Name: 媽咪抖音與爸比抖音對質真相！| 摩門教妻子的祕密生活 | Hulu (MomTok and DadTok Confront The Truth | The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives | Hulu)
Uploaded: 2025-12-22T16:53:48.000Z
Duration: 4 min 27 s

I think that's what's hard, is that we hear her side of it.

我覺得這就是難的地方，就是我們聽到她那邊的說法。

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And we are seeing the reactions on your side.

然後我們也看到了你那邊的反應。

And it's hard, as good friends to sit there and say, oh, absolutely.

然後，身為好朋友，坐在那裡說「喔，當然啦」是很難的。

I hope you guys, like, see the authenticity that, like, I'm trying to be authentic with you guys.

我希望你們能看到我的真誠，就像我試著對你們展現真誠一樣。

And, like, sometimes I feel like you guys kind of, like, dick around and, like, make light of something that's painful for me to just be kind of almost made light of at times.

然後，有時候我覺得你們好像有點在開玩笑，然後把對我來說很痛苦的事情，變得好像沒什麼大不了的。

I've heard you guys giggle about it, but what, all of you?

我聽過你們對這件事笑，但你們是說，你們所有人嗎？

Well, you have to, because we haven't done that.

嗯，妳必須說，因為我們還沒這麼做。

Like, I'm trying to remember specifically.

There's not, like, we'll hear things and be like, that's not okay.

沒有，像是，我們會聽到一些事然後想說，這樣不行。

在這裡沒有人說過，離開 Jordan。

像是，我希望我們有辦法解決。

I will say, if you guys have any intention of working things out, I'd keep a lot of things between you two in private, but

我得說，如果你們有任何想解決問題的打算，我會建議你們把很多事情留在你們兩人之間就好，但是

not that you can't confide in friends, because obviously, that's.

並不是說你們不能跟朋友訴苦，因為很明顯，這就是。

這就是為什麼我們在這裡支持你們。

But then you do start to get people's opinions, and it starts messing with your mind, and

但接著你就會開始聽進別人的意見，然後它就會開始影響你的想法，而且

then it will create this wedge between both of you.

這就會在你們兩個人之間製造一道鴻溝。

I'm sure Jen and Zach can also relate to that of, like, work things out between you, too.

我確定 Jen 和 Zach 也能體會到，像是，你們之間要解決事情這件事。

And that's something Dakota and I had to learn the hard way.

而這就是 Dakota 和我必須用慘痛經驗學到的。

但邀請他來吃晚餐，這不太對。

she said that you would, like, question it, and, like, you're like, did more happen?

她說你會質疑這件事，然後，就像，你會說，還發生了更多嗎？

So I feel like that's fair for her to go in and try to clear that.

所以我覺得她去試著釐清這件事是公平的。

很明顯，你們還在婚姻關係中。

And then the girls are saying, well, she's separated.

然後那些女生就說，嗯，她們已經分居了。

You can do whatever you want, but you're gonna pay the consequences of doing whatever you want.

妳想做什麼都可以，但妳得為妳想做的任何事付出代價。

What I'm saying, though, is if the roles were reversed, if Zach and Jace had an affair.

不過我說的是，如果角色對調，如果 Zach 和 Jace 有婚外情。

If they had an affair, Chester does look kind of ghetto.

如果他們有婚外情，Chester 的確看起來有點落魄。

If they had an affair with the same girl, I think have bearing.

如果他們跟同一個女生有婚外情，我覺得這點很重要。

And then Dakota and I go meet up with her.

然後 Dakota 和我會去跟她碰面。

Yes, I think you would even see how happy we were all there with them.

是的，我想你們甚至會看到我們當時跟他們在一起有多開心。

I'm sure that Jace didn't appreciate that.

I drove down to Beaver and had lunch with him.

我開車到 Beaver 和他共進午餐。

It just sucks because I in some way know what he's feeling and going through.

這真的很糟，因為我某種程度上知道他的感受和經歷。

And it sucks when you don't feel like you have the support of your wife's friends because you're already fighting for your marriage.

而且，當你覺得沒有妻子的朋友支持你，而你已經在為婚姻奮鬥時，這真的很糟。

I'm just saying that if the roles were reversed, I think you guys wouldn't be okay with it.

我只是想說，如果角色對調，我覺得你們不會接受的。

And also, I have a really hard time when you're, like, boxing out and all this for her because you really went hard at Dakota.

而且，當你為了她而像這樣擋人、做這些事時，我真的覺得很難受，因為你對 Dakota 真的下了重手。

He lied for years, so there's a huge difference.

他騙了好幾年，所以這差距很大。

對，我的謊言也是在交往前發生的。

But you lied multiple times about the relationship before dating.

但妳在交往前，關於這段關係就已經多次說謊了。

It doesn't matter because you lied about the whole relationship.

這沒什麼差別，因為妳關於整段關係都在說謊。

If Jordyn wants me and the mom talk girls on his side, he is going about this whole situation the wrong way.

如果 Jordyn 想要我還有他那邊的媽媽們支持他，那他處理這整件事的方式就錯了。

And I think it's because Jordan is seeming more and more like Dakota.

而且我覺得，是因為 Jordan 越來越像 Dakota 了。

And once you get on that list, as a man, it's very hard to get off.

而且一旦被列入黑名單，作為一個男人，要從上面下來非常困難。

If these two had an affair with a girl and they invited her to dinner, it would be crossing a boundary if all of us.

如果這兩個人跟一個女生有婚外情，然後他們邀請她來吃晚餐，那對我們所有人來說都是越界了。

It's inappropriate for all of us to do because we're not married to.

對我們所有人來說，這樣做都不恰當，因為我們沒有和她結婚。

I just want you guys to, like, really, like, try and step into my shoes for just a second on this.

我只是希望你們，像是，真的，像是，試著站在我的角度想一下。

Do you guys think we were sitting on his lap having him feed us tacos, saying that it's inappropriate itself?

你們覺得我們坐在他腿上，讓他餵我們吃墨西哥捲餅，然後說這樣本身就不恰當嗎？

對啊，我們沒有對不起我們的老公。

再一次，是你們對這件事的反應。

Originally, mom talk started and we wanted to kind of move from the outdated lds, like, ways we can be the breadwinner.

本來 mom talk 開始，我們是想從那種過時的 LDS，就是，我們如何能成為養家的人。

I don't think it makes it okay for us to treat our baby daddies husbands partners with disrespect.

我不認為這就讓我們有權利不尊重我們的孩子他爸、老公、伴侶。

So I'm just hoping it's not too late to remind mom talk of the original message of what we were trying to.

所以我只是希望現在提醒 mom talk 我們原本想傳達的訊息，還不算太晚。