And secondarily if you find certain things repulsive in other people, whether they brag or they're dishonest or whatever it may be that turns you off, it's gonna turn other people off if you possess those qualities and those are choices, you know, very few of those things, uh, you know, are in your DNA, they, they are choices and, and they are also habits.
其次,如果你覺得別人身上有某些令人厭惡的東西,不管他們是吹牛還是不誠實,也不管是什麼讓你反感的東西,如果你擁有這些品質,就會讓別人反感,而這些都是選擇,你知道,很少有這些東西,呃,你知道,是你的基因裡就有的,它們,它們是選擇,它們也是習慣。