Name: 如何分辨「假冒的」共情者！ (How to Spot a FAKE EMPATH)
Uploaded: 2025-12-15T17:56:36.000Z
Duration: 3 min 39 s

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Have you ever met someone who seemed very empathetic, but

你有沒有遇過一個看起來很有同理心，但

all their assumptions about what you were feeling were wrong?

他對你的感受的假設，全部都是錯的？

Perhaps you even come away feeling even more misunderstood.

甚至你離開時，感覺自己更不被理解了。

If so, you may have met a fake empath instead of a genuine one.

如果是這樣，你可能遇到的是假共情者，而不是真共情者。

They may tell you things you don't relate to or point out qualities that are inaccurate.

他們可能會跟你說一些你無法產生共鳴的話，或是精確指出一些不準確的特質。

If you've had these experiences, here are five signs of a fake empath.

如果你有這些經驗，這裡有五個假共情者的跡象。

Have you ever tried opening up to someone close to you, only to end up feeling like your problems got worse?

你有沒有試過向親近的人傾訴，結果卻感覺自己的問題變得更糟？

Fake empaths will tell you how you're feeling and why you're feeling this way.

假共情者會告訴你你感覺如何，以及你為什麼會有這種感覺。

Instead of simply trying to understand and be there for you, they'll try to analyze and diagnose, which may only make you feel worse than before.

他們不會只是試著去理解並陪伴你，反而會試圖分析和診斷，這只會讓你感覺比以前更糟。

In contrast, genuine empaths will take the time to hear you out, try to understand your situation, and

相對地，真共情者會花時間聽你說，試著理解你的處境，

provide you with the comfort and support you need.

They can't stand being wrong Fake empaths cannot stand being corrected when they make a wrong assumption about you.

他們無法忍受自己是錯的。假共情者在對你做出錯誤假設時，無法忍受被糾正。

This stems from the belief that they have a special ability to understand others, that their assumptions are always accurate and right.

這源於他們認為自己有特殊能力理解他人，他們的假設總是準確無誤的。

So telling them that they were wrong or saying no might end up shattering their ego and cause them to become very defensive.

所以告訴他們錯了，或是說「不」，可能會擊碎他們的自我，讓他們變得非常防禦性。

They may even start telling you that you're wrong about your own feelings.

他們甚至可能會告訴你，你對自己的感受是錯的。

Genuine empaths, on the other hand, will be more likely to understand that there's always room for error and be remorseful and apologetic when their assumptions are wrong.

相對地，真共情者比較能理解總有出錯的空間，並且在他們的假設錯誤時，會感到懊悔並道歉。

They will point out your negative feelings.

他們會精確指出你的負面情緒。

Fake empaths want to make you feel like they know and understand exactly what you feel, so they may go out of their way to pinpoint emotions you'd rather keep to yourself.

假共情者會讓你覺得他們確切地知道和理解你的感受，所以他們可能會費盡心思去精確指出你寧願藏在心裡的情緒。

This may mean pointing out and letting everyone know when you're upset, in grief or in pain.

這可能意味著他們會說出你難過、悲傷或痛苦的時候，讓所有人都知道。

In this way, they can show others their special ability to feel what others are feeling, although without much consideration to how it may end up hurting that person.

這樣一來，他們就能向別人展示他們感受他人情緒的特殊能力，儘管不太考慮這可能會傷害到那個人。

Number four they want everyone to know that they're empaths.

Are they always telling people how accurate their abilities are?

他們希望大家知道他們是共情者。

Another sign of a fake empath is if they're always announcing it to everyone, everywhere.

他們是不是總是告訴別人他們的感應能力有多準確？

This can mean seizing every opportunity to put the spotlight on them.

假共情者的另一個跡象是，他們是否總是到處向所有人宣告這件事。

In comparison, empaths don't require or desire the attention and concern that comes with disclosing their ability.

這可能意味著他們會抓住每一個機會來凸顯自己。

After all, if you say you can sense in other people's emotions, you'll probably get a lot of questions about it.

相比之下，真共情者不需要也不渴望在揭露自己能力時所伴隨的關注和關心。

And whilst a genuine empath may not appreciate these questions.

畢竟，如果你說你能感知別人的情緒，你可能會收到很多關於這方面的問題。

A fake one would love the attention they blame.

假共情者會很享受他們所獲得的關注。

Emotional Influence True empaths can feel and understand the emotional experiences of the people around them, which can sometimes be exhausting and impact their own emotions.

情緒影響 真共情者能感受到並理解周遭人們的情緒體驗，這有時會讓他們筋疲力盡，並影響他們自己的情緒。

However, even if it can affect how they feel, they won't allow it to have a detrimental impact on those around them.

然而，即使這會影響他們的感受，他們也不會讓它對周遭的人產生不利的影響。

This may mean removing themselves from a situation for some time to avoid upsetting their family or friends if their feelings become too powerful.

這可能意味著他們會暫時離開某個情況，以免在情緒過於強烈時讓家人或朋友感到不安。

In stark contrast, fake empaths will use this as a reason to justify their bad moods and unpleasant behavior.

相比之下，假共情者會以此為藉口來合理化他們糟糕的心情和令人不快的行為。

So do you think you've met a fake empath?

那麼，你覺得你遇過假共情者嗎？

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如果你覺得這個影片對你有幫助，請務必按讚、訂閱並分享給可能受益的人。

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別忘了點擊通知鈴鐺圖示，這樣 Psych2Go 發布新影片時你就會收到通知。

The references and studies used in this video are added in the description below.

本影片使用的參考資料和研究已加入下方說明。

Thanks so much for watching and see you in our next video.

非常感謝你的收看，我們下個影片見。