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  • Hey everyone!

    嗨大家好!

  • I wanted to tell you a story,

    我要告訴你們一個故事

  • something that happened to me at Vidcon last June.

    是在去年 6 月我參加 YouTube 舉辦的 Vidcon 大會時發生的

  • So I got into my hotel pretty late,

    有一天我回到旅館已經很晚了

  • went to say hi to a couple of youtubers that I know,

    遇到幾個認識的youtuber

  • and we're down socializing in this main area,

    大夥就在大廳閒聊

  • and this woman walks up.

    然後這個女人就出現了

  • She's friends with a couple of these people

    她是那群人裡面某些人的朋友

  • so I introduce myself, say hi,

    於是我向她說嗨並且做自我介紹

  • and the conversation continues.

    然後我們繼續交談

  • And at one point, out of nowhere,

    聊著聊著很突然地,莫名其妙地

  • she just starts to attack me.

    她開始言語攻擊我

  • "You think you're hot shit, don't you,

    「妳以為妳很屌,對不對

  • with that big baggy sweater,

    故意穿著鬆垮的毛衣,

  • like you don't give a fuck."

    裝出一副對什麼事都不屑的樣子」

  • "You know the only reason people like you

    「妳自以為長得可愛

  • is because you're a cute girl, right?"

    大家就會喜歡妳,對不對?」

  • At this point, I'm just shocked.

    當時,我整個人都驚呆了

  • I was like : "Yeah, I'm gonna go now."

    我當下想:「好吧,我該閃人了」

  • I went back to my hotel room,

    我回到旅館的房間

  • called Nate and just cried.

    打電話給奈特並且忍不住放聲大哭

  • I didn't understand why this women who I just met,

    我實在無法理解為何一個我剛認識的女人

  • who was super popular on Youtube,

    一個 YouTube 網紅

  • knew nothing about me,

    根本不認識我

  • would have such animosity toward me.

    竟然對我說出這麼敵意的話

  • When I was growing up, pretty much all my friends were guys,

    在我成長的階段,我的朋友幾乎都是男生

  • I really distanced myself from women,

    我刻意地和女人保持距離

  • thought that they were catty and shallow,

    我認為女人是陰險而膚淺的

  • got a little older and realized :

    等我長大了才認知到:

  • "Oh my God! I'm a sexist!"

    「天啊!我是個性別歧視者!」

  • I realized that I felt like I was in competition with other women,

    我發現我自認為活在和女人競爭的狀態之中

  • competition to be the prettiest, to be the smartest,

    要成為最漂亮的,最聰明的

  • have the most friends, whatever.

    交友最廣的,任何事都要爭第一

  • I think that, at least in some ways,

    我認為,至少在某些方面要這樣

  • my experience at Vidcon and my feelings about women growing up

    我參加 Vidcon 大會與我對女性反感的情緒與日俱增

  • are related.

    是有關聯的

  • They both come back to a phenomenon that I'm going to call :

    這些都源自於一種情結,我稱之為:

  • girl hate.

    女人的仇恨情結

  • Girl hate is tearing fellow women down

    女人的仇恨情結只為了一些瑣碎且毫無根據的理由

  • for petty and unwarranted reasons.

    將女性族群撕裂

  • It's thinking that you're the only woman

    這就好像說你是唯一的女性

  • who likes to read or plays sports, or plays videogames,

    喜歡閱讀或運動、或玩電腦遊戲

  • because all the other women are too busy

    因為其他的女性都是

  • being catty, overly emotional drama-queens.

    陰險狡猾,小題大作而且情緒化的人

  • Girl hate is :

    女人的仇恨情結就像是:

  • "Oh my God, I would never wear that much make-up."

    「天啊,我再也不要化濃妝了。」

  • "She tries so hard, it just makes her look desperate."

    「她那麼拚,只是讓她看起來很絕望。」

  • "You think you're hot shit, don't you?"

    「妳自以為很屌,是嗎?」

  • It's a willingness to backstab and humiliate.

    這是一種想陷害和羞辱他人的意念

  • It's being hypercritical of each other,

    互相批評

  • degrading each other's bodies,

    貶低對方

  • and carrying a bitterness toward fellow women.

    對女性同胞帶來痛苦

  • From birth, women are bombarded with messages

    打從出生開始,女性就飽受一些訊息的轟炸

  • that tell them their worth is tied to how they look.

    這些訊息告訴她們,她們的價值和外表兩者息息相關的

  • In order to be important, valuable and worth loving,

    為了要成為重要,有價值,值得愛的人物

  • you have to look hot.

    你必須看起來像是個辣妹

  • The right hair, the right body

    時髦的頭髮,曼妙的身材

  • The list goes on.

    還不只這些

  • But it doesn't end with your body.

    擁有臉蛋身材還不夠

  • You also need to be fiercely intelligent

    妳還需要非常聰明

  • so that people don't think that you're a bimbo.

    才不會被認為只是個花瓶

  • And don't forget to show just the right amount of emotions

    別忘了還要適度表達妳的情感

  • so they don't think you're a cold bitch or overly emotional.

    這樣才不會被認為冷血或做作

  • Oh, and make sure you pick out the right wardrobe

    噢,妳還要確保穿著得體

  • because you don't wanna be a prude or a slut.

    因為妳不會想被叫假掰或是蕩婦吧

  • And while you're at it,

    當這些都搞定了以後

  • make sure you find a high-powered career

    妳還要有一份高尚的職業

  • that will also allow you to be the perfect mom.

    這才能讓妳成為一個賢妻良母

  • No pressure or anything.

    我不是要給妳壓力哦

  • It creates this deep-seated expectation within ourselves

    這些要求使我們心中產生了一種根深蒂固的期待

  • to be perfect.

    期待自己成為完美的化身

  • It's a little voice in the back of your head that says:

    有一個微小的聲音總是在妳背後說:

  • "You're not good enough!"

    「妳還不夠好!」

  • It isn't any wonder then

    這沒什麼好奇怪的

  • that there is an atmosphere of competition amongst women

    女性之間存在著一種競爭的氛圍

  • that sometimes results in feeling bitter,

    有時會讓人感到痛苦

  • frightened, tearing down others to raise yourself up

    害怕,打擊別人來成就自己

  • No suprises here.

    在這裡可是司空見慣

  • How do we end this madness?

    我們要如何終結這種愚蠢的行為?

  • Ending girl hate requires all of us

    要終結女人的仇恨情結就必須大家能清楚自我認知

  • to recognize when we're girl hating.

    自己是否有這種行為

  • What's the difference between girl hate

    妳因為某人很爛所以討厭她與女人的仇恨情結

  • and just hating someone who sucks?

    兩者間有什麼差異呢?

  • Girl hate usually isn't deserved.

    女人的仇恨情結通常是不值得的

  • Of course, it's easy to justify the negative feelings

    當然,要將妳對別人的這種負面情緒合理化

  • you might have for someone,

    是很容易的

  • which is why ending girl hate

    這也是為什麼要終止女人的仇恨情結

  • also requires us to be honest with ourselves,

    需要我們誠實面對自己

  • to really examine why we feel the way we do about someone.

    真心地檢視為什麼我們對某人會有那樣的感覺

  • The hope is that by becoming more honest and self-aware,

    希望藉由真誠的自我檢視和認知

  • that we can cultivate a world of girl love!

    我們可以培養出一個女人相愛情結

  • Girl love is supporting each other,

    女人相愛情結是相互扶持

  • it's hoping to see each other succeed,

    希望彼此都能成功

  • it's fighting together against some bullshit

    它是一起對抗一些狗屁倒灶的事

  • instead of fighting amongst each other.

    而不是互相爭鬥

  • Girl love is saying :

    女人相愛情結告訴我們:

  • "Fuck these unrealistic expectations!

    「去他的這些不切實際的期待!

  • You don't have to be perfect.

    妳不需要是一個完美的人

  • And neither do I!"

    我也不需要!」

  • Girl love is recognizing the positive in each other

    女人相愛情結是認識到彼此陽光的一面

  • and building strong relationships off of it.

    並且相互建立堅強的情誼

  • When I started to bring girl love into my life,

    當我開始將女人相愛情結帶進我的生活後

  • not only did I feel more confident,

    不僅我變得更有自信

  • but I also made a bunch of female friends

    我還交到一大票女性朋友

  • and realized how kick-ass women are!

    並且領悟到了什麼才是不起的女性

  • I'm sure for some of you, that sounds kind of silly,

    我很確定妳們之中有些人,會認為我講這個主題有點無聊

  • especially if you're not a woman,

    尤其如果妳不是身為女性更會這樣認為

  • but for me, you know, it was kind of a big thing.

    但對我而言,這是很重要的

  • Anyhow, I just thought I'd share some of my experiences.

    總之,我只是想和大家分享我的經驗

  • I love y'all very much,

    我好愛妳們

  • and I will be back with a new video soon.

    我很快會為妳們帶來更多的影片

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嗨大家好!

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