people-pleaser
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n.名詞討好者
He is such a people-pleaser that he always agrees with whatever his boss says.
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你最大的缺點如何讓你更具吸引力！ (How Your Biggest Flaws Make You Attractive)
- You're a people pleaser.
你很討人喜歡。
- You're a people-pleaser.
記住，你的善意是一份禮物，只要確保它是送給那些值得的人。
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- Harmony does not mean compromising on principles to smooth things over, or trying to be a people-pleaser, or sticking to the path of moderation,
我沒有正常的人性，我真是惹神厭憎了。
- Harmony does not mean compromising on principles to smooth things over, or trying to be a people pleaser or sticking to the path of moderation.
和睦不是為了討好人，或一味地做老好人，而是在原則上妥協。
Nightline 全集直播 — 2026年3月13日 (週五) (Nightline Full Broadcast — Friday, March 13, 2026)
- I'm sure, because you were It made me a people pleaser.
而且我非常清楚地說明瞭
- It made me a people pleaser.
這讓我變成了一個討好他人的人。
為什麼你會感到沒動力？（你絕對想不到原因！） (Why You Feel Unmotivated (It’s Not What You Think))
- The people-pleaser who can't say no.
每個人都渴望被看見與肯定。
- The people pleaser who can't say no.
或是無法拒絕別人的討好者。
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- I am a natural people-pleaser,
首先是個大哉問。
- I am a natural people pleaser and I think this should shocks people who meet me today because I don't have traditional people pleasing qualities any longer.
我是個天生的人際取悅者，我想這可能會讓現在認識我的人感到驚訝，因為我已經沒有傳統的人際取悅的特質了。
關係中的討好者！ (People Pleasers in Relationships)
- We might, in irritation, be tempted to label our lover a liar or deceitful. But something far more poignant is at play. What we have on our hands is that most benighted of psychological types – the people-pleaser, a harried soul morbidly fearful of expressing their true opinions lest these clash with those of others and prone to initiating a variety of secret agendas in the hope of continuing to be liked. People-pleasers are hard enough at the office or in ordinary friendships. But they're especially tricky in love, for their behaviour so carefully tickles the area of our most profound hope – that someone, at last, agrees with us. It isn't that the people-pleaser is deep down entirely at odds with us. That would be too neat and, in a sense, simple enough to deal with. It's just we can't easily tell when natural alignment ends and manic subservient agreement begins. What should we make of this musical enthusiasm? Do they really think exactly as we do about money? The questions get ever larger and more consequential.
我們可能會因為惱怒而給夫妻貼上金光黨或欺騙的標籤。但是，有一些更為深刻的東西在起作用。我們所面對的是一種最愚昧的心理類型--討好者，這種人病態地害怕表達自己的真實觀點，以免與他人的觀點發生衝突，而且容易發起各種祕密計劃，希望繼續得到別人的喜歡。在辦公室或普通朋友關係中，討人喜歡的人已經夠難纏了。但在愛情中，他們尤其棘手，因為他們的行為小心翼翼地觸動了我們最深切的希望--終於有人同意我們了。這並不是說 "討好者 "在內心深處與我們完全對立。那樣就太乾脆了，而且從某種意義上說，處理起來也很簡單。只是我們不容易
- The tragedy is that the people-pleaser is deep down just horribly afraid. Something in their past has proved to them that they can never be forgiven for speaking their minds.
悲劇在於，討好別人的人內心深處非常害怕。他們過去的經歷向他們證明，說出自己的想法是永遠不會被原諒的。
女人們過度壓抑自我，健康亮紅燈！ (Self silencing is making women sick)
- The self-sacrificing mom, the chill girl, the people pleaser, society's normal definitely imposes a major health cost to women.
自我犧牲的母親、冷漠的女孩、取悅於人的人，社會的常態肯定會讓女性付出巨大的健康代價。
- The self-sacrificing mom, the chill girl, the people-pleaser—society's "normal" definitely imposes a major health cost to women.
我們能做什麼......婦女們快死了。
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- So just a couple examples: Instead of saying "yes" to people and being a people pleaser all the time, you're going to be able to say "no" instead because you value yourself, you value your time,
而任何不符合這種感覺的東西，你都會排斥它。
- So just a couple examples: Instead of saying yes to people and being a people-pleaser
所以只是舉了幾個例子。與其對人說 "是"，還不如做一個討好人的人。