每日口說挑戰【The School of Life】如何克服拒絕 (How To Get Over Rejection)

■revolt [rɪˋvolt] 厭惡，反感 ；反叛、起義
■admire [ədˋmaɪr] 欽佩；欣賞、讚賞
■regret [rɪˋgrɛt] 感到懊悔、感到抱歉、遺憾；惋惜
懊悔、抱歉、遺憾；惋惜
■chief [tʃif] 首要的、最主要的；首席的、等級最高的
領導人；長官；首領；酋長
■pity [ˋpɪtɪ] 憐憫、同情；可惜的事、憾事
同情、憐憫
☺The true challenge is to stop being so revolted by people who do in fact want us and so admiring of those who don't. Think back to when you rejected people, you didn't hate them or regret them. The chief emotions are embarrassment and pity.
真正的挑戰是：不要再對那些真正喜歡我們的人那麼反感，也不要那麼地在意那些不喜歡我們的人。回想一下，之前你在拒絕別人的時候，你並沒有討厭他們或對他們感到抱歉。最主要的情緒反應其實是難堪和遺憾。
【心得】我的解讀是：基本上就是要接受被拒絕的事實，但不要放大「 拒絕」的意涵。

The true challenge is to stop being so revolted by people who do in fact want us and so admiring of those who don't. Think back to when you rejected people. You didn't hate them or regret them. The chief emotions are embarrassment and pity.

Hi guys, welcome to today’s pronunciation challenge and my name is Kristi. So today we have a video from the school of life. Let’s go how to get over rejection. Being rejected can be a very sad thing and life and in this video teaches us how to get over it and you know, move on with life. So, let’s look at today’s sentences.
嗨大家好，歡迎來到今天的口說挑戰，我是主持人Kristi。今天我們的影片來自於生活中的學校。讓我們看看如何克服被拒絕的障礙。被拒絕這件事可以說是非常悲慘的事情與生活，而在這部影片中教導了我們如何克服它，然後你知道的，繼續過生活。讓我們看看今天的句子。

The true challenge is to stop being so revolted by people who do in fact want us and so admiring of those who don't. Think back to when you rejected people, you didn't hate them or regret them. The chief emotions are embarrassment and pity.
最大的挑戰是不要拒絕喜歡我們的人於千里之外，以及讚美那些不愛我們的人。回想一下，當你們拒絕別人時，你們不是討厭他們或是感到抱歉；最先感受到的是難堪和遺憾。

1 . revolt 反叛、起義

revolt [rɪˋvolt] (v.) 反叛、起義 (很反對的意思)
revolted [rɪˋvoltɪd] (adj.) 很反感的
If you picked up blank socks, girls can be quite revolted.
如果男生要搭訕別人的時候，講的話無法引起別人的興趣時，是會引起女生反感的。

2 . admire 欽佩、讚賞

admire [ədˋmaɪr] (v.) 欽佩、讚賞
I really admire his attitude toward work.
我對於他的工作態度真的感到很欽佩。

admirer [ədˋmaɪrɚ] (n.) 仰慕者

3 . reject 拒絕

reject [rɪˋdʒɛkt] (v.) 拒絕
除了人與人之間會拒絕別人之外，學校或是工作的offer，如果沒有被錄取的話，也可以說with rejected，就是被拒絕。

eject [ɪˋdʒɛkt] (v.) 吐出、退出
之前在用CD、DVD player或者甚至最早的錄音機上，將CD或是錄音帶退出的按鍵稱之為eject。

4 . regret 懊悔

regret [rɪˋgrɛt] (n.) (v.) 懊悔
regret + V-ing
I really regret staying up so late.
我真的很後悔前一天這麼晚睡。

I look back and regret.
我對過去感到懊悔。

5 . pity 憐憫、同情

pity [ˋpɪtɪ] (n.) (v.) 憐憫、同情 (上對下的感覺)
平常並不會這樣用。

pitiful [ˋpɪtɪfəl] (adj.) 令人同情的
According to the situation, after the flood, it’s quite pitiful.
他因為那個洪水所帶來的災難，他現在的情況是滿令人同情的。

謝謝Kristi&大家~~
慢速 中速 快速
# true challenge好拗口~@@
#拒絕真的很難
#尤其是肚子餓的時候 XDD
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The true challenge is to stop being so revolted by people who do in fact want us and so admiring of those who don't. Think back to when you rejected people. You didn't hate them or regret them. The chief emotions are embarrassment and pity.

The true challenge is to stop being so revolted by people who do in fact want us and so admiring of those who don't Think back to when you rejected people. You didn't hate them or regret them. The chief emotions are embarrassment and pity.

@女神 是滴 女神
@柿子 確實要很久看不到木頭了 -_-

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The true challenge is to stop being so revolted by people
who do in fact want us
and so admiring of those who don't.
Think back to when you rejected people.
You didn't hate them or regret them.
The chief emotions are embarrassment and pity.
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■revolt (v.) 反叛、反抗、造反；使厭惡、驚駭、反感
If you pick up lines suck, girls can be quite revolted.
■pick-up lines (向異性搭訕時所講的「台詞」)

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The true challenge is to stop being so revolted by people who do in fact want us and so admiring of those who don't .
Think back to when you rejected people. You didn't hate them or regret them.
The chief emotions are embarrassment and pity.

Kristi的鼻音好濃喔~take care

題外話：今日去看"What happened to Monday"這部電影。女主角演技驚人，一人分飾七角，個個層次分明，非常精彩的劇情驚悚片，很值得進戲院看，推薦給大家。

Take it easy, man!