Name: 你的性渴望說明了很多問題 (Your Sexual Desires Say A Lot About You)
Uploaded: 2025-10-17T18:41:28.000Z
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Often, sexual attraction or lust is viewed as just physical in nature, a primal urge that is inherent to the human condition.

很多時候，性吸引力或慾望被視為純粹的生理現象，是人類處境中與生俱來的原始衝動。

We won't bore you with the evolutionary explanation on humans and sex.

我們不會用演化解釋來讓大家覺得無聊。

This isn't National Geographic, but the truth is it's not purely physical.

這不是國家地理頻道，但事實上，它並非純粹生理上的。

Our sexual desires can reveal deeper insight into our own unique psychology and personality, so understanding and reflecting on our sexual preferences can be a useful tool for self discovery and even growth.

我們的性慾望能揭示我們獨特心理學和個性的更深層次洞察，所以理解和反思我們的性偏好，能成為自我發現甚至成長的有用工具。

At Psych2go, our mission is to destigmatize topics around sex to empower and educate our audience.

在 Psych2go，我們的使命是去汙名化與性相關的議題，以賦權並教育我們的觀眾。

With that being said, let's dive into what our sexual desires and preferences can reveal about us.

說了這麼多，讓我們來深入探討我們的性慾望和性偏好能揭示關於我們什麼。

BDSM It's 2025, so we'll spare you the dated 50 shades of grey jokes.

BDSM 2025年了，我們就不開那種老掉牙的《格雷的五十道陰影》的玩笑。

But add Having a fetish or kink for BDSM can definitely tell an interesting story about who we are.

但擁有 BDSM 的性癖好或 kink，絕對能訴說一個關於我們是誰的有趣故事。

Bdsm, the acronym for Bondage and Discipline and Sadism and Masochism, is characterized by a power exchange dynamic during sex where one person plays the submissive role and the other plays the dominant role.

BDSM，是 Bondage 和 Discipline，以及 Sadism 和 Masochism 的縮寫，其特徵是在性行為中存在權力交換的動態，一個人扮演順從角色，另一個人扮演主導角色。

It's a well known and popular type of sex kink, so much so that in one study, over 74% of respondents chose BDSM as their favorite fetish.

這是一種眾所周知且受歡迎的性癖好類型，甚至在一項研究中，超過 74% 的受訪者選擇 BDSM 作為他們最喜歡的性癖好。

With that being said, a preference for dominance over submission or vice versa, can provide much deeper insight beyond just what we like in the bedroom.

說了這麼多，偏好主導或順從，或反之，能提供比我們在臥室裡喜歡什麼更深入的洞察。

Preferring the submissive role in BDSM exchange can indicate a deep desire for emotional release and loss of control, sometimes to even relieve stress and pressure.

偏好在 BDSM 交換中扮演順從角色，可能表示深層的情緒釋放和失控的渴望，有時甚至能緩解壓力。

sometimes it's those in higher power and stressful positions of authority that crave being dominated in the bedroom.

有時候，那些處於高位和壓力大的權力職位的人，反而渴望在臥室裡被支配。

Justin Lemiller, those who prefer to be dominated in the bedroom often have anxiety around sex and would rather have someone else assume the dominant role to take the pressure off them.

Justin Lemiller 的說法，那些在臥室裡偏好被支配的人，通常對性感到焦慮，並且寧願讓別人扮演主導角色來減輕他們的壓力。

Submission in the bedroom can be an indication of needing to feel intensely vulnerable and desired during sex, which can often be associated with an anxious attachment style.

在臥室裡順從，可能表示在性行為中需要感到極度的脆弱和被渴望，這常常與焦慮型依戀風格有關。

Conversely, those who prefer the dominant role in the bedroom may be craving a sense of control due to feeling powerless in other areas of their lives, such as work or school, and

相反地，那些在臥室裡偏好主導角色的人，可能是因為在生活的其他方面，例如工作或學業上感到無力，而渴望一種掌控感，

could be trying to compensate for that in the bedroom.

there are many complex reasons why a person would prefer sexual dominance over submission.

為什麼有些人會偏好性支配多於性順從，這背後有很多複雜的原因。

In a BDSM study published by the Journal of Sexual Medicine, the dominants had higher subjective well being and lower rejection sensitivity compared to the submissives and a control group of people drawn from the general population.

在《Journal of Sexual Medicine》發表的一項 BDSM 研究中，相較於順從者和一般對照組，支配者主觀幸福感較高，拒絕敏感度較低。

And another study on BDSM and personality traits also suggested that participants who preferred the dominant role scored lower in agreeableness and neuroticism compared to submissive participants and the general population.

另一項關於 BDSM 和個性特質的研究也顯示，偏好支配角色的參與者，與順從者和一般大眾相比，在宜人性（agreeableness）和神經質（neuroticism）方面得分較低。

Foot Fetish Feeling sexually aroused by feet may seem really taboo and deviant, but

戀足癖 感覺被腳性喚起，聽起來可能很禁忌又變態，但

While conducting research for his book, Dr.

Justin Lemiller conducted surveys on more than 4,000 people about their sexual fantasies and desires, including including those pertaining to feet.

Justin Lemiller 對超過 4,000 人進行了關於性幻想和性慾望的調查，其中也包含與腳相關的部分。

The surveys found that one in seven people, or 14%, report having a foot fetish or sexual fantasy related to feet.

調查發現，七分之一的人，也就是 14%，表示有戀足癖或與腳相關的性幻想。

So what does having a strong preference for feet in the bedroom reveal about someone?

那麼，在臥室裡對腳有強烈偏好，能透露出一個人什麼樣的訊息呢？

Well, just like bdsm, feet can symbolize either submission or dominance, which triggers arousal.

嗯，就像 BDSM 一樣，腳可以象徵順從或支配，進而引發性喚起。

For example, someone may feel aroused when their feet are being kissed or played with because it makes them feel like they're being worshipped and can provide a sense of power over the other person who's initiating the act.

舉例來說，有些人可能會在他們的腳被親吻或玩弄時感到興奮，因為這會讓他們覺得自己被崇拜，並能讓主導這項行為的另一方感受到權力。

It can also give insight about our attachment style.

這也能讓我們對依附風格有更深入的瞭解。

A person with a more anxious, preoccupied attachment style may find comfort in focusing on a partner's feet as a way of showing devotion or closeness, whereas a person with an avoidant attachment style might focus on feet because it offers a feeling of intimacy without feeling overwhelmed by eye contact or overtly sexual act.

一個比較焦慮、預佔型依附風格的人，可能會在專注於伴侶的腳時感到安慰，以此表達奉獻或親近；而一個迴避型依附風格的人，可能會專注於腳，因為這能提供親密感，卻又不會因為眼神接觸或過於直接的性行為而感到不知所措。

It's also important to understand that just because someone has been aroused by feet or fantasized about feet before doesn't necessarily mean that they have a full blown foot fetish.

同樣重要的是要了解，即使一個人過去曾對腳感到興奮或幻想過，這並不一定代表他們有嚴重的戀足癖。

And even if someone does have a sexual fetish, as Dr.

而且，即使一個人確實有性癖好，就像 Dr.

Lemiller puts it, fetishes don't mean you have a mental problem or that you're unable to establish healthy sexual or romantic relationships.

Lemiller 所說的，性癖好並不代表你有心理問題，或者你無法建立健康的性關係或戀愛關係。

Roleplay or Cosplay if you're a fan of cosplay or roleplay in the bedroom, then this might indicate that you're seeking a form of escape or distraction from your regular day to day life.

角色扮演或Cosplay 如果你是臥室裡的角色扮演或Cosplay 愛好者，這可能表示你正在尋求一種逃離日常生活的管道或分心方式。

Life According to clinical psychologist Dr.

Joshua Klapow, role play is simply an opportunity to escape our own reality.

Joshua Klapow 的說法，角色扮演只是一個逃離自身現實的機會。

By labeling it formally, we're permitted to act, speak, feel and think in a way that may be dramatically different from our true selves.

透過正式標籤化，我們被允許以一種可能與真實自我截然不同的方式去行動、說話、感受和思考。

There are various reasons why a person might choose to escape their reality by engaging in roleplay, such as needing a break from extreme stress or anxiety or even an escape from boredom.

一個人之所以會選擇透過角色扮演來逃離現實，原因有很多，像是需要從極度的壓力或焦慮中喘口氣，甚至是擺脫無聊。

As long as it doesn't interfere with important aspects of your life.

只要它不影響你生活中的重要面向。

Using roleplay as an escape mechanism can be healthy and a great way to spice things up in the bedroom.

將角色扮演作為一種逃避機制，其實可以是健康的，也是為臥室增添情趣的好方法。

Just remember that respect and consent are necessary when engaging in any type of sexual activity, so never feel obligated to do something you aren't comfortable with.

請記住，在進行任何類型的性行為時，尊重和同意都是必要的，所以絕對不要覺得有義務做你不自在的事情。

So what do you think your sexual desires are trying to tell you about yourself?

那麼，你認為你的性慾望想告訴你關於自己的什麼呢？

Do you agree with the insights from our video?

We truly appreciate your support and as always, stay kind and have a wonderful.

我們非常感謝你的支持，一如往常，請保持善良，有個美好的一天。

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