Name: 父親沒教會你的事！極度震撼激勵演講影片 (WHAT YOUR DAD FORGOT TO TEACH YOU - Poweful Motivational Speech Video)
Uploaded: 2026-02-12T06:33:27.000Z
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If I said I can't, my dad's teeth would start to go.

如果我說我做不到，我爸的牙齒就會開始掉。

I remember this one time I was going out to my chores Saturday morning to mow the lawn and I couldn't get the damn lawnmower to start.

我記得有一次，星期六早上我出去做家事，要割草，結果那該死的割草機就是發不動。

Checked everything, couldn't get it started.

我檢查了所有東西，還是發不動。

他轉過身，我看到他的割草機。

I went and he got up, walked with me through the kitchen, through the garage, out the backyard, went to lawnmower, messed around, pulled a couple things out, da, da, da, da, da, da.

我走過去，他起身，跟我一起走過廚房、車庫，到後院，走到割草機那裡，弄了弄，拔出了一些東西，噠噠噠噠噠噠。

After about 10 minutes, boom, cranked it.

大概十分鐘後，砰，就發動了。

And while the lawnmower was running right there, he came over to me and bent down and looked me out.

然後割草機就在那裡運轉著，他走到我旁邊，彎下腰看著我。

He goes, see, son, you were just having trouble.

他說，你看，兒子，你只是有點麻煩。

Your neighbor down the road is in a difficult place and they can't get their yard mowed.

你路對面的鄰居處境困難，他們無法割草。

The old lady across the street, the old gentleman across the street, it snows, just take your shovel and go over and shovel their sidewalk.

街對面的老太太、街對面的老先生，下雪了，就拿著你的鏟子過去幫他們鏟人行道。

Just somebody at work, you watch and you look and people at work, they're going through a hard time.

就是公司裡有人，你觀察一下，你會看到公司裡有人正在經歷一段艱難的時光。

Now, being dangerous is not being a threat.

And it's not about going out and lifting weights and getting a bunch of tattoos and wearing leather jackets and walking around with your chest and shoulders up, hulking around, saying, I'm dangerous.

這不是說要出去健身、刺青、穿皮夾克，然後挺著胸、聳著肩，一副很危險的樣子。

That's very rarely is that a dangerous man.

Often the most dangerous man in the room is the quietest man in the room.

房間裡最危險的人，通常是房間裡最安靜的那個人。

You want to know how to be a man among men?

你想知道如何成為男人中的男人嗎？

You start following and reading and listening to guys like Jocko Willock, Jordan Peterson, these guys, and

你可以開始追蹤、閱讀、聆聽 Jocko Willink、Jordan Peterson 這類人物，

start learning, and start learning, start reading.

開始學習，開始學習，開始閱讀。

The brain is a muscle and like any muscle, the more you work it, the stronger it becomes.

大腦就像肌肉一樣，你越鍛鍊它，它就會越強壯。

My dad worked for a large corporation and before he retired he said to me, don't work for a large company because when you're, you know, 65 or whatever, they're going to retire you and you'll never hear from them again.

我爸在一間大公司工作，退休前他跟我說，別去大公司上班，因為等你 65 歲或 whatever 的時候，他們就會讓你退休，你就再也聽不到他們的消息了。

And that is exactly what happened to my dad.

And he said, look, whatever you do, you're going to have to be patient because it's not going to happen overnight.

他說，聽著，不管你做什麼，你都得有耐心，因為這不會一蹴可幾。

If you want to do well, you've Got to learn to be good at it.

如果你想做得好，你就得學會擅長它。

And it could take 20 years, it could take 30 years, but understand that.

這可能需要 20 年，也可能需要 30 年，但你要明白這一點。

You don't have to be rich now, but do you have a plan?

你現在不用很有錢，但你有計畫嗎？

Have you, do you, have you found means of being confident?

你有沒有找到讓自己有自信的方法？

Can you demonstrate kindness and excellence across anything?

你能展現出對任何事情的善良和卓越嗎？

The greatest gifts in life are not in the plans, they're in the detours.

生命中最棒的禮物不在計畫裡，而在意想不到的轉彎處。

There is no way I could plan my way to being on the stage.

I have failed a lot more and a lot longer than I have succeeded.

我失敗的次數比成功的次數多得多，而且失敗的時間也長得多。

I didn't originally get the role in Top Gun that I auditioned for and it's worked out better than I could have ever even imagined.

我一開始沒有拿到試鏡的《捍衛戰士》角色，結果卻比我能想像的還要好。

So if you want your life to be a great story, like a great movie, if you want it filled with adventure, comedy, Roman romance, action, thrills.

所以，如果你希望你的人生像一部精彩的電影一樣，充滿冒險、喜劇、羅曼史、動作和刺激。

When you go out there and things inevitably don't go according to plan, just remember that's when your movie's plot is just getting interesting.

當你走出去，事情總會不如預期，請記住，這正是你電影的劇情變得精彩的時候。

That's when your protagonist is being tested.

That's when the writers are working overtime to give the audience some nail biting drama.

這時候，編劇們正加緊腳步，為觀眾帶來令人屏息的戲劇張力。

Enjoy things not going according to plan.

If you knew the ending, it wouldn't be worth the watch.

如果你早就知道結局，那就不值得看了。

No good story happens from things going right.

沒有一個好故事是從一切順利開始的。

What advice would you give to someone who is unsure about what to do in life?

你會給一個對人生方向感到迷惘的人什麼建議呢？

I would start asking you questions, asking you to investigate yourself for the things that you like doing, for the things that you can't stop thinking about, for the kind of fiction or nonfiction that you read, the areas of the world that fascinate you or irritate you.

我會開始問你問題，請你探索自己喜歡做的事，那些讓你停不下來去想的事，你喜歡閱讀的虛構或非虛構類別，以及那些讓你著迷或感到惱怒的世界領域。

Each one of us is sitting here in these, you know, roughly ambulatory engines of our bodies and looking at.

我們每個人都坐在這裡，坐在這些，你知道的，大致上能活動的身體裡，然後看著。

And each of us latches on to different stuff about the world that moves us in different ways.

而我們每個人都會抓住世界上不同的事物，以不同的方式觸動我們。

And I think that there is value in investigating those, those parts of your point of view.

我認為探索這些觀點的面向是很有價值的。

We look down now to 16 year olds and say, where are you going to go to college?

我們現在會對 16 歲的年輕人說，你要去哪裡唸大學？

What are you going to do for the rest of your life?

And it's like they're sick, they're not fully baked yet.

感覺他們好像生病了，還沒完全準備好。

Just say, look, I think after high school, take a year off, take two years off, join the Peace Corps, travel, go figure things out or just enjoy yourself.

我會說，聽著，我認為高中畢業後，可以休息一年、兩年，去當和平工作團的志工，去旅行，去找出方向，或者只是好好享受生活。

For the first time in their lives, they're adults and they don't have to be somewhere they're not told to be somewhere.

這是他們人生第一次成為大人，而且不用被告知要去哪裡。

Get used to that freedom, even at the age of about seven or eight, you know, in our neighborhood, go round to people's houses, knock on their door and say, can I.

習慣這種自由吧，即使在七、八歲的時候，你知道的，在我們社區，我們會去鄰居家，敲敲門說，我可以。

Because my mum and dad said if we pay for the holiday, you've got to earn your spending money.

因為我爸媽說，如果我們要付旅遊費，你們就得自己賺零用錢。

所以我就想，好吧，那就這樣吧。

But I used to love it if you got 10 quid for, like, washing a car.

但我以前很喜歡，如果幫忙洗車能拿到十英鎊的話。

I mean, it was like bingo with the best feelings, the things that always stuck in my mind.

我的意思是，那感覺就像中了樂透一樣棒，那些總是讓我印象深刻的事。

And it was quite an odd thing to say to a year old.

而且對一個一歲的孩子說這種話，還挺奇怪的。

He said, everyone in life, Simon, has a sign on their head, and

他說，Simon，人人都頭上有個牌子，

Maybe he's had a couple of drinks and then I forget when I realized what it meant.

也許他喝了點酒，然後我忘了我什麼時候才意識到它的意思。

But, boy, did that stick in my mind, which was, if you want to do one in life, it's going to be a team effort and make sure you recognize every single person on that team.

但是，天啊，這件事一直留在我的腦海裡，那就是，如果你想在生活中做一件事，這將是一項團隊的努力，而且要確保你認可團隊裡的每一個人。

And so if I walk into a room, I instantly.

所以，如果我走進一個房間，我立刻。

I think pretty much the point I understood it is that I can walk into a room and I can see.

我想我大概明白它的意思了，就是我可以走進一個房間，然後我可以看到。

In one moment, I see the person who's opening the door.

在某一刻，我看到開門的那個人。

I see the person who's doing a particular job.

我看到正在做特定工作的那個人。

So in other words, I see the room always as a team.

所以換句話說，我總是把房間看作一個團隊。

And you did that the minute you walked into this room because there was, what, 10 people here from the person opened the door, the person that got the coffee, the people, you know, taking care of the cameras and you.

而你一走進這個房間就這麼做了，因為這裡有，大概有十個人，從開門的人、去拿咖啡的人、負責攝影機的人，還有你。

And Obviously, I've done 300 of these conversations.

顯然，我已經進行了三百次的這類對話。

You went around to every single person in this room and took an interest in every single person, which is.

你走遍了這個房間裡的每一個人，並且對每一個人產生了興趣，這點。

First game of my senior year, I break my foot.

我高三的第一場比賽，我摔斷了腳。

I come back in six weeks, and I break my foot a second time.

我六週後回來，又摔斷了第二次腳。

In my mind, my college career was over and my NBA dreams were dead.

在我腦海裡，我的大學生涯結束了，我的 NBA 夢想也破滅了。

I got offered a $75,000 job because one of our season ticket holders liked me.

我得到一份七萬五千美元的工作邀約，因為我們的一位季票持有者喜歡我。

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