It's tough because we have our own expectations by which we measure others. We focus so much on whether the other person is meeting our standards that we forget to love them for being uniquely flawed and evolving, just like ourselves.
tough expectations measure standards uniquely flawed and evolving
It's tough because we have our own expectations by which we measure others. We focus so much on whether the other person is meeting our standards that we forget to love them for being uniquely flawed and evolving, just like ourselves.
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unickname8 年前
■tough [tʌf] 堅韌的；棘手的；強硬的； (食物)嚼不動的；粗暴的；倒楣的 ■expectation [͵ɛkspɛkˋteʃən] 期盼、希望(好事發生) 預料、預期；期待(有事情會發生) ■standard [ˋstændɚd] 標準； 標準的 ■flawed [flɔ] 有缺點的有 瑕疵的 ■evolve[ɪˋvɑlv] 逐步發展/形成/進化 ☺It's tough because we have our own expectations by which we measure others. We focus so much on whether the other person is meeting our standards that we forget to love them for being uniquely flawed and evolving, just like ourselves. 這很難做到，因為我們總是拿自己的期望去衡量別人。我們太關注他人是否符合我們設下的標準，以至於忘記了我們應該要愛他們原本所特有的缺點和他們的轉變，就像愛我們自己一樣。 【心得】我們都希望別人愛我們的原貌，卻又會期待別人為我們改變。 好喜歡Kristi今天選的影片。尤其下面這一段我也很喜歡： "These things are my favorite not because I have more to share than anyone else ,but because it is so often that I myself need to hear the words I speak. By offering hope to others, I develop hope for myself." 鼓勵/提醒別人的時候，其實也同時是把那些話說給自己聽。相同概念來看，在責罵別人時，似乎也應該先想想，若把那些要說出的話罵回給自己聽時，自己的感受如何？這樣我們應該就會更懂得尊重別人、顧及別人的感受了。
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Leeway8 年前
It's tough because we have our own expectations by which we measure others. We focus so much on whether the other person is meeting our standards that we forget to love them for being uniquely flawed and evolving, just like ourselves.
Once upon a time...
愛嘸對人…有時是因為愛上「對愛情的想像」，不是愛上「那個人」
然後發現「那個人」≠「想像」...The end。
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Huahua8 年前
模考Part1倒數67天
Kristi 真的是 Taylor Swift 的頭號粉絲耶XDD 去看 Kristi 翻譯的 What You Made Me Do 了！翻得真棒:’>
It's tough because we have our own expectations by which we measure others. We focus so much on whether the other person is meeting our standards that we forget to love them for being uniquely flawed and evolving, just like ourselves perhaps at a different pace in a different place. ──────────────────────── ■exceed expectation (超乎預期)
■meet the expectation/ standard (達到預期/標準) We often get disappointed when the reality does not meet the expectation. This contestant is truly outstanding but unfortunately he fails to meet the standard.
■flaw (n.) 瑕疵 I do love their appetizer but unfortunately their entrees are a little bit flawed.
■flawless (adj.) 完美無瑕的 Drew walks by me Can't he tell that I can't breathe? And there he goes, so perfectly The kind of flawless I wish I could be ──────────────────────── 【BGM】 Relaxing Music Mix BEAUTIFUL PIANO - Aurora Taylor Swift - Teardrops On My Guitar Taylor Swift - What You Made Me Do
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大慶8 年前
Day 49 :) 7*7=49 Morning~~
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卡卡8 年前
謝謝Kristi&大家~~~ 慢速 中速 高速....公路?(誤XD ~~~~~~~~~~~ It's tough because we have our own expectations by which we measure others. We focus so much on whether the other person is meeting our standards that we forget to love them for being uniquely flawed and evolving, just like ourselves.
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劉益廷8 年前
恭喜Huahua了
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小柿子8 年前
Day.313 || Aug,31th.2017.Thu ||
It's tough because we have our own expectations by which we measure others. We focus so much on whether the other person is meeting our standards/ that we forget to love them for being uniquely flawed and evolving, just like ourselves.
Day.312 || Aug,30th.2017.Wed ||
It's so easy to see someone through your own narrow lens and to like dismiss what they're going through. Or write off their struggles as excuses or complaints. It's a lot harder to try keep in mind the opportunities you were afforded. Just because of where you were born.
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孫吉慶8 年前
第四十三天
It's tough because we have our own expectations by which we measure others. We focus so much on whether the other person is meeting our standards that we forget to love them for being uniquely flawed and evolving, just like ourselves.
作筆記了哦~(有錯跟我說哦~) 1. tough [tʌf] (adj.) 堅韌的 She has been quite tough before and after surgery. 她在動手術之前和之後，都很堅強
2. expectation 期待、預期 We often get disappointed when the reality doesn't meet the expectation. 當這個現實與期待有些落差的時候，我們心中難免會有些失望 exceed expectation 超出預期的好
expect [ɪkˋspɛkt] (v.) 預計 The train expected to be two minutes late. 火車預計會晚大概兩分鐘
exception [ɪkˋsɛpʃən] (n.) 例外 Usually the store opens to nine P.M. but there are always exceptions. 通常這間店會開到晚上九點，可是當然有例外的時候
3. standard [ˋstændɚd] (n.) 標準的 meet standard/expectation 達到標準/期待 This contestant is truly outstanding but unfortunately he fail doesn't meet the standard. 這個參賽者非常非常傑出，可是非常可惜，他並未符合標準
4. flaw [flɔ] (n.) 瑕疵 I do love their appetizer but unfortunately their entrees are a little bit flawed. 我很喜歡他們的開胃菜，可是很可惜的是，他們的主餐有點美中不足
ShakesBeer8 年前
很簡單，沒有期望就沒有失望…(誤)
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It's tough because we have our own expectations by which we measure others. We focus so much on whether the other person is meeting our standards that we forget to love them for being uniquely flawed and evolving, just like ourselves.
unickname8 年前
■tough [tʌf] 堅韌的；棘手的；強硬的；
期盼、希望(好事發生)
預料、預期；期待(有事情會發生)標準； 標準的 有缺點的有 瑕疵的 逐步發展/形成/進化
(食物)嚼不動的；粗暴的；倒楣的
■expectation [͵ɛkspɛkˋteʃən]
■standard [ˋstændɚd]
■flawed [flɔ]
■evolve[ɪˋvɑlv]
☺It's tough because we have our own expectations by which we measure others. We focus so much on whether the other person is meeting our standards that we forget to love them for being uniquely flawed and evolving, just like ourselves.
這很難做到，因為我們總是拿自己的期望去衡量別人。我們太關注他人是否符合我們設下的標準，以至於忘記了我們應該要愛他們原本所特有的缺點和他們的轉變，就像愛我們自己一樣。
【心得】我們都希望別人愛我們的原貌，卻又會期待別人為我們改變。
好喜歡Kristi今天選的影片。尤其下面這一段我也很喜歡：
"These things are my favorite not because I have more to share than anyone else ,but because it is so often that I myself need to hear the words I speak.
By offering hope to others, I develop hope for myself."
鼓勵/提醒別人的時候，其實也同時是把那些話說給自己聽。相同概念來看，在責罵別人時，似乎也應該先想想，若把那些要說出的話罵回給自己聽時，自己的感受如何？這樣我們應該就會更懂得尊重別人、顧及別人的感受了。
Leeway8 年前
It's tough because we have our own expectations by which we measure others. We focus so much on whether the other person is meeting our standards that we forget to love them for being uniquely flawed and evolving, just like ourselves.
Once upon a time...
愛嘸對人…有時是因為愛上「對愛情的想像」，不是愛上「那個人」
然後發現「那個人」≠「想像」...The end。
Huahua8 年前
模考Part1倒數67天
Kristi 真的是 Taylor Swift 的頭號粉絲耶XDD
去看 Kristi 翻譯的 What You Made Me Do 了！翻得真棒:’>
It's tough because we have our own expectations by which we measure others. We focus so much on whether the other person is meeting our standards that we forget to love them for being uniquely flawed and evolving, just like ourselves perhaps at a different pace in a different place.
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■exceed expectation (超乎預期)
■meet the expectation/ standard (達到預期/標準)
We often get disappointed when the reality does not meet the expectation.
This contestant is truly outstanding but unfortunately he fails to meet the standard.
■flaw (n.) 瑕疵
I do love their appetizer but unfortunately their entrees are a little bit flawed.
■flawless (adj.) 完美無瑕的
Drew walks by me
Can't he tell that I can't breathe?
And there he goes, so perfectly
The kind of flawless I wish I could be
────────────────────────
【BGM】
Relaxing Music Mix BEAUTIFUL PIANO - Aurora
Taylor Swift - Teardrops On My Guitar
Taylor Swift - What You Made Me Do
大慶8 年前
Day 49 :) 7*7=49 Morning~~
卡卡8 年前
謝謝Kristi&大家~~~
慢速 中速 高速....公路?(誤XD
~~~~~~~~~~~
It's tough because we have our own expectations by which we measure others. We focus so much on whether the other person is meeting our standards that we forget to love them for being uniquely flawed and evolving, just like ourselves.
劉益廷8 年前
恭喜Huahua了
小柿子8 年前
Day.313 || Aug,31th.2017.Thu ||
It's tough because we have our own expectations by which we measure others. We focus so much on whether the other person is meeting our standards/ that we forget to love them for being uniquely flawed and evolving, just like ourselves.
Day.312 || Aug,30th.2017.Wed ||
It's so easy to see someone through your own narrow lens and to like dismiss what they're going through. Or write off their struggles as excuses or complaints. It's a lot harder to try keep in mind the opportunities you were afforded. Just because of where you were born.
孫吉慶8 年前
第四十三天
It's tough because we have our own expectations by which we measure others. We focus so much on whether the other person is meeting our standards that we forget to love them for being uniquely flawed and evolving, just like ourselves.
這很困難，因為我們總是用自己的心理期望去評判他人。我們一心一意地衡量他人是否有符合我們的標準，以至於完全忘記他們其實跟我們一樣獨特地有缺點、且仍在成長中。
作筆記了哦~(有錯跟我說哦~)
1. tough [tʌf] (adj.) 堅韌的
She has been quite tough before and after surgery. 她在動手術之前和之後，都很堅強
2. expectation 期待、預期
We often get disappointed when the reality doesn't meet the expectation. 當這個現實與期待有些落差的時候，我們心中難免會有些失望
exceed expectation 超出預期的好
expect [ɪkˋspɛkt] (v.) 預計
The train expected to be two minutes late. 火車預計會晚大概兩分鐘
exception [ɪkˋsɛpʃən] (n.) 例外
Usually the store opens to nine P.M. but there are always exceptions. 通常這間店會開到晚上九點，可是當然有例外的時候
3. standard [ˋstændɚd] (n.) 標準的
meet standard/expectation 達到標準/期待
This contestant is truly outstanding but unfortunately he fail doesn't meet the standard. 這個參賽者非常非常傑出，可是非常可惜，他並未符合標準
4. flaw [flɔ] (n.) 瑕疵
I do love their appetizer but unfortunately their entrees are a little bit flawed. 我很喜歡他們的開胃菜，可是很可惜的是，他們的主餐有點美中不足
flawless [ˋflɔlɪs] (adj.) 完美無瑕的
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Tony chiu8 年前