每日口說挑戰為什麼談戀愛不該欲擒故縱！？ (Why girls shouldn

■up front 在前面；預付；提前支付
Dating is hard enough as it is. You're two people who come with your own set of baggage, trying to come together in this lasting emotionally supportive relationship where you still maintain a physical attraction and regular intercourse with each other. Like why would you enter that already complicated system by faking your feelings up front?
約會本身就已經夠難的了。你們兩個人相遇時各自都背負著包袱，試著要在一起交往，維繫這段能長期相互扶持的感情關係，同時還要保持對彼此的性吸引力，和規律的性關係。何必要在一開始進入這個本來就已經夠複雜的機制裡時，還要裝模作樣呢？
【心得】人的心理就是很奇妙，國情、文化也有些影響吧!!有些人還會嫌兩個人太少，越搞越複雜，不是嗎?!

Day 310

今天的句子，add那裡總覺得講者有帶點鼻音，接近an的音，但是又沒有很清楚。考慮了一下，還是決定參照Leeway的方式，改為answer好了。

然後錄完才發現unickname女神提出enter的可能性，不過....沒時間重新錄音囉！！就這樣吧！

baggage
supportive
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Dating is hard enough as it is. You're two people / who come with your own set of baggage, trying to come together / in this lasting emotionally supportive relationship / where you still maintain a physical attraction / and regular intercourse with each other. Like why would you add to that already complicated system / by faking your feelings up front?

* 一慢一快；改了answer，不是很確定...

Dating is hard enough as it is. You're two people who come with your own set of baggage, trying to come together in this lasting emotionally supportive relationship where you still maintain a physical attraction and regular intercourse with each other. Like why would you answer that already complicated system by faking your feelings up front?

〠猴威 ㍿ 隨便寫

1. play hard to get（尤指戀愛之初）故作冷淡；裝出矜持之態
2. answer (v.) 應付（to be a way of dealing with or solving a problem）

3-1. in advance (adv.) 在做某事或在一個特定時間之前
3-2. beforehand (adv.) 早於一個特定的時間(通常需給出這個特定的時間)
3-3. up front (adv.) 預付；提前支付

3-3’. upfront (adj.) 公開的；坦率的

Dating is hard enough as it is. You're two people who come with your own set of baggage, trying to come together in this lasting emotionally supportive relationship where you still maintain a physical attraction and regular intercourse with each other. Like why would you add to that already complicated system by faking your feelings up front?

約會本身就已經夠難了。你們是兩個各自帶著自己包袱的人，試著在這段持續給予對方精神支持的關係中走在一起、保持肉體上的吸引力、定期滿足彼此的生理需求... 所以幹嘛一開始就在已經夠複雜的戀愛中偽裝自己呢？

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Vocabularies & idioms:

intercourse well, it's...... %%%...... yeah you know it
up front in the beginning

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這部影片很有趣，也讓我想到威爾史密斯的電影【全民情聖】中的一段場景～ 總之戀愛已經很難了，不要想東想西讓它變得更難吧 QQ

BGM : "Where or when" by Wynton Marsalis

Day 3 ~做了一次筆記，明天再抄下去筆記本

1. baggage (n.)
(1:45) We all carry our baggages, and that varies from people to people, so we shouldn't judge each other for that.

2. support(v.)
(2:14) I don't think his income is enough to support the entire family.
2.1 supportive (adj.)
2:26 Thank you guys for being so supportive.

3. maintain (v.)
(2:53) We are maintaining this field of grass right now, so please keep off the grass.
3.1 maintenance (n.)
(3:25) We should call the maintenance to see what's going on with this projector.
3.2 remain (v.)
(3:46) He hasn't gone home for about 2 years, and he is very surprise to see that everything remain the same.

4.attract (v.)
(4:18) He is much attracted by her poise.
4.1 attractive (adj.)
(4:28) She thinks that he looks very attractive in that suit. (這句不確定喔)

5.fake(v.)in paragraph/(adj.) in example
(4:46) I think this is a fake news, because none of it makes sense.

BAGGAGE: the beliefs and feelings that influence how you think and behave = 思想包袱
例句：We all carry a lot of emotional baggage around with us. = 我們每個人都有許多感情的負擔。

在這複雜的年代，把心靈淨空回歸單純，生活簡單心靈富裕，自然就不會和他人比較也少掉抱怨。身心靈健康快樂才是人生真正財富。（主題：情感專一，男女朋友、老公老婆省著點用吧！哈哈哈⋯⋯）

哈哈，影片的舉例方式好有趣，看完都開始欣賞這女生了~

<2.0-42> Thanks Kristi and every friend~

I should be all ears when Kristi talks, just like B leung do.^^