每日口說挑戰活出不留遺憾的人生 (Masculine Man: How To Live Without Regret)

「寵辱不驚，閒看庭前花開花落；去留無意，漫隨天外雲卷雲舒。」

去年讀到最打入心的字句，奉為今年的人生圭臬。

Day 103
There are the moments that you truly cherish at the end of your life. These are End goals and these are what you should be chasing. Once you ask yourself what experiences, do I want to have in my life, you will identify what your End goals are.

It's a busy weekend!


[NOTE]
There are the moments that you truly cherish at the end of your life. These are End goals and these are what you should be chasing. Once you ask yourself what experiences, do I want to have in my life, you will identify what your End goals are.

有些時光是到生命盡頭時也會真正珍惜的時光。這些是最終目標，最終目標才是你該追求的。當你問自己：「我一生中想要怎樣的體驗？」你就會知道自己的最終目標是什麼。


1. _
* moment [ˋmomənt] (n.) 瞬間；片刻
- I fell in love the moment I saw him.
+ 我看到他的那一刻就墜入愛河。
+ love at first sight => 墜入愛河
* momentous [moˋmɛntəs] (adj.) 重大的，重要的
- significant
- very important
- Whether to marry this man is a momentous decision for me.
+ 是否嫁給這個男人對我來說是一個重大的決定。

2. _
* cherish [ˋtʃɛrɪʃ] (v.) 珍愛；懷有 (記憶、希望)
- I will cherish the memory with made in the two-day trip from ever it's so beautiful that it doesn't seem real at all.
+ 在這兩天的旅行中，我將永遠珍惜記憶，它是如此美麗，以至於它看起來並不真實。
* treasure [ˋtrɛʒɚ] (v.) 珍愛；珍藏
- I treasure this necklace very much because it was a gift from my grandmother.
+ 我非常珍惜項鍊，因為它是我奶奶的禮物。
- cherish => 珍藏記憶, treasure => 實體

3. _
* goal [gol] (n.) 目的、目標
- My goal is to beat him in this game.
+ 我的目標是在這場比賽中擊敗他。
* goal [gol] (n.) (足球等) 攻門；射門得分
- Venezuela one by two goals to one.
+ 委內瑞拉二比一贏得比賽。
* 發音有些微差異

4. _
* chase [tʃes] (v.) 追逐；追捕
- The cat chase the mouse as its prey.
+ 貓追逐老鼠作為獵物。
* pursue [pɚˋsu] (v.) 追趕；追蹤
- She's determined to make her dream come true and she pursues it with everything she has.
+ 她決心讓自己的夢想成真，並用她擁有的一切來追求夢想。
* chase => 追逐實體, pursue => 追夢

5. _
* identify [aɪˋdɛntə͵faɪ] (v.) 與...認同；視…為同一事物
- He has left Taiwan for too long so he cannot identify with Taiwanese anymore.
+ 他已經離開台灣太久了，所以他無法對台灣產生認同感了。
+ identify with + sth.

☺They are the moments that you truly cherish at the end of your life. These are End goals and these are what you should be chasing. Once you ask yourself, "what experiences do I want to have in my life?", you will identify what your End goals are.
那些時光是你到了生命盡頭時，會很珍惜的。這些就是你的「終極目標」，這些目標才是你應該去追求的。當你捫心自問：「我這一輩子想要有哪些體驗？」你就會知道自己的「終極目標」是什麼了。
【心得】把已經發生過的事都當成是命運的安排就沒啥好後悔的了。木已成舟，不然勒?!(我不會後悔，但是我很難改掉的壞習慣就是老愛挑自己毛病> <)
■cherish [ˋtʃɛrɪʃ] 珍愛；愛護；珍藏，懷有(希望、記憶)；抱有(想法)
■chase [tʃes] 追逐；追捕；追蹤；趕出，驅逐
追逐，追趕；追尋；追求[（+after）]；匆忙地走，奔跑
追逐；追擊；追求；被追獵的動物，被追逐的人；打獵；獵場
■identify with sb 認同(某人)，與(某人)產生共鳴

任性地改了一點標點符號，又任性地加了一小句...
然後第一個字我覺得是They're比較合理。


you truly cherish at the end of your life
what you should be chasing


They're the moments that you truly cherish at the end of your life. These are End goals, and these are what you should be chasing. Once you ask yourself, "what experiences do I want to have in my life?", you will identify what your End goals are, and you should actually write them down.

Personally, it’s what called the “ultimate concern” to me. To reach the gain you ultimately care about, you have to build up several small goals to go through with pain. After all, no gain without pain, isn’t it?

In real life, we have so many things tangled (交纏）together . Sometimes we can’t immediately see through the things and find out the real meaning of significance of them.

I fell in love the moment I saw him.

Love at first sight.ㄧ見鍾情
*也可說You have me at hello.（這句我覺得很棒:D)

Momentous=significant
Whether to marry this men is a momentous decision for me.

I’ll cherish (珍惜；多用於記憶)the memory we’ve made in the two-day-trip forever. It’s so beautiful and it doesn’t seem real at all.

I treasure (珍藏）this necklace very much because it was a gift from my grand mother.

My goal is to beat him in this game.

Venezuela won by two goals to one(兩分比一射門).

The cat chased（追補） the mouse as its prey(獵物).

She’s determined to make her dream come true and she pursues(追求) it with everything she has.

He has left Taiwan for too long so he can not identify with (認同⋯某人某事）Taiwanese anymore.

#吃飽、睡好、心情好，就算不負人生了。

There are the moments that you truly cherish at the end of your life. These are End goals and these are what you should be chasing. Once you ask yourself what experiences, do I want to have in my life, you will identify what your End goals are.

Thanks Priscilla and every friend~

There are the moments that you truly cherish at the end of your life. These are End goals and these are what you should be chasing. Once you ask yourself what experiences, do I want to have in my life, you will identify what your End goals are. And you should actually write them down.

How to live without regret?
#2
How do I have to grow in order to get my end goals?
#3
How can I give back to the world? What truly leads to fulfillment?

There are the moments that you truly cherish at the end of your life. These are End goals and these are what you should be chasing. Once you ask yourself what experiences, do I want to have in my life, you will identify what your End goals are.

Thanks Priscilla for choosing this inspiring video. Love it!

3 life questions you need to ask yourself:
• What experiences do I want to have in my life?
• For me to be this man or woman who has all these experiences, how do I have to grow in order to get them?
• How can I give back to the world?


Day 12 How to live without regret?

1-1) moment (n)
I fell in love the moment I saw him.
love at the first sight

1-2) momentous (adj): very important
Whether to marry this man is a momentous decision for me.

2-1) cherish (v) (常用於抽象事物)
I will cherish the memory we made in the two-day trip forever. It's so beautiful that it doesn't seem real at all.

2-2) treasure (v)
I treasure this necklace very much, because it was a gift from my grandmother.

3) goal (n)
My goal is to beat him in this game.
Venezuela won by two goals to one.

4-1) chase (v)
Tha cat chased the mouse as its prey.

4-2) pursue (v) (多用於追尋抽象概念)
She is determined to make her dream come true and she pursues it with everything she has.

5) identify (v)
He has left Taiwan for too long so he cannot identify with Taiwanese anymore.

Q: How to live without regrets?

A: Humans aren't perfect. It's impossible to live without regrets. To have no regrets in my life means I'm not sorry for things I have/haven't done in the past, and I have everything I want/don't want. How is that possible?! There are tons of great advice for living a less regretful life, but personally, I would say that practice forgiveness is the most important one (& the most difficult!). Forgive those who hurt you and also forgive yourself for past failures and mistakes. Admit your mistakes, learn from them and then turn the page to the next chapter of your life.