每日口說挑戰你對他人的評價可能會影響他們的人生？來看看畢馬龍效應 (The Pygmalion Effect)

☺It can be best understood by a circle where our beliefs about another person's abilities influence our actions toward the other person.
這個效應最好理解的方式是透過一張圓形的循環圖，從這張循環圖可看出：「我們怎麼看待這個人的能力」會影響到「我們怎麼去對待這個人」。(我們對待他的方式又會影響到他的自我觀感，進而影響到他的所作所為，然後他的作為又反過來強化了我們對他的看法，形成了一種循環。)
【心得】因材施教。我覺得多數人喜歡被鼓勵，但也是有人越被看衰、反而越要爭一口氣。
■influence [ˋɪnflʊəns] 影響
影響、作用[(+on/upon)]
影響力；勢力、權勢[(+over/with)]
有影響力的人/事/物；有權勢者[(+for/on)]
■belief[bɪˋlif] 相信；信任、信賴 [(+in)][(+that)]；信念、看法[(+that)]
信仰[(+in)]
信條、教義
beyond belief (太壞、太好、太艱難等而）令人難以置信
beliefs 是名詞 belief 的複數形式；believes 是動詞 believe 的第三人稱單數形式
■toward [təˋwɔrd] {美式主要用 toward、英式主要用towards} 朝、向；關於、對於；接近、將近；為了、有助於
即將來到；進行中的

Thank you, Lian. 唱得太好聽了，一小段不過癮。

話說我一直認為應該要翻成「屁馬連效應」…

然後今天好像是女神語速挑戰日？

來模仿一下女神的語速好了 ʕ´• ᴥ•̥`ʔ
#不要打我

很特別!!!

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It can be best understood by a circle where our beliefs about another person's abilities influence our actions toward the other person.

最好理解的方式是透過一張圓形流程圖，關於我們對別人能力的認知會影響我們對別人的行為。

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1. _
* influence [ˋɪnflʊəns] (v.) 影響
- What you read influences your thinking. => influence: 緩慢的影響
+ 您閱讀的內容會影響您的思維。
- The disease affects every aspect of her life.
+ 這種疾病影響到她生活的方方面面。
- The Scandal impacted the election results.
+ 醜聞影響了選舉結果。 => 重大的影響
- Sometimes people become easily influenced by others and lose themselves.
+ 有時人們容易受到他人的影響而迷失自己。
- social media influencer => 網路名人

2. _
* belief [bɪˋlif] (n.) 相信；信仰；信念
- believe in God
- do something believe in sth
- political belief
- believe in the validity of the scientific statement
- faith / belief: faith 全然的信任感 / belief 個人觀點
- belief religion
- I have faith in God.
- CEO has firm beliefs about employees' abilities so he never tries to micromanage them.
+ CEO對員工的能力有著堅定的信念，因此他從不嘗試對員工進行微觀管理。

3. _
* toward [təˋwɔrd] (prep.) 朝；關於；接近；為了
- Drive toward the city
- The bench is toward lake
- I work toward a better environment.
- Our attitudes toward others actually reflect on who we really are.
+ 我們對他人的態度實際上反映了我們的真實身份。

It can be best understood by a circle where our beliefs about another person's abilities influence our actions toward the other person.

**比馬龍效應不只能運用在學校教育裡，對於自己的自我成長也能有一定的幫助！

He walks toward（走向） the house.

What you read influences (影響)your thinking.

The disease affects every aspect of her life.這疾病影響她生活各層面

The outbreak of the scandal impacted the election results.醜聞的爆發大大的影響選舉結果

Sometimes people become easily influenced by (輕易被影響）others and lose themselves.

Social media influencer社群媒體影響者

Religious beliefs宗教信仰
Political beliefs 政治信念

Believe in the validity in scientific statements.相信科學陳述的有效性

I have a faith（較深的信仰） in God.
I believe in God.

The CEO has a firm faith about the employee’s abilities so he never tries to micromanage (控制所有的地方；甘涉）them.

Drive towards the city 開向城市

An attitude towards work 對工作的態度

The bench towards the lake 那張朝向湖的長凳

I work towards a better environment. 我為了更好的環境工作

Our attitude towards others actually reflect on (反映出)who we really are.

The Pygmalion effect is the phenomenon whereby higher expectations lead to higher performance. It can be best understood by a circle where our beliefs about another person’s abilities influence our actions toward the other person. This action has an impact on other’s beliefs about themselves. The beliefs about themselves cause the others actions toward us, which again reinforce our beliefs about that person. And so on and on and on.
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1-1. influence [ˋɪnflʊəns] (v.) (n.) 影響

influence, affect, impact 作動詞時都是「影響」的意思

1-1. influence (v.) (緩慢的）影響，例如對行為、性格、觀點產生間接或潛移默化的影響。
* What you read influences your thinking.

1-2. affect (v.) (一時、當下快速的）影響，沒有特定正面或負面的意思。
* The disease affects every aspect of her life.

1-3. impact (v.)（重大的）影響，當頭棒喝的語氣。通常是指激烈的事件。
* The outbreak of the scandal impacted the election results.
* Sometimes people become easily influenced by others and lose themselves.

1-4. influencer (n.) 影響者，具有影響力者
* social media influencer 社群媒體影響者

2-1. belief [bɪˋlif] (n.) 相信
* belief in God
belief in democracy
belief in science
* do something and the belief that…
基於對…的相信而做某事

2-2. belief (n.) 信念，信仰
* religious belief
political belief

2-3. belief (n.)（某些存在或現象經過檢驗證實後的）觀點
* belief in the validity([vəˋlɪdətɪ]有效性n.) of the scientific statement

2-4. faith (n.) 信仰，信念（對神的信仰，對某人的忠誠度，宗教信仰中的某派系或支派）
* The Protestant faith 新教信仰

2-5. belief vs. faith
belief 個人觀點或價值觀，無特定對錯
faith 信任一個無法經由事實檢驗證實的事件，例如對神的信仰。

* religious belief(o)
religious faith(x)

* I have a faith in God.(o)
I have a belief in God.(x)
I believe in God.(o)
I have a religious belief.(o)

* The CEO has firm beliefs about the employees’ abilities, so he never tries to micromanage them.

3-1. toward [təˋwɔrd] (prep.) 朝(某物，某方向)
* Drive toward the city.

3-2. toward (prep.) 關於⋯，與⋯相關
* an attitude toward work

3-3. toward (prep.) 接近（某地，某時間）
* The bench toward lake

3-4. toward (prep.) 為了達成⋯
* I work toward a better environment.

3-5. toward vs. towards
英國、澳洲(英語體系)多用towards
加拿大、美國(美語體系) toward, towards 通用

* Our attitudes toward others actually reflect on who we really are.

謝謝Lian＆大家～
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＃今天冷到一個傻眼 嗚嗚嗚 抱著棉被不想撒手～
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It can be best understood by a circle where our beliefs about another person's abilities influence our actions toward the other person.
最好理解的方式是透過一張圓形流程圖，關於我們對別人能力的認知會影響我們對別人的行為。

#We can't judge a book by its cover.
It can be best understood by a circle where our beliefs about another person's abilities influence our actions toward the other person.

沒事啦 https://youtu.be/knPiZYRvgAM 好聽耶！

聽說今天是女神日 ^ ^