Name: 讓你更有吸引力的 8 個缺點 (8 Flaws That Make You More Attractive)
Uploaded: 2025-09-20T18:59:38.000Z
Duration: 5 min 40 s

Hey, Psych2Goers, welcome back to another video.

嘿，Psych2Goers，歡迎再次觀看視頻。

Before we start, we would like to thank you all for the support that you've given us.

在開始之前，我們要感謝大家對我們的支持。

As you know, Psych2Go's mission is to make psychology and mental health more accessible to everyone, and you help us do that, so thank you.

如您所知，Psych2Go 的使命是讓每個人都能更容易地獲得心理學和心理健康知識，而您幫助我們實現了這一使命，是以非常感謝。

How attractive do you think you seem to other people?

你認為自己在別人眼中有多大魅力？

Are you insecure about certain parts of yourself?

你是否對自己的某些部分缺乏安全感？

Everyone has their own insecurities about themselves and may fear how it may come off for other people, but you never know.

每個人對自己都有不安全感，可能會擔心自己的行為會影響到別人，但你永遠不會知道。

Those very same qualities in yourself that you're insecure about are traits that some people may actually appreciate and find attractive.

你對自己缺乏安全感的那些特質，有些人可能真的很欣賞，覺得很有吸引力。

While there's certainly some truth in the saying, no one can know you better than you know yourself, when it comes to attractiveness, sometimes we just can't tell because we're so hard on ourselves.

雖然 "沒有人比你更瞭解你自己 "這句話有一定的道理，但說到吸引力，有時我們就是無法分辨，因為我們對自己太苛刻了。

To help you with that, here are eight flaws that actually make you more attractive.

為了幫你解決這個問題，以下八個缺點實際上會讓你更有魅力。

Do you speak in a soft voice but prefer to keep quiet most of the time?

您說話的聲音很輕，但大多數時候喜歡保持沉默嗎？

Are you the type to duck your head or fidget when people look at you?

當別人看著你時，你會低頭或坐立不安嗎？

While you may have a hard time believing this, there are actually a lot of people out there who find shyness an attractive trait to have.

雖然你可能很難相信這一點，但實際上有很多人認為害羞是一種有吸引力的特質。

In a world where sociable, talkative, take-charge types of people are all clamoring to be the center of attention, there may be something refreshing about being with someone who likes to listen more than they like to talk.

在這個世界上，善於交際、健談、勇於承擔責任的人都在爭當眾人矚目的焦點，而與喜歡傾聽多於喜歡傾訴的人在一起，也許會讓人耳目一新。

After all, shy people are often seen as more mysterious, intriguing and down to earth compared to others.

畢竟，害羞的人往往被認為比其他人更神祕、更耐人尋味、更腳踏實地。

Another trait that some find surprisingly attractive is clumsiness.

笨拙是另一個讓人驚訝的特徵。

In fact, psychology says that men in particular tend to find clumsiness in women to be attractive, not only because it makes them seem more genuine, youthful and excitable, but also because it makes them feel needed.

事實上，心理學認為，男性尤其傾向於認為女性的笨拙是有吸引力的，這不僅是因為笨拙會讓她們看起來更真實、更年輕、更興奮，還因為笨拙會讓他們覺得自己被需要。

Clumsiness also makes people feel compelled to approach you and to help you out when you're in a rut.

笨拙也會讓人覺得有必要接近你，並在你陷入困境時幫助你。

Do you often get flustered when people tease you or get embarrassed when your friends poke fun at you for something?

當別人取笑你時，你是否經常感到慌亂；當朋友嘲笑你時，你是否經常感到尷尬？

Do you tend to blush, squeal or cover your face when this happens?

發生這種情況時，您會臉紅、尖叫或捂住臉嗎？

While this may seem like a flaw to some people, being easily embarrassed is quite an attractive trait to others, especially to men.

對某些人來說，這可能是一個缺點，但對其他人，尤其是男人來說，容易尷尬卻是一種相當有吸引力的特質。

Similar to the previous point, people who are easily embarrassed seem more genuine because they don't try to hide their true feelings.

與前一點類似，容易尷尬的人看起來更真實，因為他們不會試圖隱藏自己的真實感受。

Those who get called nerds or geeks often get a bad reputation for loving something deeply.

那些被稱為書呆子或怪才的人往往因為深愛某些東西而背上壞名聲。

Whether it's comic books, anime, video games, Broadway musicals, or some other obscure interest not a lot of people can relate to.

無論是漫畫書、動漫、電子遊戲、百老匯音樂劇，還是其他一些晦澀難懂的興趣愛好，很多人都無法與之產生共鳴。

Being a nerd isn't something you should be ashamed of.

作為書呆子，你不應該感到羞恥。

In fact, there are some who find nerds attractive for the very same reasons they're criticized for.

事實上，有些人覺得書呆子很有魅力，原因正是他們受到責備的原因。

They're driven, excited, and most of all passionate about the things they enjoy.

他們有動力、興奮，最重要的是，他們對自己喜歡的事情充滿熱情。

To those who are tired of listening to everyone telling them what they want to hear, it can be nice to have someone who always tells the truth, no matter what.

對於那些厭倦了聽每個人說自己想聽的話的人來說，有一個人無論如何都能說出真相，那會是一件很好的事情。

Being honest can be a very attractive trait because it means that you're not going to waste their time by beating around the bush or by playing mind games with them.

誠實是一種非常有吸引力的特質，因為這意味著你不會拐彎抹角地浪費他們的時間，也不會和他們玩心理遊戲。

Despite how difficult it may be, you are able to just come out and say what they need to hear.

儘管困難重重，你還是可以站出來，說出他們需要聽到的話。

Sorry, I've been talking and sharing so much.

對不起，我說了太多，也分享了太多。

Well, the good news is one of the silver linings to being an over-sharer is that it makes you seem more sincere and approachable.

好消息是，過度分享的好處之一是讓你看起來更真誠、更平易近人。

While some may prefer a mystery, there are those who like it when someone is an open book.

雖然有些人可能更喜歡神祕感，但也有人喜歡一個人是一本公開的書。

This may be because your openness creates a comfortable environment for them to open up and to share things about themselves they don't usually share.

這可能是因為你的開誠佈公為他們創造了一個舒適的環境，讓他們可以敞開心扉，分享他們通常不會分享的自己的事情。

It makes it easier for them to develop closeness and intimacy in a relationship.

這讓他們更容易在關係中建立親密感和親近感。

Do you always take a long time making decisions because you tend to overthink things and focus on all the details?

你做決定是否總是要花費很長時間，因為你往往想得太多，關注所有細節？

Do you always have a lot going on in your mind?

You're probably a deep thinker and the type who likes to observe the situation before forming an opinion.

你可能是一個深思熟慮的人，喜歡在形成觀點之前先觀察情況。

Unlike those who are always craving excitement or chasing one thrill after the other in their lives, you appreciate and savor the peace and quiet in your life and prefer to take your time with things.

與那些總是渴望刺激或在生活中追逐一個又一個驚險刺激的人不同，你欣賞和品味生活中的平靜與安寧，喜歡慢慢處理事情。

And to people who feel the same way, this can be a very appealing quality to have.

對於有同樣感受的人來說，這可能是一種非常吸引人的品質。

As humans, it's normal to crave affection from others.

作為人類，渴望得到他人的關愛是正常的。

Though it's true that sometimes people who openly desire warmth, sympathy, and encouragement from others can be a bit off-putting at times, especially when they seem too needy or desperate.

雖然有時公開渴望得到他人的溫暖、同情和鼓勵的人確實會讓人有些反感，尤其是當他們看起來過於需要或絕望的時候。

There is something nice about being with someone who makes you feel needed, whether it's kind words, sweet gestures, thoughtful gifts, or simply time and attention.

和一個讓你感覺被需要的人在一起，無論是親切的話語、甜蜜的舉動、貼心的禮物，還是單純的時間和關注，都會讓你感覺很好。

Having a partner who wants and asks for support can be a very attractive quality.

擁有一個希望並請求支持的伴侶是一種非常有吸引力的品質。

Did you find any of these surprising or insightful?

您是否發現其中有令人驚訝或有深刻見解的內容？

If you found this video interesting, be sure to like and share this video with those who might benefit from it.

如果您覺得這段視頻有趣，請務必點贊並與可能從中受益的人分享這段視頻。

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別忘了點擊訂閱按鈕和通知鈴圖標，以便在 Psych2Go 發佈新視頻時收到通知。

The references and studies used in this video are added in the description below.

本視頻中使用的參考文獻和研究報告已添加到下面的說明中。

Thanks so much for watching, and we'll see you in our next video.

感謝您的收看，我們下期視頻再見。