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success is
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overrated
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I knew all these motivational guys, the gurus, they're gonna be salty. They say "Go! Go! Go! Hustle hard
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skip sleep, make money. That's cool! It has its place
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but all of that takes second priority to enjoying your life
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to loving the people around you
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'cause let me tell you this. the death of all these celebrities
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the death of the people around me really got me thinking about how short
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life
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is
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and if you listen to these guys who say "Go, go, go",
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you're going to miss
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what's important. you're gonna find yourself climbing up a ladder
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and if you get to the top, that's if, you get to the top
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you're gonna realize dang...
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it was really against the wrong wall
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I promise you there are a lot of successful people in the graveyard right now.
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That would happily, I guarantee you, happily give anything to be
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Above-ground one more day so that they can tell their family, to tell their friends, that they love them. Just one more time.
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Because that's what's important as the old saying goes
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There has never been a deathbed regret. That went "Boy, I
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wish I'd spent more time in the office." Or "Boy, I wish I spent more time hustling". Or "Boy,
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I wish I spent more time making more money." It was Jack Kornfield who said "In the end
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1: How well we lived
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2: How well we loved and
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3:How well we learned...... to LET GO.
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He didn't say how well we we built our bank accounts. He didn't say how well we we built our mansions.
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He didn't say how well we built our social-media followings.
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You better wake up before his too late. I believe it was Shakespeare who said I've seen many unhappy kings
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But many happy shoemakers. Zig Ziglar said "Everybody knows that money won't make them happy
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But everybody wants to find out for themselves."
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So listen to me brother, I'm not saying don't be successful
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There's nothing wrong with financial success. But say I'm an entrepreneur myself. I like money
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In fact, I'm gonna tell you a secret. I don't think you can get too much money
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but if money gets
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you.
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That's too much
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If money becomes your god
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If you make a million dollars, but lose your friends, and your family, in the process,
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Is that success? If you make a billion dollars,
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but lose your health in the process, is that
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success? These guys talk about don't sleep what you mean "Don't sleep". What do you mean "Don't sleep?" Sleep is more important in your diet and
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exercise program combined. You can't think clearly if you don't sleep.
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It talking about I sleep when I'm dead. No, you'll be dead if you don't sleep. The Dalai Lama himself, he said "Man
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Sacrifices his health to build up his money. And then man
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sacrifices his money to rebuild
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his health." You ever felt bad for enjoying yourself? Like "Oh I should be doing this,
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I should be doing that." But you should be doing exactly what you're doing
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now, fully. Whether that's that's watching a movie. Whether that's, enjoying a night out with friends,
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you should be doing that fully.
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Don't let these guys, these gurus, guilt trip you out of enjoying your life, or taking care of you.
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Don't let your ambition
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become your prison
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Imagine you grind hard every day for years and you finally get the dream car
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you always wanted, but you don't have anybody in that passenger seat to ride with you.
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You're driving so fast, you don't even appreciate the breeze
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blowing through your hair.
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Your hand you better slow down.
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Slow down and enjoy this thing called life.
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Enjoy the moments. You only have a limited number of them.
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Stop always grinding. See when you're grinding, you're going to get something. You need to flow with life.
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Flow. Stop and smell the flowers and give other people the flowers while they, still smell them. Because in the end...
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only three things truly matter.
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How well we lived, how well we loved, and how well we learned
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to let go.
