Name: 研究發現：感受到上帝的寬恕可以降低道歉的可能性 (Feeling forgiven by God can reduce the likelihood of apologizing, study finds)
Uploaded: 2025-06-18T16:55:14.000Z
Duration: 2 min 58 s

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Bestie, I'm really sorry about our fight yesterday.

閨蜜，昨天吵架的事我真的很抱歉。

God says she forgives me, so I forgive me, too.

上帝說她原諒了我，所以我也原諒了自己。

According to a recent study, people who believe they've been forgiven by God may be more likely to forgive themselves after hurting someone, but this doesn't always lead to an apology.

根據最近的一項研究，相信自己已經得到上帝寬恕的人可能更容易在傷害別人後原諒自己，但這並不總能導致道歉。

Divine forgiveness actually makes people less likely to apologize by satisfying their internal need for resolution.

神聖的寬恕實際上滿足了人們內心對解決問題的需求，從而使他們更少地道歉。

Yet at the same time, divine forgiveness boosts feelings of gratitude and humility, which can lead to more heartfelt and sincere apologies.

但與此同時，神聖的寬恕也會提升感恩和謙卑的情感，從而使道歉更加發自內心和真誠。

Because the study revealed that divine forgiveness works through these two opposing pathways, one that inhibits and one that supports the act of apologizing.

因為研究顯示，神聖的寬恕是通過兩種相反的途徑發揮作用的，一種是抑制，一種是支持道歉行為。

So you're the inhibited path, I'm guessing.

所以，我猜你就是那條受抑制的路。

The findings were consistent across Christian, Jewish, and Muslim participants, but nay, when people felt more forgiven by any God, they tended to feel more self-forgiven, no matter how serious the offense or how close they were to the person they hurt.

這些發現在基督教、猶太教和穆斯林參與者中都是一致的，但不一樣的是，當人們覺得自己更容易得到任何神的寬恕時，他們往往會覺得自己更容易得到寬恕，無論冒犯有多嚴重，也無論他們與被傷害者的關係有多親密。

In both studies, people who reported higher self-forgiveness were less likely to say they would apologize, and their emails were judged as showing less remorse, lower quality apologies, and less sincerity.

在這兩項研究中，自我寬恕程度較高的人不太可能說他們會道歉，他們的電子郵件被認為表現出較少的悔意、較低的道歉品質和較少的誠意。

This suggests that when an individual believes they're already forgiven by God, they may feel less need to seek forgiveness or make amends directly with the person that they've harmed.

這表明，當一個人相信自己已經得到了上帝的寬恕時，他可能會覺得不太需要尋求寬恕或直接向曾經傷害過自己的人做出補償。

Wow, it's almost as if feeling right with God lessens the motivation to set things right with the person they've wronged.

哇，就好像感覺自己與上帝和好了，就會減少與被自己傷害的人和好的動力。

You're just using this study to get out of an actual apology.

你只是利用這項研究來逃避真正的道歉。

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是以，作為公眾眼中的女性，我不得不面對跟蹤者出現在我家、在網上被誹謗，以及不斷有人試圖黑進我的 iCloud。

And unfortunately, we live in a world where data brokers collect and aggregate and sell our personal information.

不幸的是，在我們生活的世界裡，數據經紀人收集、彙總並出售我們的個人信息。

So our names, our social security numbers, even our addresses can be published against our knowledge and consent.

是以，我們的姓名、社會保險號碼甚至地址都可能在我們不知情並未經我們同意的情況下被公佈。

So I use Incogni to make sure that my privacy stays private.

是以，我使用 Incogni 來確保我的隱私不被洩露。

And unfortunately, since my family has also been a victim of these stalkers, I use the Incogni family and friends plan so that I can have all of their sensitive information removed from the internet as well.

不幸的是，由於我的家人也是這些跟蹤者的受害者，我使用了 Incogni 親友計劃，這樣我就可以把他們的所有敏感資訊也從互聯網上刪除。

Obviously, I've been on the extreme end of the spectrum, but when it comes to privacy violations, your data can be out there and sold and proliferated and lead to things like identity theft.

很明顯，我的觀點是極端的，但說到侵犯隱私，你的數據可能會被公開、出售和擴散，並導致身份盜竊等問題。

So these days, I am so proactive about protecting my privacy, protecting my information, and protecting my family.

是以，這些天來，我非常積極地保護我的隱私、保護我的資訊、保護我的家人。

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您可以訪問 incogni.com slash Akana，使用代碼 AKANA 即可享受 Incogni 年度計劃六折優惠，保護您的數據和身份。

Hopefully you're never stalked or doxxed, but at the very least, you can always be protected.

希望你永遠不會被跟蹤或誹謗，但至少，你總能得到保護。