But if we actually cannot leave our job for various reasons, the question is, " What are we supposed to do? "

但如果我們真的因為各種原因不能離開工作，問題是，" 我們該怎麼辦？"

Be the leader you wish you had.

成為你希望的領導者。

Working at a hard job working for a bad boss can sometimes be one of the greatest educations ever.

在一份辛苦的工作中為一個糟糕的老闆工作，有時是最偉大的教育之一。

So, the question is, "Can you change your mindset?"

所以，問題是，"你能改變你的心態嗎？"

Instead of waking up in the morning, going "Oh, I can't do this again," but rather view it as university.

而不是在早上醒來時，說 "哦，我不能再這樣做了"，而是把它看成大學。

You know, you're getting a master's degree in leadership and you may be learning everything how not to do things and to wake up and be like, "What am I going to learn today?"

你知道，你得到了一個領導力碩士學位 你可能會學習一切 如何不做的事情，並醒來，是這樣， "我今天要學習什麼？"

Early on in my career, I had a really bad boss who believed that she could get the most out of us by berating us, and she told me once that - I had one of my "reviews" - and she said, "You have no talent".

在我職業生涯的早期，我有一個非常糟糕的老闆，她認為她可以通過罵我們來獲得最大的利益，她有一次對我說--我有一個 "評論"--她說："你沒有天賦"。

And I was like, "nothing?"

我當時想，"什麼都沒有？"

And she was like "nothing."

而她卻說 "沒什麼"。

This was her way of, I guess, motivating me.

我想，這是她激勵我的方式。

But I had such a good attitude about it for a couple of reasons.

但我對它的態度如此之好，有幾個原因。

One, because I knew, I knew what I was up against every day,

一，因為我知道，我知道我每天要面對的是什麼。

And instead of taking it personally, I viewed it as as my education of how not to lead, and I literally would file this stuff all the way and use it someday.

而我沒有把它當做個人的事，而是把它看成是我的教育，如何不上司，我真的會把這些東西一直存檔，有一天會用上。

I get to use it now.

我現在可以用它了。

And also, misery loves company.

還有，苦難喜歡陪伴。

You know, I had fantastic, a fantastic relationship with my team.

你知道，我和我的團隊關係很好，很好。

We looked after each other because we all had this oppressive boss.

我們互相照顧，因為我們都有這個壓迫性的老闆。

We would compare the "advice" that we got in our little career building sessions.

我們會比較一下在職業建設小會上得到的 "建議"。

And we took care of each other.

而且我們互相照顧。

And so we had a responsibility to each other.

所以我們對彼此都有責任。

And that's where we cut our teeth on being leaders.

而這也是我們做上司的切入點。

And it actually made the job wonderful.

而這其實也讓工作變得精彩。

Yes, there were days that were oppressive.

是的，有的日子是壓抑的。

Yes, there were days that I hated.

是的，有的時候我很討厭。

Yes, there were days I wanted to pull my hair out and just quit.

是的，有幾天我都想拔掉頭髮，然後退出。

But, it's because of the team that I had and how we looked after each other and the mindset of learning every day that I made the most of it.

但是，正是因為我有這樣的團隊，我們互相照顧，每天都有學習的心態，所以我才會充分利用這個團隊。

So, I think mindset is a huge, huge, huge part of actually getting some joy out of a difficult job.

所以，我認為心態是一個巨大的，巨大的，巨大的部分，其實從一個困難的工作中獲得一些快樂。