每日口說挑戰【家庭教育】父母管太嚴對孩子的傷害大！？(How DANGEROUS Are Strict Parents?)

+英文版筆記(附上如何切換到英文版挑戰的指引)及影片筆記貼在留言區。英文版筆記也貼到英文版挑戰的錄音區了。
+更正啟示：10/6口說挑戰9：10，筆記原本為sounds basically，更正為sounds a bit silly, 謝謝NicoleMonson的提醒！
+歡迎大家給我這個金魚腦媽媽指正錯誤，團結就是力量啊！
中英版筆記：... Strict parents ,or loose and fun, loving parents, which of parents do you have? You’ve probably heard it already. How strict your parents are will affect your well-being in the future.
When I was in the elementary school, there was a kid named…well, let’s call him Pikachu for his privacy. Pikachu came from a rich family, his parents were very protective of him. His mom would carry his school bag for him to the classroom. He always got the highest scores in our class. I was always kinda jealous of him. I went to school by school bus every day and I carried my own books back. It would have been nice when my parents drove me to school. I could have gotten up later and slept another 20 minutes. Anyway, I was jealous. Until one day I found out that due to his parents’ protectness(protection?), he didn’t have the skills protect himself from anything. He lacked of all social skills also made him dislikable. Long story short, he got hit by the other classmate who just tolerated him any longer.
I’m not saying that hitting someone just because they annoy you is good, but this could all be avoided if Pikachu was more independent. I don’t where he is now but I hope he turned out all right. This video today further explains how strict parents affect their kids. If you’re interested, go watch it. But before that, let’s practice today’s sentence.

“It combines discipline and guidance with warmth and support - something I think all of us can benefit from.”

1-1. combine [kəmˋbaɪn] (v.) （使）結合；（使）聯合
* I combined ballet and breakdance(霹靂舞) to invent the ultimate(極限的) dance of a bipolar(躁鬱的) person.

1-2. combination [͵kɑmbəˋneʃən] (n.) 組合；混合；結合；綜合
* The combination of blue, green and red clay(黏土) makes black clay, which is already in the box.
* If you know me well enough, you'll know what my password combination is.

2-1. guidance [ˋgaɪdns] (n.) 指導，引導
* With the teacher's guidance, I was able to get into my dream school.

2-2. guide [gaɪd] (n.) 1. 指南，要覽，手冊，指導性的事物 2. 導遊，嚮導
* There are travel guides you can take in the tourist center.
* As the tour guide, you are supposed(應當的) to know all the popular destinations(目的地).

2-3. guide [guide] (v.) 1. 給…導遊，帶…參觀，領…四處看 2. 引導，指導，指引（做困難的事情）
* I know today is your first day , do you need someone to guide you around?
* The copy machine is in the other room, let me guide you there.

3-1. benefit [ˋbɛnəfɪt] (v .) 得益，受惠；使受益；對…有幫助
* I don't think Ruby would help her brother willingly(願意地), I'm certain she benefited from it somehow(以某種方式).

3-2. benefit [ˋbɛnəfɪt] (n.) 利益，好處；優勢
* Living with your parents comes with a lot of benefits. For one, you don't have to pay for the electric bill.

3-3. beneficial [͵bɛnəˋfɪʃəl] (adj.) 有益的，有用的，有利的
* I believe some time apart(分開地) will be beneficial for our relationship.

放連假前，大家記得要錄音！！！有錄音的才乖～～～～～

Question of the day: Is your mom stricter or your is dad stricter?
媽媽還是爸爸比較嚴？XDD

☺It combines discipline and guidance with warmth and support - something I think all of us can benefit from.
這種教養方式結合了「有紀律的管教」及「溫馨的支持」—— 這也是我認為對所有人都有好處的方式。
【心得】最近剛好開始看台劇《你的孩子不是你的孩子》，目前已經看了2集，家長的管教還真讓人窒息啊!!!
■combine [kəmˋbaɪn] (使)結合；(使)聯合；(使)合併；(使)綜合；(使)化合[(+with)]
兼有、兼備；兼做、同時做(兩種活動)
聯合企業、集團；聯合收割機
■combination [kɑmbəˋneʃən] 組合；團體；聯盟；密碼鎖、密碼組合
結合(體)；聯合(體)
■guidance [ˋgaɪdns] 指導，引導；領導；(飛彈或火箭等的)導引
■guide [gaɪd] 指南、要覽、手冊[(+to sth)]；旅行指南[(+to 地點)]；指導性的事物；導遊、嚮導；指導者；入門書、簡介[(+to sth)]；準則、根據；{英國}女童子軍
為…領路/擔任嚮導/四處看；引導、指導、指引；管理；操控、駕駛；(感情等)支配(人)、給予極大的影響
■benefit [ˋbɛnəfɪt]利益；好處；優勢；(政府)補助金、救濟金
(員工得到的)補助、津貼、額外收入；義演、義賽、義賣
(雇主提供的)福利政策
受惠；使受益；對…有幫助
■beneficial [͵bɛnəˋfɪʃəl] 有益的；有利的；有幫助的[(+for/to)]；{法律}有權益的；受益的

Thank you, Ingrid.

關於管教…嗯，過猶不及啊！

真的傷害很大，就像被父母綁架一樣


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It combines discipline and guidance with warmth and support - something I think all of us can benefit from.

它結合了約束引導型及溫暖支持型的教育方法—— 這也是我認為所有人都能從中受益的方法。

句子選自此影片 : 【家庭教育】父母管太嚴對孩子的傷害大！？(How DANGEROUS Are Strict Parents?)


1. _
* combine [kəmˋbaɪn] (v.) （使）結合；（使）聯合；（使）合併；（使）綜合
- I combined ballet and breakdance to invent the ultimate dance of a Bipolar person.
+ 我結合芭蕾舞和霹靂舞來發明躁鬱的舞蹈。
* combination [͵kɑmbəˋneʃən] (n.) 組合；混合；結合；綜合
- The combination of blue-green and red clay makes black clay, which is already in the box.
+ 藍綠色和紅色黏土的組合使黑色黏土已經存在。
- If you know me well enough you'll know what my password combination is.
+ 如果您對我足夠了解，您將知道我的密碼組合是什麼。

2. _
* guidance [ˋgaɪdns] (n.) 指導，引導
- With the teacher's guidance, I was able to get into my dream school.
+ 在老師的指導下，我得以進入夢想中的學校。
* guide [gaɪd] (n.) 1. 指南，要覽，手冊，指導性的事物 2. 導遊，嚮導
- There are travel guides you can take in the tourist center.
+ 您可以在旅遊中心帶一些旅行指南。
- As the tour guide you are supposed to know all the popular destinations.
+ 作為導遊，您應該知道所有受歡迎的目的地。
* guide [guide] (v.) 1. 給…導遊，帶…參觀，領…四處看 2. 引導，指導，指引（做困難的事情）
- I know today is your first day do you need someone to guide you around.
+ 我知道今天是您的第一天，您需要有人指導您嗎？
- The copy machine is in the other room let me guide you there.
+ 影印機在另一個房間裡，讓我引導您到那裡。

3. _
* benefit [ˋbɛnəfɪt] (v .) 得益，受惠；使受益；對…有幫助
- I don't think Ruby would help her brother willingly, I'm certain she benefited from it, somehow.
+ 我認為Ruby不會願意幫助她的兄弟，我敢肯定她會從中受益。
* benefit [ˋbɛnəfɪt] (n.) 利益，好處；優勢
- Living with your parents comes with a lot of benefits for the one you don't have to pay for the electric bill.
+ 與您的父母同住會帶來很多好處，因為您不必為電費付錢。 => 哪家人這麼好，我家還要付房租勒
* beneficial [͵bɛnəˋfɪʃəl] (adj.) 有益的，有用的，有利的
- I believe some time apart will be beneficial for our relationship.
+ 我相信相隔一段時間將對我們的關係有益。

I combined ballet and breakdance to invent the ultimate dance of a bipolar（兩極的,躁鬱的） person.

The combination of blue, green and red clay makes black clay, which is already in the box.

If you know me enough, you’ll know what my password combination is.

With the teacher’s guidance(指導), I was able to get into my dream school.

There are travel guides(旅遊手冊 )you can take in the tourist center.

As a tourist guide(導遊), you’re supposed to know all the popular destinations(熱門景點).

I know today is your first day. Do you need someone to guide you around(帶你認識環境）?

The copy machine is in the other room. Let me guide (引) you there.

I don’t think Ruby will help her brother willingly. I’m certain she benefited from it somehow(我確信她以某種方式從中得利).

Living with your parents comes with a lot of benefits. For one, you don’t have to pay for the electric bill.

I believe some time apart (分離)will be beneficial for our relationship.

*To take some time apart from the partner would help you realize how much you appreciate your partner or find out you’re not with the right person. So there are risks to consider.

謝謝Ingrid＆大家～
＃慢速～中速～快速～
＃鼻涕慢慢少了 可是喉嚨像刀割 這年頭感冒都這麼傷人嗎嗚嗚嗚
＃聽背景音就知道卡媽也被傳染了 T_T
～～～～～～～～～～～～
It combines discipline and guidance with warmth and support - something I think all of us can benefit from.
它結合了約束引導型及溫暖支持型的教育方法—— 這也是我認為所有人都能從中受益的方法。

It combines discipline and guidance with warmth and support - something I think all of us can benefit from.

爽柿回國~

其實好像有很爽到

每天走20000步

#時代改變，父母要跟上時代。無論多想給孩子heads-up，「話當年」這招通常沒有什麼用...因為他們沒有在那個時空背景裡啊。

It combines discipline and guidance with warmth and support - something I think all of us can benefit from.

It combines discipline and guidance with warmth and support - something I think all of us can benefit from.

以前小時候都是爸爸超放任，媽媽比較會管。長大後媽媽基本上也不太管了，很感謝我媽對我們一直抱著很開明的態度。

今天就是翻譯公司的一面了，希望筆試可以通過，不過這樣感覺如果通過可能還會有二面吧。