Name: 可憐之人必有可恨之處是真的嗎？為什麼悲慘的人會煽風點火？ (Why Miserable People Stir the Pot)
Uploaded: 2025-08-09T21:01:30.000Z
Duration: 1 min 13 s

You know that saying, misery loves company?

你知道那句「痛苦喜歡有人作伴」的說法嗎？

情態副詞

People who are extreme agitators know exactly who they are and what they're doing.

極端煽動者很清楚自己是誰，在做什麼。

They live off of tension and they're usually painfully aware that being the only bitter person in the room makes them stand out, which is why they love to stir the pot and press your buttons.

他們以製造緊張為樂...他們通常痛苦地意識到，作為房間裡唯一的苦大仇深的人，他們會顯得格外突出，這就是為什麼他們喜歡攪局，向你施壓。

They bait you into reacting, not just to disrupt your peace, but to justify their own dysfunction.

他們誘使你做出反應，不僅僅是為了破壞你的平靜，也是為了證明他們自己的功能失調是合理的。

Like if they can rile you up, they feel less alone.

就像如果他們能激怒你，他們就不會感到孤獨。

If they can get you to match their energy, they feel more right about theirs.

如果他們能讓你配合他們的能量，他們就會覺得自己的能量更正確。

And what's crazy is many times, they don't even want to escape their problems.

更瘋狂的是，很多時候，他們甚至不想逃避問題。

The moment you allow yourself to participate and you let them draw you out of your best form,

一旦你允許自己參與其中，讓他們把你從最好的狀態中拉出來，

you reinforce the narrative in their mind that says you're faking it and that beneath it all, you're just as dysfunctional as they are.

你就會強化他們心中的敘述，說你是裝出來的，在這一切的背後，你骨子裡跟他們一樣有問題。

It costs them nothing, but costs you everything.

這不會讓他們付出任何代價，但卻會讓你付出一切代價。

So when someone tries to pull you into unnecessary conflict, chances are it's not even about you.

當有人試圖把你捲入不必要的衝突時，很可能根本不是因為你。

It's about the discomfort they feel when someone around them chooses peace.

這是關於當身邊有人選擇和平時，他們所感受到的不適。