Name: 慾望是起點，還是陷阱？愛與慾的微妙關係帶你了解！ (Lust vs Love: What's the Difference?)
Uploaded: 2025-08-06T18:40:59.000Z
Duration: 3 min 6 s

程度副詞

Have you ever felt close to someone physically but afterward you just feel empty?

你是否有過這樣的經歷：與某人身體上很親近，但之後卻感到空虛？

基礎被動語態

Like something was supposed to click but it didn't.

就像有些東西本該一觸即發，但卻沒有。

情態副詞

If you've ever wondered why, you're not alone and know there's nothing broken about you for craving connection only to feel more disconnected after.

如果你曾想過為什麼你並不孤單，也知道自己並沒有什麼壞處，只是渴望與人聯繫，但聯繫之後卻感覺更加疏遠。

Today we're talking about the quiet space between lust and love and why chasing one can sometimes leaving us feeling even lonelier than before.

今天我們要討論的是慾望和愛情之間的寧靜空間，以及為什麼追逐其中一個有時會讓我們感到比以前更加孤獨。

第一，慾望是瞬間的；愛是緩慢的。

It's intense, exciting, it floods your brain with dopamine, the pleasure chemical, but like a sugar rush, it fades just as fast.

它強烈、令人興奮，讓你的大腦充斥著多巴胺——快樂的化學物質，但就像 "糖衣炮彈 "一樣，它很快就會消失。

And if we mistake one for the other, the crash can hurt.

如果我們錯把一個當成另一個，碰撞就會造成傷害。

2. You crave closeness but feel farther away.

第二，你渴望親近，但又覺得距離較遠。

Have you ever felt lonelier after being with someone?

你是否曾在與某人在一起後感到更加孤獨？

That's because physical closeness doesn't always mean emotional connection, especially if one person is just chasing a feeling, not sharing the bond.

這是因為身體上的親密並不總是意味著情感上的聯繫，尤其是當一個人只是在追逐感覺，而不是分享紐帶的時候。

We sometimes confuse being wanted with being loved and that difference matters more than we admit.

我們有時會混淆 "被需要 "和 "被愛"，而這兩者之間的區別比我們承認的要重要得多。

3. You're using lust to numb, not to connect.

第三，你用慾望來麻木，而不是聯繫。

When we're hurt, stressed, or emotionally distant from ourselves, we might reach for lust the same way we reach for junk food.

當我們受到傷害、壓力過大或在情感上與自己疏遠時，我們可能會像追求垃圾食品一樣去追求慾望。

But afterward, that emotional hunger is still there because what we really needed was comfort or safety or someone to listen.

但事後，那種情感的飢渴依然存在，因為我們真正需要的是安慰、安全或有人傾聽。

4. You keep hoping it'll feel different next time.

第四，你一直希望下次會有不同的感覺。

You tell yourself, next time it'll be better.

Maybe if I try harder, if they care more, if I feel less.

也許如果我更努力，如果他們更關心，如果我的感受更少。

But if nothing deeper is being built, you're just reliving the same loop and eventually even the highs stop feeling good.

但是，如果沒有任何更深層次的建設，你就只是在重複同樣的循環，最終連高潮也感覺不到了。

And 5. Love isn't just a feeling, it's a relationship.

第五，愛不僅僅是一種感覺，更是一種關係。

It's not a perfect photo or a passionate night.

這不是一張完美的照片，也不是一個激情的夜晚。

It's someone who stays when things are messy.

當事情一團糟時，有人會留下來。

誰能看到你，而不僅僅是你的身體

If you're feeling empty, it's not a sign that you're too much.

如果你感到空虛，這並不表明你太過分了。

It's a sign that your heart might be looking for more.

這表明你的內心可能在尋找更多。

So the next time you feel that ache, that quiet emptiness, pause and ask yourself, do I want connection or am I trying to escape something else?

當你下一次感到疼痛和空虛時，請停下來問問自己：我是想要聯繫，還是在逃避別的什麼？

You deserve love that makes you feel full, not just touched, but understood.

你應該得到讓你感到充實的愛，不僅僅是感動，還有理解。

And if you're wondering, am I in love with them or is it just lust?

如果你想知道，我是愛上了他們，還是隻是慾望？

We're thinking of putting together a quiz to help you explore that.

我們正在考慮做一個小測驗，以幫助你們探索這個問題。

Let us know if that's something you'd like.

It's about self-compassion and learning to be more open with ourselves.

這是關於自我同情和學會對自己更加開放。

So if we create the quiz and your score leans towards love or lust, we'll also share small steps to help you move toward a healthier, more fulfilling balance at your own pace.

如果我們做了這個測驗，而你的分數偏向於愛情或慾望，我們也會分享一些小步驟，幫助你按照自己的節奏走向更健康、更充實的平衡。

Thanks for being here and we'll see you soon.

感謝你的光臨，我們很快就會再見面。

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慾望是起點，還是陷阱？愛與慾的微妙關係帶你了解！ (Lust vs Love: What's the Difference?)

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