Name: 丈夫每週多做 7 小時家務 (Husbands create 7 hours of extra housework a week)
Uploaded: 2025-07-18T16:52:41.000Z
Duration: 2 min 57 s

I read a study from the University of Michigan that said husbands create an extra seven hours of housework a week.

我讀過密歇根大學的一項研究，說丈夫們每週要多做 7 個小時的家務。

In families with over three children, married women did 28 hours per week, which was 10 hours more than the average woman, whereas married men only did around 10 hours total of housework per week, compared to 13 hours of the average man.

在有三個以上子女的家庭中，已婚婦女每週做 28 個小時的家務，比普通婦女多 10 個小時，而已婚男子每週總共只做 10 個小時左右的家務，普通男子則做 13 個小時。

And it makes sense when you think about the traditional gendered split of household tasks.

想想家務勞動的傳統性別分工，這也就說得通了。

Women are assigned frequent tasks that must be done regularly, often at preset and inflexible times.

婦女經常被指派必須定期完成的任務，而且往往是在預設的、不靈活的時間完成。

Whereas men get infrequent tasks that can be scheduled at any convenient time.

而男性的任務並不頻繁，可以在任何方便的時間安排。

Mowing the lawn, taking out the garbage, repairing the home.

修剪草坪、倒垃圾、修理房屋。

There will be no unequal division of labor in Carl's heterosexual married household.

在卡爾的異性婚姻家庭中，不會有不平等的分工。

Dare I say, this attitude is quite...sexy.

我敢說，這種態度相當......性感。

There are several studies that show gender inequities in household labor predict lower sexual desire in women partnered with men, and that will not be my wife, Cheryl.

有幾項研究表明，家務勞動中的性別不平等會導致與男性有伴侶的女性性慾較低，而我的妻子謝麗爾不會是這樣的人。

Of course, inequities in household labor lead to a blurring of the mother and partner role, which isn't conducive to desire.

當然，家務勞動中的不平等會導致母親和伴侶角色的模糊，這不利於產生慾望。

And if you're busy bearing the mental load, how can Carl expect to add a physical load on top of that?

如果你忙於承擔精神負擔，卡爾又怎麼能指望在此基礎上增加身體負擔呢？

I think we should share the next load of laundry because the bed sheets are actually quite dirty.

我覺得我們應該一起洗下一件衣服，因為床單其實已經很髒了。

Perceived fairness is super important in a healthy relationship, so that's a task we should definitely do together.

在健康的人際關係中，公平感是非常重要的，所以我們一定要一起完成這項任務。

我會從你那兒弄些布料的，謝麗爾。

I'll get you in the spin cycle, you know what I mean, Cheryl?

我會讓你進入旋轉週期，你明白我的意思嗎，謝麗爾？

BetterHelp is the sponsor of today's video, and they want to help make starting therapy easier.

BetterHelp 是今天視頻的贊助商，他們希望幫助人們更輕鬆地開始治療。

Therapy has helped my life in immeasurable ways.

治療給我的生活帶來了不可估量的幫助。

It's given me tools to cope with life's ups and downs and make changes in my life about patterns that just were not serving me.

它為我提供了應對生活起伏的工具，並改變了我的生活模式，而這些模式並不適合我。

But finding the right therapist, it's kind of like dating.

但尋找合適的治療師，就有點像約會。

So someone who could be so off the mark and misattuned for my issues could be perfect for you.

所以說，一個可能對我的問題如此偏執和誤解的人，對你來說可能是完美的。

But the most important part of therapy is to find someone who you resonate with, whose advice you value, and who can offer you tools that are nuanced and suited to your life.

但治療最重要的部分是找到一個能與你產生共鳴的人，你重視他的建議，他能為你提供細緻入微且適合你生活的工具。

So to start out, you just fill out a questionnaire, and BetterHelp will match you with a qualified and licensed therapist in as little as a few days.

是以，開始時，您只需填寫一份問卷，BetterHelp 就會在短短几天內為您匹配一位合格的持證治療師。

You can click the link in the description or go to betterhelp.com and get 10% off your first month of therapy.

您可以點擊描述中的鏈接或訪問 betterhelp.com，享受首月治療九折優惠。

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