Name: 我問了日本岳父一些不該問的問題 (I Asked my Japanese Father-in-Law Questions I'm NOT Supposed To Ask)
Uploaded: 2025-09-06T18:01:59.000Z
Duration: 10 min 44 s

Have you ever had an awkward moment with your father-in-law?

您和您的岳父有過尷尬的時刻嗎？

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Well, I think I'm gonna have some with my Japanese father-in-law in this video because I'm gonna ask him some questions that I'm really not supposed to ask.

好吧，我想我要在這段視頻中和我的日本岳父來幾句，因為我要問他一些我真的不應該問的問題。

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I'm currently in Atami having a family trip with the in-laws and I thought I'd get to know my Japanese father-in-law a bit better by asking him some questions that I've always been afraid to ask.

我現在正在熱海與公婆一起進行家庭旅行，我想通過向我的日本岳父請教一些我一直不敢問的問題，來更好地瞭解他。

I mean, I only get one father-in-law, right?

我的意思是，我只有一個岳父，對嗎？

As some of these questions may not be culturally appropriate for a son-in-law like me to be asking.

因為對於我這樣的女婿來說，有些問題在文化上可能不太合適。

So here's the catch, I'm gonna make it harder for myself.

所以，問題來了，我要讓自己更難做。

Challenge number one, I must learn five things I don't know about him.

挑戰一，我必須瞭解五件我不知道的關於他的事。

Challenge number two, I must ask three questions that make me feel uncomfortable.

挑戰二，我必須問三個讓我感覺不舒服的問題。

Challenge number three, I must ask the questions at random parts of our trip.

挑戰三，我必須在旅行中隨機提問。

We're cool now, but we'll see if these questions bring us closer together or if he never wants to speak to me ever again.

我們現在很好，但我們要看看這些問題是會讓我們走得更近，還是他再也不想和我說話了。

Now that we're settled in, let's get the road on the show.

既然我們已經安頓好了，那就開始演出吧。

Question number one, what was your family like growing up?

第一個問題，你的家庭是怎樣成長的？

Question number two, what's your best childhood memory?

第二個問題，你最美好的童年記憶是什麼？

He says he also gathered bamboo shoots and fuki.

他說，他還收集了竹筍和福木。

In the summer, he even caught ayu fish to sell them to the ryokan hotels.

夏天，他還會捕捉鯰魚賣給旅館。

Gotta do a little bit of a move right now because she has to set up the table.

她現在得做點小動作，因為她得把桌子擺好。

So grandpa got Wolfie robot that is just non-stop dancing.

於是，爺爺就有了不停跳舞的 Wolfie 機器人。

I don't know, but it's a good idea to be honest with you.

我不知道，但對你說實話是個好主意。

Oh yeah, we're staying at the Furuya Ryokan.

實際上，這是我們第二次來這裡。

It was such a good experience the first time, especially with our in-room dining, we decided to do it again.

第一次的體驗非常好，尤其是在客房內用餐，所以我們決定再來一次。

All right, so it looks like they've finished setting the table.

好了，看來他們已經把桌子擺好了。

So I guess now I'm gonna ask a little bit more,

所以，我想現在我要再多問一點、

I don't know, prying questions, awkward questions, maybe.

我不知道，也許是打聽問題，也許是尷尬的問題。

So tell me, what don't you like about me?

What did you think when you found out your daughter was with a foreigner?

當你發現自己的女兒和一個外國人在一起時，你是怎麼想的？

That wasn't my question, but I didn't know that.

這不是我的問題，但我並不知道。

Good morning, the whole family is headed to the beach now.

早上好，我們全家現在要去海灘。

I think this will be a good opportunity to ask my father-in-law some more questions.

我想，這將是一個向我岳父提出更多問題的好機會。

So the Ryokan is literally a five-minute walk to Sun Beach, which is super clean and very chill.

從旅館步行五分鐘就能到達太陽海灘，那裡超級乾淨，非常涼爽。

I think this will be a good opportunity to ask more questions.

我想這將是一個提出更多問題的好機會。

What a lot of people don't know is that these sunglasses are actually goggles.

很多人不知道的是，這種太陽鏡實際上是護目鏡。

So what do you think about our YouTube career?

您對我們的 YouTube 事業有何看法？

So before I ask my father-in-law some more questions, let me give a quick shout out to the sponsor of this video, Squarespace.

在我向岳父提出更多問題之前，請允許我向本視頻的贊助商 Squarespace 表示感謝。

Now if you don't already know, Squarespace is the number one way to build your online presence.

現在，如果你還不知道，Squarespace 是建立在線形象的首要途徑。

In fact, I use Squarespace for my website, Tokyo Zebra.

事實上，我的網站 "東京斑馬"（Tokyo Zebra）就使用了 Squarespace。

Here are just some of the reasons why I love using Squarespace so much.

以下是我喜歡使用 Squarespace 的部分原因。

First of all, I've been promoting Squarespace on this channel for years now and let's be honest, they still haven't let me down.

首先，我在這個頻道推廣 Squarespace 已經好幾年了，老實說，他們仍然沒有讓我失望。

And as the internet has evolved over the years, so has Squarespace as they use cutting-edge design tools such as their Blueprint AI and AI Enhanced Website Builder to get a fully custom website in just a few steps, making it easy for beginners.

隨著互聯網多年來的發展，Squarespace 也在不斷進步，因為他們使用了最先進的設計工具，如 Blueprint AI 和 AI Enhanced Website Builder，只需幾步就能獲得完全定製的網站，讓初學者也能輕鬆上手。

No matter where you start, Squarespace is so flexible with intuitive drag-and-drop editing, beautiful styling options, etc.

無論從哪裡開始，Squarespace 都非常靈活，具有直觀的拖放編輯功能和精美的樣式選項等。

And like I said, no experience is required.

Also, if you want built-in analytics, Squarespace has you covered.

此外，如果您需要內置分析功能，Squarespace 也能滿足您的需求。

Want to sell content online with a payment system?

想通過支付系統在線銷售內容？

是的，Squarespace 可以滿足您的需求。

So there you go, go to squarespace.com today for your fee trial.

現在就去 squarespace.com 申請付費試用吧。

And when you're ready to launch, go to squarespace.com forward slash paolo from Tokyo and get 10% off your first domain or website.

當你準備好啟動網站時，訪問 squarespace.com 轉發東京的保羅，你的第一個域名或網站就能獲得 10% 的折扣。

So I think Oto-san is down on the first floor going to the onsen.

我想大藤先生正在一樓泡溫泉。

I just took a bath inside of our place, but let's see if we can catch him.

我剛在家裡洗了個澡，看看能不能抓到他。

Okay, so it looks like he is still in the onsen.

I'll just wait over here for him, sit down, and then yeah, he should be out shortly.

我就在這裡等他，坐下來，然後是的，他應該很快就出來了。

So what's the one thing you regret the most in your life?

那麼，你一生中最後悔的事情是什麼？

After chilling a bit in the hotel, we finished off the day with a traditional Japanese summer fireworks.

在酒店稍事休息後，我們在日本傳統的夏日焰火中結束了一天的行程。

The next day, after checking out of the hotel, we decided to hit up Atami Castle.

第二天，從酒店退房後，我們決定去熱海城堡看看。

Okay, so I haven't completed the challenges just yet, but my father-in-law is returning home soon, so it's now or never.

好吧，我還沒有完成挑戰，但我的岳父很快就要回家了，所以機不可失，時不再來。

Hey, so kind of a weird one, but when you die, what kind of legacy do you want to leave?

嘿，這個問題有點奇怪，但當你死後，你想留下什麼樣的遺產？

He says that he hasn't even really talked about it with his wife yet.

他說，他甚至還沒有和妻子真正談過這件事。

Preparing for your own death in Japan is called shukatsu, and it's a very common thing to do nowadays.

在日本，為自己的死亡做準備被稱為 "shukatsu"，如今這是一件非常普遍的事情。

I'm not sure why he told me about his funeral, but this is another thing I didn't know.

我不知道他為什麼要告訴我他的葬禮，但這是我不知道的另一件事。

Oto-san, thanks for being such a good sport on this trip.

大藤先生，謝謝你在這次旅行中表現得這麼好。

Okay, but no matter what I do, someone will always find a way to complain.

好吧，但無論我做什麼，總有人會想辦法抱怨。

So my original mission was to ask my Japanese father-in-law things I wasn't supposed to ask him, and I did.

是以，我最初的任務就是問我的日本岳父一些我不應該問他的事情，而我做到了。

At times awkward, especially because I live in Japan, but I'm grateful that I took the chance to get to know more about him on this trip.

雖然有時很尷尬，特別是因為我住在日本，但我很感激這次旅行讓我有機會更多地瞭解他。

I guess sometimes it doesn't hurt to ask the uncomfortable questions as long as it comes from a good place.

我想，有時候問一些讓人不舒服的問題也無傷大雅，只要是出於好的出發點。

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我問了日本岳父一些不該問的問題 (I Asked my Japanese Father-in-Law Questions I'm NOT Supposed To Ask)

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