Name: 7種讓你心動又健康的曖昧對象！ (7 Types of Healthy Crushes)
Uploaded: 2025-11-17T18:13:22.000Z
Duration: 6 min 19 s

There's nothing quite like developing a crush on someone.

迷戀上一個人，那種感覺真的很特別。

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It's not exactly the same as falling in love, but

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it definitely isn't just a friendly interest in someone either.

也絕對不只是單純的朋友好感而已。

For the most part, crushes are innocent, joyous affairs that really add a little spark to our day.

大部分時候，迷戀都是純真又快樂的事情，能為我們的一天增添一點火花。

While people might choose to deal with crushes in different ways, pretty much everyone has developed a crush at some point in their life.

雖然大家處理迷戀的方式可能不同，但幾乎每個人一生中都曾迷戀過某人。

Many of us had our first crush at extremely young ages, before we even knew what romance and dating really was.

很多人在還不懂什麼是戀愛和約會的時候，就很早就有了初戀。

Crushes might be fairly common things in life, but there's definitely not just one type either.

迷戀或許是生活中很常見的事情，但絕對不只有一種。

We've compiled a list of seven completely different variations on the common crush, and

我們編譯了七種完全不同的迷戀變奏，

it might be interesting for our viewers to watch through, especially those who currently have crushes.

我們的觀眾看下去可能會覺得很有趣，特別是那些現在正迷戀著某人的人。

Figuring this out might help you understand whether or not your innocent crush could develop into something more serious.

弄清楚這一點，或許能幫助你瞭解，你的純真迷戀是否有可能發展成更嚴肅的關係。

那種能幫助你度過難關的迷戀。迷戀可能是少數能提醒你，即使生活再怎麼黑暗，仍有希望的事物之一。

Having a crush that helps you get over hard times A crush can be one of the few things that reminds you that there is still hope, no matter how dark life gets.

如果你剛經歷了可怕的事情，有迷戀反而是個很棒的跡象。

If you've just gone through something horrible, having a crush is actually a really good sign.

這表示你正在走出過去的傷害，而且準備好再次去愛了。

This means that you're getting over whatever scarred you previously, and that you're ready to love again.

打開心扉，接受戀愛的可能性，有點像是一種信仰的飛躍。

Opening up your heart to the possibility of romance is kind of like a leap of faith.

即使你過去可能受過傷，再次發展出迷戀，代表你願意冒著痛苦的風險，再次感受那份美好的感覺。

Even though you might have been hurt in the past, developing a crush again means you're willing to risk pain in order to feel that wonderful feeling once again.

那種讓你期待上學或上班的迷戀。

我們都希望那些日子，就是我們好像起不了床、無法面對即將到來的一天。

That crush that makes you look forward to school or work.

We all hope those days when we just can't seem to get out of bed and face the day ahead.

我們都希望那樣的日子，當我們

Whether it's a boring day at school or a tiresome shift at work waiting for you, many of us find ourselves racking our minds for some reason.

無論是學校裡無聊的一天，還是工作中疲憊的輪班，我們許多人都在絞盡腦汁想些理由。

任何能讓我們跨出家門的理由。

A crush can really help motivate you to face all of the day's challenges.

迷戀真的能幫助你更有動力去面對一天的所有挑戰。

Indeed, having a crush can actually make you excited for even the most dreaded days that await you.

的確，有迷戀能讓你對即將到來、最讓你害怕的日子也感到興奮。

No matter how boring or hard that day is, you can bet that if your crush is going to be there, you'll always have a glowing feeling inside as you set foot outside each day.

不管那天有多無聊或多難熬，你可以打賭，如果你的迷戀對象會在，你每天出門時都會感到內心暖暖的。

Those childhood crushes Another type of crush almost all of us have experienced in the past is the good old fashioned childhood crush.

童年時期的迷戀 我們幾乎所有人都經歷過的另一種迷戀，就是那種老派的童年迷戀。

Many of us can recall our first ever crush and that strange feeling inside.

我們許多人都能回想起第一次迷戀的感覺，以及那種奇怪的內心感受。

Most of us weren't really sure what was happening to us, and

我們大多數人都不太確定自己身上發生了什麼，

it was probably A confusing time for many.

對很多人來說，那可能是一段令人困惑的時期。

But however you felt about your first childhood crushes, there's no denying that this experience was completely innocent and beautiful.

但不論你對童年時期的初戀感覺如何，都不可否認這段經歷是純真又美好的。

And that's a huge reason why these types of crushes are so unique.

這也是為什麼這類迷戀如此獨特的一大原因。

The crush that could be the one these types of crushes can be a real mind twister, but

那種可能是一生的迷戀 這種迷戀可能會讓人腦袋打結，但

there's no denying that there's something magical about their sheer intensity.

不可否認，那種純粹的強烈情感確實有種魔力。

These are the crushes where we get our hopes up and let our imaginations roam free, wondering what it would be like getting married to that person, having children with them, or even growing old with them.

這些迷戀讓我們充滿希望，讓想像力自由奔放，猜想和那個人結婚、生小孩，甚至一起變老會是什麼樣子。

Crushing on someone like this isn't quite the same as falling in love with them, but

迷戀一個人並不像真正墜入愛河，但

it's definitely part of the initial phases of falling in love.

這絕對是墜入愛河初期階段的一部分。

When we crush on someone in this manner, we're just starting to entertain the possibility that they just might be the one.

當我們這樣迷戀一個人時，我們才剛開始考慮他們有可能就是對的那個人。

這對我們的人生來說，是個非常重要的時刻。

When you know your crush is just a crush.

當你知道你的迷戀對象，就只是個迷戀對象的時候。

現在，我們來看看完全相反的情況。

Knowing when a crush is, well, just a crush, you know that it isn't serious, and

當你知道迷戀對象，嗯，就只是個迷戀對象，你知道這不是認真的，而且

There's nothing wrong with having a little crush on someone and being okay with the fact that you're slightly interested in them.

迷戀一個人沒什麼不對，而且能接受自己對他們有點興趣，這也很不錯。

That can also be a pretty interesting experience.

It's not like you're falling in love with them or anything.

You can still keep your wits about you and not get overly emotional.

你還是能保持理智，不會過度情緒化。

No need to get attached or start worrying too much.

And you can just let things develop as they would naturally.

然後你就可以順其自然地讓事情發展。

There's something undeniably fun about not taking relationships too seriously and just enjoying the fact that there is a little bit of a spark between you and someone else.

戀愛不那麼嚴肅，只是享受你和別人之間有點火花的事實，這有種難以否認的樂趣。

That crush that reminds you how beautiful life is.

那種讓你回想起生命多麼美好的迷戀。

Sometimes we find ourselves trudging through the dull corridors of life with our heads down, not bothering to glance up even once at the wonders that are unfolding before us.

有時候，我們發現自己低著頭，在生活的枯燥走廊裡艱難前行，甚至不願抬頭看一眼正在我們眼前展開的奇蹟。

As we've mentioned earlier, it's all about perception, and a simple crush can change everything.

正如我們之前提到的，這一切都關乎觀感，一個單純的迷戀就能改變一切。

Let's say you've gotten to a pretty stagnant routine, interacting with the same people, visiting the same places, and

假設你陷入了非常停滯的例行公事，與相同的人互動，去相同的地方，而且

everything seems like it's a record stuck on repeat.

似乎一切都像唱片卡住重複播放一樣。

When someone totally new and interesting comes into your life, it can be a massive wake up call, reminding us that there is still beauty out there in the world.

當一個全新且有趣的人進入你的生活時，這可能是一個巨大的警醒，提醒我們世界上仍然存在著美好。

Beauty that has the ability to truly shock us in the best possible way.

美麗，能以最好的方式真正地讓我們驚豔。

Having any type of secret is usually a pretty joyful experience, provided of course, that It's a good type of secret.

擁有任何類型的祕密，通常都是一件很快樂的事情，當然前提是，這是一個好的祕密。

You know, things like your secret stash of cookies waiting for you at home, or your secret obsession with binge watching Harry Potter movies.

像是，你家裡藏著等你享用的零食，或是你偷偷沉迷於追看哈利波特電影。

Having a good secret that you keep to yourself can be the one thing that nobody can ever take away from you, and

擁有一個只屬於自己的美好祕密，是別人永遠無法奪走的，而且

it can keep you thinking pretty positive, even when you've been dealt some pretty terrible cards.

即使你拿到一副爛牌，它也能讓你保持樂觀。

Well, one of the best types of secrets you can have is the fact that you have a crush on someone.

嗯，最棒的祕密之一，就是你迷戀某個人這件事。

These secret crushes sometimes cause our friends to say things like what's gotten into you?

這些祕密的迷戀有時會讓我們的朋友說出「你怎麼了？」之類的話。

And at this point we just smile and say nothing.

It's the type of crush that makes us feel warm inside and gives us that little bit of joy that makes each day a touch more satisfying.

這是一種會讓我們內心感到溫暖，並帶來一點點快樂，讓每一天都更滿足的迷戀。

These crushes usually form during the first stages of our attraction to someone, and

這些迷戀通常發生在我們對某人產生好感的初期階段，

Seven types of crushes that make us feel Amazing of course, there are probably more types of crushes out there, and

七種讓我們感覺很棒的迷戀。當然，外面可能還有更多類型的迷戀，

not all of them are necessarily good types of crushes.

But for the most part, crushes are innocent and fun and they'll fill us with joy.

但大多數情況下，迷戀是純真有趣的，它們會讓我們充滿快樂。

Do you know of any other types of crushes that we missed?

你知道還有哪些我們沒提到的迷戀類型嗎？

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