Name: 相信命運的人，更容易被鬼魂纏身！👻 (People who believe in destiny more likely to ghost you)
Uploaded: 2025-11-19T16:50:13.000Z
Duration: 2 min 53 s

那個《Game of Thrones》的男生怎麼樣了？

After three whole months of chatting, he just ghosted me.

聊了整整三個月，他就這樣 ghosted 我。

No, he posted a photo of a flower on Instagram, and they're not from his funeral.

不是啦，他在 Instagram 上傳了一張花的照片，那不是他喪禮的花。

Like, what could have possibly made him do that?

到底是什麼原因讓他做出這種事？

A study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships called Ghosting and Implicit Theories of Relationships Predict Beliefs About Ghosting examined two implicit theories of relationships and found that people who endorse destiny belief tend to think that partners are either compatible or not and that relationships that do not start off well inevitably fail.

一篇發表在 Journal of Social and Personal Relationships 的研究，標題是 Ghosting and Implicit Theories of Relationships Predict Beliefs About Ghosting，探討了兩種 implicit theories of relationships，發現那些認同 destiny belief 的人，傾向認為伴侶要嘛就是契合，要嘛就是不契合，而且一開始就不順利的關係，最終一定會失敗。

Whereas people who endorse gross beliefs believe that ideal relationships develop gradually over time and that obstacles can even make love stronger.

相反地，那些認同 gross beliefs 的人，認為理想的關係是隨著時間慢慢發展的，而困難甚至能讓感情更堅定。

So he just didn't think we were meant to be?

所以他只是覺得我們不是 destined to be？

And those with stronger destiny beliefs were more likely to indicate that ghosting was a socially acceptable way to end a romantic relationship and were 31.8% more likely to have ghosted someone.

而 destiny beliefs 越強的人，越可能認為 ghosting 是一種 socially acceptable 的結束 romance 的方式，而且有 ghosting 過別人的機率高出 31.8%。

If you're gonna ghost people, do it the right way.

如果你真的要 ghosting 別人，那就好好做。

People who endorse destiny beliefs are also more likely to ghost to friend, too.

相信 destiny beliefs 的人，也比較容易 ghosting friend。

He did not have any friends on Game of Thrones like him or like his character?

Game of Thrones 裡面沒有像他這樣的朋友，或是喜歡他這個 character 嗎？

Like his character or like his character?

喜歡他的 character 還是喜歡他這個人？

But if you can play that character, it probably says a lot about his character.

但如果你能扮演那個 character，這可能也說明瞭很多關於他這個 character 的事。

You don't want to be with someone like that anyway, bestie.

這種人你本來就不想在一起啦，好姐妹。

I don't want to be with someone who feels it's okay to ghost me for an hour.

我不想跟那種覺得可以 ghost me 一小時的人在一起。

那只是那個男人在過他自己的生活。

You just wasted my time, just like Jon Snow.

你浪費我的時間，就像瓊恩·雪諾一樣。

Therapy has helped my life in immeasurable ways.

Therapy 真的讓我的生活有無法衡量的幫助。

It's taught me things like emotional regulation, self reflection, and

它教會我 emotional regulation、self reflection，還有

how to change patterns that were really destroying my life.

如何改變那些真的在摧毀我人生的 patterns。

And look, finding the right therapist is kind of like dating like someone who could be so right for me could be so wrong for you.

聽著，找到對的 therapist 就像 dating 一樣，那個對我來說可能很適合的人，對你來說可能完全不行。

But I think the most important part of therapy is to find someone who you resonate with, whose advice you value, and

但我覺得 therapy 最重要的部分是找到一個你覺得有共鳴、你重視他建議的人，

who can offer you tools that are suited and nuanced to your specific life.

並且他能提供適合你個人生活、細膩的工具。

So BetterHelp is the sponsor of today's video and they want to help make starting therapy easier.

所以 BetterHelp 是今天影片的贊助商，他們想讓開始 therapy 變得更容易。

And I have so many friends who have used BetterHelp and have had such a positive experience with their therapists.

我有很多朋友用過 BetterHelp，跟他們的 therapist 都有很棒的經驗。

And yeah, sometimes it can take you a second to find that therapist, right?

對，有時候找到對的 therapist 需要一點時間，對吧？

It's like finding a good human connection.

這就像在尋找一個很棒的人際連結。

But luckily, BetterHelp allows you to switch therapists easily until you find someone that you connect with.

但幸好 BetterHelp 讓你很容易就能更換 therapist，直到你找到你喜歡的對象。

To start with, you just fill out a questionnaire and you'll be matched with a qualified and licensed therapist in as little as a few days.

一開始，你只要填寫一份問卷，幾天內你就會配對到一位合格且有執照的 therapist。

If you're struggling, you can click the link in the description or go to betterhelp.comakana and get 10% off your first month of therapy.

如果你有困難，可以點擊說明欄的連結，或是到 betterhelp.comakana 享有首月 therapy 九折優惠。

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