when my friends have problems. And I know the intentions are good, because when we see someone we care about suffering, our impulse is to, like, help and to fix them and to give them anything that they need.
我最近發現我有個習慣：每當我的朋友有困擾的時候，我都會(雞婆)主動給意見。我知道自己也是出於一片好意，因為當我們看見自己在乎的人在受苦，我們最直接的反應就是想要幫他們解決煩惱，並提供任何他們所需要的協助。
【心得】有時候還是要克制一下，萬一是餿主意會更讓人困擾。

Thanks, Cyndi.
I seldom give my friends advice because most of the time I have no idea what advice to give.
因為通常都幫不上忙，所以很少給建議...大概只能傾聽了

I've noticed recently that I have a pattern. I offer unsolicited advice all the time when my friends have problems. And I know the intentions are good, because when we see someone we care about suffering, our impulse is to, like, help and to fix them and to give them anything that they need.

因為好心，常被雷親☺

今天錄音內容比較長 最後也有一個英文問題想詢問大家

day 400~400~來個紀錄~

只是倒垃圾的 > 聽聽就好
真心想垃圾減量的 > 認真給建議
想將垃圾回收處理的 > 陪他去做活動

Day98 我有時也會給意見，但是是在他們問我的時候