Name: 別低估自己！你比想像中更吸引人的跡象 (Signs You're More Attractive than you Think)
Uploaded: 2025-08-07T18:35:42.000Z
Duration: 4 min 26 s

Do you ever think that the way people see you is different from the way you see yourself?

你有沒有想過，別人眼中的你，和你自己眼中的你不一樣？

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Have you ever wondered whether or not you were attractive?

你有沒有想過自己是否有吸引力？

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If you're watching this video, the answer is probably yes.

如果你正在看這支影片，那答案很可能是「有」。

And hey, it's not always a bad thing to wonder about how other people see us.

而且，想知道別人如何看我們，其實並不總是壞事。

Maybe they see something good in us that we don't yet see in ourselves.

也許他們看到了我們自己還沒注意到的優點。

So if you've ever wanted to know whether you might actually be more attractive than you realize, here are seven subtle but psychologically backed ways to tell.

所以，如果你曾經想知道自己是否比自己想像中更有魅力，這裡有七個微妙但心理學上支持的方法來判斷。

Do you ever feel self conscious because people always seem to be paying attention to you?

你是否曾因為總覺得別人在注意你而感到不自在？

Have you ever introduced yourself to someone only for them to say, "Oh, I know who you are,"

你是否曾向某人自我介紹，他卻說：「喔，我知道你是誰，」

or be surprised that they remembered something about you that you just casually mentioned before?

或者對方記得你隨口提過的小事而感到驚訝？

If the answer is yes, then it means people pay attention to you.

如果答案是「是」，那就代表人們注意你。

And psychology says the more attractive a person is, the more attention other people tend to give them.

心理學指出，一個人越有吸引力，其他人往往會給予更多關注。

Maybe you're not the talkative or outgoing type, which makes it harder to tell how attractive other people find you because you don't really interact with them much.

也許你不是健談或外向型的人，這讓你難以判斷別人覺得你有多吸引力，因為你們互動不多。

Still, you can get a pretty good idea just from reading their body language and picking up on their nonverbal cues, especially eye contact.

不過，你仍然可以從觀察肢體語言和非語言訊號，尤其是眼神接觸，得到很好的線索。

Do people often stare at you or look you up and down whenever they see you or subtly try to catch your gaze?

人們是否經常盯著你看，或者每次看到你時會上下打量你，或偷偷嘗試與你對視？

Do you turn heads every time you walk into a room?

你走進房間時，是否總會吸引目光？

Or look at someone only for them to look away, embarrassed at having been caught staring at you?

或者你看向某人，他卻害羞地移開目光，因為被抓到盯著你看？

You're probably just more attractive than you [think].

你很可能比自己想像中更有魅力。

Similar to the last point, if people find you attractive but have little opportunity to act on it, they might resort to what we call hovering or benching.

和前一點類似，如果人們覺得你有吸引力但機會不多，他們可能會採取「環顧」或「觀望」的方式。

Because even if they can't talk to you, they still want to be around you.

即使不能直接和你說話，他們仍想待在你附近。

So they might just purposefully go to parties or events they know you'll be at,

所以他們可能會特意參加你會去的派對或活動，

stalk you on social media, or hang around places you tend to frequent, all for the chance of having even the most casual interaction with you.

在社群媒體上關注你，或出現在你常去的地方，只為了能有哪怕是最隨意的互動。

People come to you for styling, beauty or dating tips.

人們會向你請教穿搭、美妝或戀愛建議。

Another subtle sign that you're more attractive than you think is that people will often come to you for advice on things like styling, beauty, or dating.

另一個微妙的徵兆是，人們經常會向你請教穿搭、美妝或戀愛相關的建議。

Because it means that they want to be more like you, and that in itself is already such a compliment.

因為這意味著他們想變得像你，而這本身就是一種讚美。

They probably think you look good, have great style, or have no trouble finding romantic prospects,

他們可能覺得你外表好看、穿搭出色，或者戀愛運勢不錯，

and they want to know how you do it, indicating that they find you attractive.

想知道你是怎麼做到的，這表示他們覺得你有吸引力。

Psychology tells us that it's only natural to gravitate more towards better looking people.

心理學告訴我們，人們天生會更傾向於吸引力較高的人。

After all, it's called attraction for a reason.

So if people usually seem more comfortable around you, if they like joking around and making you laugh, or tend to be physically affectionate towards you even if you're not that close,

所以，如果人們在你身邊通常感到更自在，喜歡開玩笑逗你笑，或即使不熟也會表現出肢體親近，

then it's probably because they find you attractive and are subconsciously trying to tell you.

那很可能是因為他們覺得你有吸引力，並潛意識地想向你表達這點。

When strangers do something nice for us, we tend to ask ourselves, are they flirting or just being kind?

當陌生人對我們好時，我們往往會想，他們是在調情還是單純友善？

But the answer doesn't always have to be one or the other, because both could be true.

但答案不一定只能二選一，兩者都有可能。

So if strangers tend to act warmly towards you, smiling at you and trying to strike up a conversation,

所以，如果陌生人對你表現得很熱情，對你微笑、試著和你聊天，

or doing small favors like letting you [go] in front of them or helping you carry your things,

或者幫你做小事，例如讓你先過、幫你拿東西，

there's a good chance it's because they secretly find you attractive.

那很可能是因為他們暗地裡覺得你有吸引力。

Some people try to tear you down if people often try to tear you down for no good reason,

有些人會試圖打擊你，如果有人無緣無故地想打擊你，

either by talking about you behind your back, trying to belittle you, or spreading false rumors about you,

例如在背後說你壞話、貶低你，或散布謠言，

it might be because they find you attractive or know that most people do and it makes them feel threatened.

可能是因為他們覺得你有吸引力，或者知道大多數人認為你有魅力，這讓他們感到威脅。

Jealousy, as they say, is the highest form of flattery.

俗話說，嫉妒是最高級的讚美。

So don't be too surprised if some people try to tear you and your self esteem down even when unprovoked.

所以，如果有人即使無故也試圖打擊你或你的自尊心，不必太驚訝。

Take it as a sign that deep down inside they actually admire you and want to be more like you.

把它看作是一個信號，代表他們內心其實欣賞你，想變得像你一樣。

So do you relate to any of the things we've mentioned here?

你是否對以上提到的任何情況感同身受？

Even if you don't, that doesn't mean you're not attractive.

即使沒有，也不代表你沒有吸引力。

They say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and there's a lot of truth to this.

人們常說，情人眼裡出西施，這句話很有道理。

But what matters most is how you see and feel about yourself.

但最重要的是，你如何看待自己、感受自己。

So open your eyes to all the wonderful things that make you you and love yourself all the more for it.

所以，睜開眼睛去看所有讓你獨特的美好事物，並更愛自己。

If you found some insight or new ideas in this video, make sure to leave a like and share it with a friend.

如果你從這支影片獲得了啟發或新想法，別忘了按讚並分享給朋友。

As usual, all the sources are in the description.

和往常一樣，所有來源都在影片說明欄。