Name: 你們還能做朋友嗎？需要注意的 7 個跡象 (Can You Be Friends Again? 7 Signs to Watch For!)
Uploaded: 2025-08-20T18:28:09.000Z
Duration: 5 min 43 s

7 Signs Your Ex-Best Friend Wants You Back

前摯友希望你回到身邊的 7 個跡象

反身代名詞

Losing a best friend can feel like losing a piece of yourself.

失去好友的感覺就像失去了自己的一部分。

情態副詞

The inside jokes, the late-night talks, the shared dreams...it's painful when all that suddenly disappears.

內部笑話、深夜談話、共同的夢想......當這一切突然消失時，會讓人感到痛苦。

But what happens when they start reaching out again?

但是，當他們再次開始接觸時會發生什麼呢？

Could they want to rekindle your friendship?

Let's explore 7 Signs Your Ex-Best Friend Wants You Back, and by the end, we'll leave you with a quiz to help you decide what steps to take next.

讓我們來探討一下你的前摯友希望你回到她身邊的 7 個跡象，最後，我們會給你留下一個小測試，幫助你決定下一步該採取什麼措施。

Nothing says, I want you back, louder than hearing, I miss you.

沒有什麼比聽到 "我想你 "更能表達 "我想你回來 "了。

Admitting this takes courage and vulnerability, and it's a clear sign they're ready to rebuild what was lost.

承認這一點需要勇氣和脆弱，這清楚地表明他們已經準備好重建失去的一切。

Imagine they text you, I miss having you in my life.

想象一下，他們給你發短信，說我想念你在我生命中的樣子。

Would you feel relief, excitement, or hesitation?

你會感到輕鬆、興奮還是猶豫？

Research from the University of Kansas shows that authentic expressions of regret and longing can reignite trust in relationships.

堪薩斯大學的研究表明，真實地表達悔恨和憧憬可以重新點燃人際關係中的信任。

But here's the key, their actions must back up their words.

但關鍵在於，他們必須言行一致。

They Apologize or Acknowledge Their Mistakes

A heartfelt apology can be the foundation of reconciliation.

發自內心的道歉可以成為和解的基礎。

If they're taking responsibility for their part in the fallout, it shows maturity and genuine care.

如果他們能為自己的過失承擔責任，就說明他們是成熟的，是真正關心他人的。

Imagine them saying, I've been thinking about how I handled things, and I realize I hurt you, I'm sorry.

想象他們說，我一直在思考我是如何處理事情的，我意識到我傷害了你，我很抱歉。

A study from Ohio State University found that genuine apologies rebuild trust only when paired with meaningful actions.

俄亥俄州立大學的一項研究發現，真正的道歉只有與有意義的行動相結合才能重建信任。

Words alone aren't enough, watch for follow-through.

光說不練假把式，要注意後續行動。

Do they keep reminding you of the good times?

他們會不斷提醒你那些美好的時光嗎？

Media is a powerful tool for reconnecting emotionally.

媒體是重新建立情感聯繫的有力工具。

It's their way of saying, I miss what we had.

他們用這種方式來表達 "我懷念我們曾經擁有的一切"。

Picture this, you're scrolling through your old photos when you get a text from them saying, remember this?

想象一下，你正在翻閱以前的照片，突然收到他們發來的簡訊：還記得這個嗎？

Are they bringing up the past to rekindle your bond, or are they avoiding the hard conversations about what went wrong?

他們是在重提往事以重燃你們的情誼，還是在迴避關於出了什麼問題的艱難對話？

Are they suddenly liking your posts, leaving supportive comments, cheering you on from the sidelines?

他們是否突然喜歡上了你的文章，留下了支持性的評論，在一旁為你加油鼓勁？

These small gestures can be their way of saying, I still care.

這些小動作可以是他們表達 "我仍然在乎 "的方式。

Ask yourself, are they genuinely happy for you, or are they testing the waters to see if they're still welcome in your life?

捫心自問，他們是真心為你高興，還是在試探你是否還歡迎他們？

You haven't spoken in months and suddenly they message you, hey how you been?

你們幾個月沒聯繫了，他們突然給你發資訊，問你最近怎麼樣？

It may seem casual, but it's often a big step towards reopening the door.

這看似不經意，但往往是重新打開大門的一大步。

Do you feel excited, curious, or guarded when their name comes up?

當他們的名字出現在你面前時，你會感到興奮、好奇還是戒備？

Are mutual friends saying, they were asking about you the other day?

共同的朋友說，他們前幾天還在打聽你？

This indirect approach could mean they're unsure how to reach out, but still want to reconnect.

這種間接的方式可能意味著他們不知道如何聯繫，但仍想重新建立聯繫。

Imagine hearing this from a mutual friend, what's your first reaction?

想象一下，從共同的朋友那裡聽到這個消息，你的第一反應是什麼？

Would you want to reach out, or does it bring up old wounds?

你是想伸出援手，還是舊傷復發？

Do they suddenly start appearing in places you frequent?

它們會不會突然出現在你經常去的地方？

Like a cafe or a mutual friend's gathering?

比如咖啡館或共同朋友的聚會？

While it could be a coincidence, it might be a subtle way of testing the waters.

這可能是巧合，也可能是一種微妙的試探。

Is it fate, or are they hoping to bump into you without having to make the first move?

是命運的安排，還是他們希望在不主動的情況下與你不期而遇？

Now, let's reflect on what these signs mean for you.

現在，讓我們來思考一下這些跡象對你意味著什麼。

Have they apologized or acknowledged their mistakes?

Do they frequently bring up old memories?

它們是否經常勾起你的舊日回憶？

Have they started supporting you again, even in small ways?

Have they reached out to you unexpectedly?

他們是否在不經意間聯繫過你？

Are mutual friends mentioning that they've been asking about you?

共同的朋友是否提到他們一直在打聽你？

Have they been showing up in places you frequent?

它們出現在你經常去的地方嗎？

If you answered yes to four or more, it might be worth testing the waters, and seeing if the friendship can be rebuilt.

如果您的回答是 "是 "或 "不是"，那麼不妨試一試，看看能否重建友誼。

But remember, rebuilding trust takes time and effort on both sides.

但請記住，重建信任需要雙方付出時間和努力。

Or are you waiting for them to prove their sincerity?

還是在等待他們證明自己的誠意？

Let us know your thoughts and experiences in the comments below.

請在下面的評論中告訴我們您的想法和經驗。

And don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more insights on relationships and emotional wellness.

別忘了點贊、分享和訂閱，獲取更多關於人際關係和情感健康的見解。

Hi, I'm Nick Cain, an avid follower of Psych2Go.

大家好，我是 Nick Cain，Psych2Go 的忠實粉絲。

I've voiced some videos in the past, and now this video too.

我以前為一些視頻配過音，現在也為這個視頻配音。