Name: EP 806：坦白摯友的缺點，才能讓友誼長長久久！ (Ep. 806: Speaking Up About the Faults of Good Friends Makes for a Long and Good Friendship)
Uploaded: 2026-01-15T01:56:50.000Z
Duration: 34 min 28 s

基礎被動語態

In 2023, I was partnered with Yixing to do text based duties.

2023年，我跟一星搭檔做文字相關的職務。

Yixing's work capability is better than mine and she's also more efficient.

一星的work capability比我好，效率也比較高。

第二類條件句型

Normally, if I had any kind of state, she would fellowship God's words to help me.

平常我不管有什麼樣的狀況，她都會用fellowship God's words來幫助我。

In February 2024, during gathering, Yixing incorporated the words of God to understand her own arrogant disposition, but

2024年2月，在聚會的時候，一星藉著神的話來認識自己arrogant disposition，但是

After she finished, Lan Xing pointed out some of Yixing's arrogant and constraining behavior when doing her duty.

她說完之後，蘭星點出了她們在盡本分時，一星一些arrogant and constraining behavior。

She said that normally when Yixing pointed out her problems, Yixing's tone contained some disdain, which constrained her a lot, and

她說平常一星指出她問題的時候，語氣裡帶著一些disdain，讓她覺得很不自在，而且

there were times when she felt that her caliber was poor and she wasn't good enough for the duty.

有時候她會覺得自己的caliber不好，不配盡這個本分。

Yixing told her disdainfully to resign if she couldn't do it, which made her very negative.

一星就用disdain的態度跟她說，做不好就resign，讓她覺得很negative。

While Lan Xing talked, Yixing's face slowly sank.

蘭星說話的時候，一星的臉色慢慢沉了下來。

When Lan Xing finished her fellowship, Ye Xing cried, saying that she had constrained others and done evil and her mood was low.

蘭星講完她的fellowship後，一星哭著說自己約束了別人，做了惡事，心情很低落。

I thought that Y Xing had not fully accepted the problems that Lan Sheng had pointed out, but

我心想一星沒有完全接受蘭星指出的問題，但是

then I also thought that Yi Xing attached great weight to face, and

so it was normal that she wouldn't be able to accept it straight away when Lan Sheng pointed at her problems.

所以當蘭星指出她的問題時，她一時無法接受也是正常的。

She should be a bit better after a while, and so I didn't say anything more.

過一段時間她應該會好一點，所以我沒有再多說什麼。

While eating, Lan Xing sought out Y Xing several times for a chat, but Yu Xing ignored her.

吃飯的時候，蘭星幾次想找一星聊聊，但一星都沒理她。

Yu Xing and I worked in the same office together, and

after lunch, Lan Xing came to our office to help me with the computer.

午飯後，蘭星來到我們辦公室幫我處理電腦。

Yu Xing then went outside as if she was deliberately avoiding Lan Xing.

宇星就這樣走到外面，好像刻意在閃避蘭星。

Previously, she and Lan Xing had often chatted and laughed together, but

以前她跟蘭星常常一起哈拉說笑，但

now it was as if she was a different person.

I realized that Yi Xing was prejudiced to word Lanxing.

我發現一星對蘭星的話有偏見。

I wanted to ask about her state and point out that her attitude was one of not accepting the truth and would make people feel constrained.

我想問問她的狀況，並點出她的態度是不接受真相，會讓人覺得很受侷限。

Lan Xing pointed at her problems just then, but she hasn't adjusted her state yet.

蘭星剛剛指出了她的問題，但她還沒調整好狀態。

If I go and criticize her now, will she just get even more negative?

如果我現在去批評她，會不會讓她變得更負面？

If she has a bad opinion of me later and ignores me, what will I do?

如果她之後對我有不好的看法，不理我了，那我該怎麼辦？

We share an office and see each other every time we turn our heads.

我們是同一個辦公室的，抬頭不見低頭見。

If our relationship gets plunged into a deep freeze, then it's going to be so difficult to get along in the future.

如果我們的關係變得冷淡，那以後相處就會很困難了。

Later, if I have any state or encounter any problems in my work.

之後，如果我的工作狀態或遇到任何問題。

When I thought this, I swallowed the words I had been about to say.

我這樣想著，就把原本要說的話吞了回去。

However, I could clearly see that Yi Xing's state was not good and felt self reproachful for not fellowshiping about it.

不過，我看得出來依星的狀態不太好，覺得自己沒有好好 fellowship 讓她感到自責。

I then plucked up the courage to ask, it looks like your state is not so good.

我就鼓起勇氣問，妳的狀態好像不太好喔。

Because the problems that Lan Xing pointed out are hard to accept straight away.

因為蘭星指出的問題，一下子很難接受。

If you have any thoughts, you can open up and fellowship about them.

如果你有任何想法，都可以 open up 來 fellowship 喔。

I'm digesting it, and then said nothing more.

我正在消化，然後就沒再說什麼了。

Seeing that she didn't want to open up and fellowship about it, I didn't know what to say.

看她不想 open up 來 fellowship 這件事，我也不知道該說什麼。

All of a sudden, I was worried that if I said anything more, it would provoke antipathy toward me and she would have a bad opinion of me.

突然間，我擔心如果我再多說什麼，會引起她的反感，讓她對我留下壞印象。

Therefore, I just spoke a few words of encouragement and ended the conversation hastily.

所以，我只說了幾句鼓勵的話，就匆匆結束了談話。

Afterward, Yu Xing buried her head in eating and working for two days on end.

之後，宇星連續兩天埋頭吃飯和工作。

She basically didn't speak at all except when we asked her about something, and

她基本上什麼話都不說，除非我們問她事情，

Previously, whenever there were any problems I couldn't see through in our work, Yu Xing would proactively express her opinions and provide a few suggestions.

以前，只要我們工作上有什麼我看不太懂的問題，宇星都會主動表達意見，給出一些建議。

If there were any parts of my work letters where my fellowship was unclear, she would help me make them better.

如果我的工作信件裡有什麼地方，關於我的fellowship不清楚，她都會幫我做得更好。

However, during these two days, Yixing wouldn't even fellowship about the problems we encountered in our work.

不過這兩天，宇星對於我們工作上遇到的問題，甚至連fellowship都不願意。

I wanted to bring them up and discuss them, but

when I saw that Yi Xing wasn't in a good mood, I thought that it would be hard to achieve any results by discussing the work, and

看到宇星情緒不太好的樣子，我想說再討論工作也很難有什麼結果，

Afterward, I wanted to expose Yi Sheng's behavior so she could become aware of her problems.

後來，我想要揭露宇星的行為，讓她意識到自己的問題。

But then I thought that Lan Xing had only mentioned her arrogant disposition briefly, and

但我又想，蘭星只是簡短地提過她arrogant disposition，

Yixing's state had become this bad as a result.

If I mention again that she doesn't accept the truth, then won't she become prejudiced toward me and do her duty with a barrier in her heart?

如果我再提她不接受truth，那她不就會prejudiced to word，心裡帶著障礙去做她的duty嗎？

How difficult would it be for us to get along then?

Therefore, I said to Yixing tactfully, if you have any thoughts, you can talk about them.

所以我很委婉地跟宇星說，如果你有什麼想法，都可以說出來。

If you carry on never saying anything like this, you will constrain people.

如果你一直都不說這些話，你會讓別人覺得被constraining behavior。

God set up this kind of environment to allow us to reflect on our own corrupt dispositions.

神設立這樣的環境，是為了讓我們檢討自己corrupt dispositions。

It is beneficial for our life entry, she said in a low voice.

她小聲地說，這對我們的life entry很有幫助。

If I say less in the future, I won't make people feel constrained.

以後我少說一點，就不會讓別人覺得被constraining behavior了。

When I saw that Yi Xing was talking like she was still in a huff, I hesitated again.

看到宇星講話還一副生氣的樣子，我又猶豫了。

If I point out her problems and she doesn't accept them, then will she ignore me as well?

如果我點出她的問題，她又不接受，那她是不是也會不理我？

Let's wait until she's willing to open up and fellowship at that time.

等她願意open up、fellowship的時候再說吧。

Later, when we discussed the work together, Yixing still didn't say much.

後來我們一起討論work capability的時候，宇星還是沒說什麼。

Lan Xing saw how Yu Xing was being and didn't know quite what to do.

蘭星看到宇星的樣子，也不知道該怎麼辦。

She felt that it was her fault and felt very self reproachful.

她覺得是自己的錯，覺得很self reproachful。

Those two days, all I could think about was this matter.

那兩天，我腦子裡想的都是這件事。

I couldn't even get my heart to calm down when doing my duty.

連做duty的時候，心都靜不下來。

I prayed to God to tell him about my state that he may lead me to understand myself.

我禱告跟神說我的狀況，求祂引導我認識自己。

Later I read these words of God Almighty.

God says most people wish to pursue and practice the truth, but

神說，大多數人想追求實踐真理，但

much of the time they merely have a resolution and the desire to do so.

很多時候，他們只是一心想著，有這個意願。

As a result, when they come across evil forces or encounter evil people and bad people committing evil deeds, or false leaders and antichrists doing things in a way that violates principles, thus disturbing the work of the Church and harming God's chosen ones, they lose the courage to stand up and speak out.

結果，當他們遇到邪惡勢力，或碰到惡人惡行，或假冒為善的領袖和敵基督者，以違背原則的方式行事，擾亂教會工作，傷害神選民時，他們就沒有勇氣站出來說話了。

What does it mean when you have no courage?

Does it mean that you are timid or inarticulate?

Or is it that you do not understand thoroughly and therefore do not have the confidence to speak up?

還是說你沒有徹底明白，所以沒有信心說出來？

This is primarily the consequence of being restrained by corrupt dispositions.

這是因為被敗壞性情所轄制，所導致的結果。

One of the corrupt dispositions you reveal is a deceitful disposition.

其中一種敗壞性情，就是詭詐的性情。

When something happens to you, the first thing you think of is your own interests.

當事情臨到你身上，你首先想到的就是自己的利益。

The first thing you consider is the consequences, whether this will be beneficial to you.

你首先考慮的是後果，這對你有沒有好處。

This is a deceitful disposition, is it not?

Another is a selfish and base disposition.

還有一個就是自私卑鄙的性情。

You think, what does a loss to the interests of God's house have to do with me?

你想，神家利益受損跟我有什麼關係？

我又不是什麼帶領，我為什麼要管？

Such thoughts and words are not something that you consciously think, but

這樣的想法和說話，並不是你刻意去想的，而是

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