gasping
US /'gæspɪŋ/
・UK /'gɑ:spɪŋ/
B1 中級
v.i.不及物動詞喘氣
I heard gasping around the room when the beautiful woman came in
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患有邊緣性人格障礙 (BPD) 還可能愛嗎？ (Is Love Possible When You Suffer BPD)
- Dating with BPD feels like trying to hold on to water. No matter how tight you grip, it slips through your fingers. One moment you're terrified they'll leave, the next you're pushing them away just to test if they'll stay. Why does love feel like both the cure and the poison? Well first, let's talk about what BPD really is. BPD stands for borderline personality disorder and it's a condition where one has difficulty regulating their emotions, suffers from high sensitivity to rejection, and usually experiences dysfunction in managing interpersonal relationships. We have a video on how to know when your partner might have BPD, so feel free to check it out. But that's only one side of the coin. When you have BPD and you're in a romantic relationship, there are a whole lot of problems that are not so easy to spot from the outside. Dating with BPD isn't just a challenge, it's a storm of contradictions. One moment you're drowning in love, the next you're gasping for air, convinced your partner will vanish. The fear of abandonment isn't just a symptom, it's a constant whisper in the back of your mind. We interviewed Magenta, who has BPD, about her experience with romance and well, she summarizes it perfectly. I suffer from abandonment issues all the time. I find myself always being worried if my special person is secretly getting tired of me. Quick disclaimer, we are not diagnosing anyone with BPD, nor are we here to romanticize the condition. Our goal is simply to explore the experiences of those navigating relationships while living with BPD, with empathy and understanding. BPD is a complex condition, drenched in extremes. You become very sensitive to stress in any kind of relationship. For those with BPD, love is both the anchor and the storm. This can cause them to have trust issues and negative feelings towards their partner easily after any kind of stressor. O'Leary, 2023, also mentions that relationship stressors can cause emotional dysregulation in those afflicted with BPD. A single misunderstanding can spiral into despair while a small gesture of love can feel like salvation. Magenta's words cut straight to the heart. When my mood changes, it can be frustrating because I can get so angry or too sad in just a moment. I know it's exhausting, not just for me, but for my partner. I get in a mode that I know is overwhelming for everyone. I hate it, but I can't help it. However, not everything needs to be a frustrating endeavor. It's the light in the chaos. People with BPD feel love with a rare electric intensity. It's a lens that can magnify beauty others might miss, too. Magenta glimpses this truth as well. I get to be a really sensitive person, so I can appreciate a lot of things in a way most people don't. It's like I find magic in normal things. A study by Bouchard and others showed that in about half of the studied couples where someone had BPD, both partners experienced satisfaction and tranquility in the relationship. O'Leary and others similarly found that BPD is often accompanied by a higher development of adaptive relationship skills. And when good coping methods were achieved, the relationships could be long-lasting and satisfactory. Therapy helps. Patience transforms. Being informed is crucial. But the real breakthrough comes when partners stop seeing BPD as the enemy and start fighting together. Magenta's plea cuts directly into the starting problem. They did not understand my insecurities, my jealousy, my mood changes, my need of constant reassurance. That I just wanted to be alone sometimes, but also feel loved and heard. Within the study by O'Leary, when couples showed openness toward discussing BPD, recognized negative patterns, and offered empathy to one another, their relationships strengthened and became manageable in the long term. In conclusion, dating with
與患有 BPD 的人約會，感覺就像試圖抓住水。無論你抓得多緊，它都會從指縫間溜走。上一秒你還在害怕對方會離開，下一秒你就把對方推開，只為試探對方是否會留下。為什麼愛情既像解藥又像毒藥？首先，讓我們來談談什麼是 BPD。BPD 是邊緣型人格障礙的縮寫，是指一個人難以調節自己的情緒，對拒絕高度敏感，通常在處理人際關係時會出現功能障礙。我們有一個關於如何判斷伴侶是否患有邊緣型人格障礙的視頻，請隨時查看。但這只是硬幣的一面。當您患有 BPD 並處於戀愛關係中時，會出現很多從外表不易察覺的問題。與患有 BPD 的人
- One moment you're drowning in love, the next you're gasping for air, convinced your partner will vanish.
只有一個人知道這個城市的死亡配方！ (Only one man knew the death recipe for this city)
- And so now, as hospitals all across Melbourne overflowed with people gasping for air,
現在，墨爾本各地的醫院都擠滿了喘著粗氣的病人、
- But even perfectly healthy people found themselves gasping for air, overwhelmed by the sheer density of this microscopic pollen.
但是，即使是完全健康的人也會發現自己喘不過氣來，因為這種微小花粉的密度太大了。
綠野仙蹤2 (下) 📚 | 露西·莫德·蒙哥馬利有聲書 (第11-18章) (Part 2 - Anne of Green Gables Audiobook by Lucy Maud Montgomery (Chs 11-18))
- Wright's lane, they were very apt to arrive there breathless and gasping some three minutes too late.
晚餐時間。
- but it was necessary to do something to save his word, so he looked about for a scapegoat and found it in Anne, who had dropped into her seat, gasping for breath, with a forgotten lily wreath hanging a skew over one ear and giving her a particularly rakish and disheveled appearance.
Prissy Andrews 告訴 Sara Gillis 說我的鼻子很漂亮。
重訓後做心肺運動會讓你的肌肉白練嗎？！ (Does Cardio After Lifting Kill Your Gains?)
- So if you're gasping for air after 30 minutes of cardio, like that will not promote muscle growth as much as it could.
是以，如果你做完 30 分鐘的有氧運動後就氣喘吁吁，那麼這樣做對肌肉生長的促進作用將大打折扣。
- So if you're gasping for air after 30 minutes of cardio, like that will not promote muscle growth as much as it could.
是以，如果你通常在一次鍛鍊中長出 50 克肌肉，那麼你可能只長出 25 克肌肉。
卡關了？讓你無法前進的祕密竟然是這個！ (Why You're Stuck: The SECRET to Moving On)
- and move your body until you're gasping for air, do it.
你的身體知道自己在做什麼，即使你的大腦還沒「跟上」。如果你需要在家裡跺腳、打枕頭，或是放一首你聽過最生氣的歌，
- move your body until you're gasping for air, do it.
然後動起來，直到你喘不過氣，就去做吧。