Name: 怎麼分辨到底是煞到人家還是真的愛上對方呢？！ (5 Differences Between Crushing & Falling in Love)
Uploaded: 2019-06-14T21:01:30.000Z
Duration: 3 min 8 s

Have you been crushing on someone, but wondering if it's becoming something more?

你有沒有曾經迷戀過某個人並思考這份感情會不會更進一步？

Emotions can be messy and hard to decipher when all we hear is our loud heartbeats, or feel giant butterflies in our stomach.

當我們心中小鹿亂撞或忐忑不安時，情緒可能是混亂、難以理解的。

The upside is that as we grow older and gain more relationship experience, the answer becomes more clear.

好消息是隨著我們逐漸成長，累積更多感情經驗，答案就會越來越顯而易見。

Here are five differences between crushing on and falling in love with someone.

以下是迷戀和愛情的五個差異。

1. A crush develops fast, while love grows over time.

第一、迷戀發展的速度很快，但愛情會隨著時間漸長。

When you first develop a crush on someone, it can feel fun, flirty and exciting.

開始迷戀某人時，你或許會覺得有趣、曖昧或興奮。

It's a lot like dancing with a flame, but it doesn't last forever.

如同與火共舞，但這種感覺並不持久。

Love, on the other hand, takes time to grow.

但愛就不一樣了，它需要靠時間培養。

It demands patience, understanding and hard work.

它需要耐心、互相理解和認真經營。

When we crush on someone, it's the loud adrenaline rush that pounds on our chest.

我們迷戀某人是因為受到腎上腺素的影響。

Love, however, allows us to find inner peace within ourselves.

但是愛情讓我們找到心中的平靜。

It's a lot quieter, subtle even, and can sneak up on us when we least expect it.

相對於迷戀而言，它悄然無息、微妙，並令人出乎意料。

2. A crush forms from the basics, while love thrives from deep connections.

第二、迷戀是最基本的相聯，而愛情是更深層的關係。

Have you ever liked someone because they shared the same interests as you?

你是否曾經因為共同的興趣而喜歡上某個人？

A crush forms from basic information like that.

迷戀就是由這種基本的因素而生。

Maybe the two of you had the same favorite color, or you can quote an entire movie together from beginning to end.

或許你們兩個喜歡同一個顏色，或是你們對同一部電影瞭若指掌。

It asks us to be vulnerable and go past the small talk, hobbies, and picture perfect Kodak moments.

它使我們變得脆弱，讓我們跨越閒聊、討論嗜好和照片紀錄的美好回憶。

It's sharing secrets, and sometimes, it means confronting the past and mending together.

它是分享秘密，有時它意味著面對過去並一同修復。

3. A crush might feel insecure while love stems from trust.

第三、迷戀令人沒有安全感，但愛就是信任。

Crushing on someone can leave you feeling insecure when you compare yourself to others, but love is built on the foundation of trust.

當我們和其他人比較時，迷戀時常令我們不安，但愛情是建立在信任的基礎之上的。

When you love someone, you feel at ease with them, you're neither possessive nor jealous.

當你「愛」某人時，你和他們相處輕鬆，你不會有佔有慾或嫉妒心。

Love teaches us to let go of our fears, whereas crushing on someone allows them to linger.

愛使我們克服恐懼，而迷戀卻使恐懼持續徘徊。

4. A crush feels new while love feels familiar.

第四、迷戀令人感到新鮮，愛卻令人感到熟悉。

When you crush on someone, it often feels fresh and young.

當你迷戀上一個人的時候，感覺通常是新奇的。

But as you get to know someone better, love forms, making you enter rooms that feel familiar.

但當你更深入認識一個人，愛情漸長，帶你進入熟悉的感覺。

It's like being with your best friend, someone who knows you inside and out, perhaps better than you may know yourself.

就像和你最好的朋友相處一樣，有一個人徹底地懂你，甚至比你還要瞭解你自己。

When you're crushing on someone, you're too shy to even make it past the welcome mat.

但迷戀一個人就不一樣了，你甚至會不敢開口對他說話。

5. A crush is reckless while love is mature.

第五、迷戀是魯莽的，但愛情是成熟的。

Ever had a crush on someone that made you scratch your head years later?

你可曾迷戀過某人，而在多年後回想起來卻困惑不已？

Crushes can be confusing, reckless, and inconsistent.

迷戀可能撲朔迷離、魯莽、易變的。

但愛情就不是這麼容易被丟棄的了。

當愛情開始時，你也會隨之成長。

You'll learn how to be vulnerable, how to compromise, and how to grow with someone.

你學會變得脆弱、妥協、和他人一同成長。

It's more than just a feeling but a life changing experience.

這不僅是一種感覺，而是會改變人生的經歷。

Do you think you're crushing or falling in love with someone?

你覺得你是迷戀某個人還是已經愛上他了呢？

Please share your thoughts with us below.

請在下面留言跟我們分享你的想法。

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想得到更多有幫助的資訊的話，不要忘了訂閱我們的頻道並且分享我們的影片喔！

With your help, we can reach more people and provide our support.

有你的幫忙，我們就能支援更多人、提供協助。