Name: 讓心儀對象注意到你的可愛方法！✨ (Cute Ways to Make Your Crush Notice You)
Uploaded: 2026-01-16T18:23:32.000Z
Duration: 6 min 14 s

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If you clicked on this video, you're probably wondering how to get your crush to like you back.

如果你點進來看這個影片，你可能在想怎麼才能讓喜歡的人也喜歡你。

Here are some cute ways to catch your crush's Vocalize what you appreciate.

這邊有幾個可愛的方法，可以讓你的喜歡對象知道你欣賞他們。

Dating coach Bobby Palmer says a good way to let someone you like know that you're into them is through a compliment.

戀愛教練 Bobby Palmer 說，想讓喜歡的人知道你對他們有意思，一個好方法就是讚美。

Anything from you have the greatest eyes to laughing at their jokes, says Palmer.

Palmer 說，從「你有一雙很棒的眼睛」到「笑他們講的笑話」，什麼都可以。

It's sometimes hard to pinpoint what exactly makes them special, but

有時候很難精確說出是什麼讓他們變得特別，但是

once you figure it out, don't be afraid to tell them.

一旦你發現了，就不要害怕告訴他們。

A couple of praises later, your crush might start wondering if these friendly compliments mean something more.

幾句讚美之後，你喜歡的人可能會開始想，這些友善的讚美是不是代表著什麼更深的意義。

Smell irresistible okay, hear this one out.

散發迷人的氣味，好了，這個聽起來有點怪，但請聽我說完。

Sexual chemistry is complex, but according to Psychology Today, scent plays a vital role.

性吸引力很複雜，但根據 Psychology Today 的說法，氣味扮演著關鍵角色。

Your scent can help in capturing the attention of your crush.

你的氣味可以幫助你抓住喜歡對象的注意力。

And it's more than just a certain perfume or lotion or whatever.

而且這不只是一種香水或乳液之類的。

If you like them, you probably like the way they smell.

如果你喜歡某個人，你大概也會喜歡他們聞起來的味道。

New research suggests that we come equipped to choose a romantic partner who smells good to us.

新的研究顯示，我們天生就具備選擇對我們來說聞起來很棒的伴侶的能力。

Scent based cues help us zero in on optimal partners.

氣味線索幫助我們精準鎖定最適合的伴侶。

Randy Thornhill, an evolutionary psychologist at the University of New Mexico, says it's not surprising to find smell capacity in the context of sexual behavior.

新墨西哥大學的演化心理學家 Randy Thornhill 表示，在性行為的脈絡下發現嗅覺能力並不令人意外。

But be careful that your cologne or perfume scent isn't too strong because it can annoy the people around you, including the person you like.

但要注意，你的古龍水或香水味別太濃，因為這可能會惹惱你身邊的人，包括你喜歡的對象。

Your smile A smile is a curve that can set things right.

你的笑容 一個笑容是一條能讓一切變得美好的曲線。

Your bright disposition can be the ray of sunshine they needed on that gloomy day at work.

你開朗的性情，可能是他們在陰鬱的工作日裡需要的陽光。

A positive outlook is an attractive asset, according to an article in Personality and Individual Differences.

積極的態度是一種吸引人的特質，根據 Personality and Individual Differences 的一篇文章。

You are deemed more attractive if they feel you are a positive person.

如果對方覺得你是個積極的人，你會被認為更有魅力。

Personality traits may contribute to judging facial attractiveness and that the personality traits desired in a person are reflected in facial preference, said the study researcher.

研究人員表示，性格特質可能影響對面部吸引力的判斷，而人們想要的性格特質會反映在面部偏好上。

And the best way to show that is through a smile, that goofy side of you.

而展現這一點的最佳方式就是透過笑容，展現你那古怪的一面。

It is okay to sing even when you're out of tune.

Your crush will appreciate your normal self.

Being your real self and confident self is an important trait.

做真實的自己，展現自信，這是一種重要的特質。

To get your crush's attention, relationship expert Laurel House recommends the only way to create a connection is to make the decision to be vulnerable.

為了吸引你喜歡的人的注意，戀愛專家 Laurel House 建議，建立連結的唯一方法就是決定展現脆弱的一面。

That means don't be afraid to open up and be honest about yourself.

所以，別害怕敞開心胸，誠實地展現自己。

Be yourself because you want your crush to like you, not the version of you that you're pretending to be.

做你自己，因為你希望你喜歡的人喜歡的是真實的你，而不是你假裝出來的樣子。

Who knows, maybe your quirkiness can positively impact your crush's life.

誰知道呢？也許你獨特的魅力會對你喜歡的人的生活產生正面的影響。

Sense of humor Research links humor to having a sociable and agreeable personality.

幽默感 研究顯示，幽默感與善於社交、個性隨和有關。

A study at the University of Kansas City suggests that the best indicator of a romantic connection is if the two are spotted laughing together.

密蘇裡大學堪薩斯城分校的一項研究表明，判斷一段浪漫關係的最佳指標是兩人是否一起開懷大笑。

Laughter is the key to their heart, so don't be afraid to share some of your embarrassing stories.

笑聲是通往他們內心的關鍵，所以別害怕分享一些你糗事的經歷。

According to researcher Jeffrey hall, shared laughter might be a pathway toward developing a more long lasting relationship.

根據研究員 Jeffrey Hall 的說法，共同的笑聲可能是發展更長久關係的途徑。

The study also showed that when a pair laughed together, they were more interested in each other.

研究還顯示，當一對情侶一起大笑時，他們對彼此的興趣會增加。

The joke itself might not be funny, but your crush might giggle seeing how cute you look.

笑話本身可能不好笑，但你喜歡的人可能會因為看到你可愛的樣子而咯咯笑。

Throwing all those jokes around, and you too might end up laughing your heads off.

講了這麼多笑話，你可能也會笑到不行。

Remember the deets when it's about your crush, you want to know it all.

關於你喜歡的人，記得所有細節，你就是想知道一切。

As you're getting to know them, your crush is bound to share smaller details about their life.

當你越來越瞭解他們時，你喜歡的人一定會分享更多關於他們生活的小細節。

Dating expert Julie Kaftchick says that recalling and mentioning even the most minute details about their lives will make them feel like you were paying attention.

戀愛專家 Julie Kaftchick 說，回憶並提及他們生活中最微小的細節，會讓他們覺得你很用心在聽。

This shows that you care enough to remember the little things they share with you.

這顯示你很在乎，記得他們跟你分享的小事。

They will appreciate you for being such a good listener, which can be the start of a more meaningful relationship.

他們會很欣賞你這個好聽眾，這可能是發展更深刻關係的開始。

Recalling the details shows a bigger sentiment.

回憶細節展現了更深層的情感。

This may not seem like the maneuver of choice in the early stages of your crush timeline, but

在你喜歡的初期階段，這可能不是首選策略，但

according to relationship expert Amy north, studies show spending time with another couple can make the two of you feel closer to each other.

根據關係專家 Amy North 的說法，研究顯示和另一對伴侶相處，能讓你們倆感覺彼此更親近。

Research from the Society of Personality and Social Psychology found that going on double dates and engaging in personal and emotional conversations with another couple will likely bring you closer to your own potential partner.

《人格與社會心理學學會》的研究發現，和另一對伴侶進行雙約會，並進行個人和情感上的對話，很可能會讓你和你的潛在伴侶更親近。

Talk to them about them Cat got your tongue while in conversation with your crush?

和你的曖昧對象哈拉時，是不是會詞窮呢？

Click Ask about their likes, dislikes, favorite actors, rock stars, idols, anything you can think of.

問問他們喜歡什麼、不喜歡什麼、最愛的演員、搖滾明星、偶像，任何你想得到的都可以。

Research in the National Academy of Sciences journal states individuals place high subjective value on opportunities to communicate their thoughts and feelings to others.

《國家科學院學報》上的研究指出，人們高度重視與他人溝通想法和感受的機會。

Doing so engages neural and cognitive mechanisms associated with reward pathways in the brain.

這麼做會啟動大腦中與獎勵通路相關的神經和認知機制。

Self disclosure is strongly associated with increased activation in brain regions that form dopamine, the love chemical.

自我揭露與大腦中形成多巴胺（愛情化學物質）的區域活化增加有很強的關聯。

So anytime you feel tongue tied around them, steer the conversation back towards them and voila, you'll have your combo back on course.

所以，任何時候你覺得跟他們講話時很緊張，就把話題拉回到他們身上，這樣，你們的關係就會回到正軌了。

Body Language BetterHelp experts Rate Body language as a fundamental aspect of communication in relationships.

肢體語言 BetterHelp 的專家認為，肢體語言是關係中溝通的基礎面向。

Nothing indicates a romantic interest more than physical touch, says relationship coach Michelle Fraley.

關係教練 Michelle Fraley 表示，沒有什麼比肢體接觸更能顯示出浪漫的興趣了。

Brushing up against them or touching their arm when talking are great ways to show you are interested.

和他們說話時輕輕碰觸他們的手臂，是展現你感興趣的好方法。

Fraley also recommends leaning in closer while talking.

Fraley 也建議說話時身體可以稍微往前傾。

Also, placing objects such as your phone or drink in their physical space shows you want to be closer to them.

另外，把手機或飲料等物品放在他們身邊，表示你想要更靠近他們。

Wanting to be physically close to them is a sure sign that you want to be more than just friends.

想要跟他們有肢體上的親近，是想跟他們當不只是朋友的肯定跡象。

And eye contact can go a long way to show you're genuinely interested in the other person, but

而眼神交流也能大大展現你對對方是真心感興趣，但

holding their gaze just for three seconds is the trick to it.

關鍵在於，讓眼神停留三秒鐘就好。

Nothing can compare to that feeling when your crush walks into the room.

當你暗戀的對象走進房間時，那種感覺是無可比擬的。

When you can't seem to get your mind off them, the only logical next step is to let them know you're interested.

當你腦子裡總是想著他們，下一步最合乎邏輯的就是讓他們知道你對他們有意思。

But letting your crush know you're into them is a whole different story.

但要讓你的暗戀對象知道你對他們有好感，又是另一回事了。

Dropping these little hints we discussed might help you see if there are any butterflies.

試著釋放我們剛剛討論的這些小暗示，或許能幫助你看看有沒有心動的感覺。

Please feel free to share any thoughts you have as well.

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如果你覺得這個影片很有幫助，別忘了按讚訂閱 Psych2go，會有更多新影片喔。