Name: 暗戀的六個階段！你經歷過幾個？ (6 Stages of Having a Crush)
Uploaded: 2025-12-21T18:00:16.000Z
Duration: 5 min 43 s

Hey, Psych two Goers, are you crushing on someone right now?

嘿，Psych2go 的朋友們，你們現在有迷戀某人嗎？

情態助動詞 A2

Liking someone can be incredibly confusing and frustrating because it can either end in love or heartbreak, but

喜歡一個人可能會讓人感到非常困惑和沮喪，因為這可能會以愛情或心碎告終，但是

it's also one of the most fun and exciting things you could ever experience.

這也是你可能經歷過最有趣、最令人興奮的事情之一。

So while there is no definitive theory yet about how we develop crushes and what we go through when we do, here at Psych2go, we've done our best to come up with these six stages.

所以，雖然目前還沒有關於我們如何產生迷戀以及在迷戀時會經歷什麼的確定理論，但在 Psych2go，我們盡力提出了這六個階段。

We believe everyone with a crush goes through Stage one Interest so the story begins when you meet someone new for the first time and you feel intrigued by them.

我們相信每個有迷戀對象的人都會經歷第一階段的興趣，所以故事就從你第一次見到某人並對他們感到被吸引開始。

This stage can happen at any given moment.

這個階段可能在任何時候發生。

Sometimes it can be as quick as when you first lay your eyes on them, and

有時候可能就像你第一次看到他們一樣快，而

other times it can take a while before you feel a spark.

有時候可能需要一段時間你才會感覺到火花。

When you develop a crush on someone you've known for a long time, like a close friend, a lot of people tend to deny and debate with their feelings first before they can accept them.

當你對一個認識很久的人，像是摯友產生迷戀時，很多人傾向於先否認和爭論自己的感受，然後才能接受它們。

But the moment you do, you'll suddenly feel the pull of romantic attraction taking a hold of you that there's something special about this person.

但當你意識到的那一刻，你就會突然感受到浪漫吸引力的拉力，覺得這個人很特別。

That's when you move onto stage two Curiosity.

這時候，你就進入了第二階段：好奇心。

Did you look up your crush's Facebook profile, browse through all their posts and tweets and view their Instagram stories?

你會不會去查看你迷戀對象的 Facebook 個人檔案，瀏覽他們所有的貼文和推文，以及觀看他們的 Instagram 限時動態呢？

Maybe you even added them on one of their handles if you were feeling brave enough.

也許你甚至鼓起勇氣加了他們的其中一個帳號。

You did all of this so that you could get a better idea about what kind of person they are, how much they have in common with you, and

你這麼做是為了更瞭解他們是什麼樣的人，你們有多少共同點，以及

Once someone catches your eye, it's only natural to feel curious about them.

一旦有人引起你的注意，對他們感到好奇是很自然的。

All their likes and dislikes, their hobbies, their dreams, their favorite things.

他們的所有喜好、他們的興趣、他們的夢想、他們喜歡的東西。

Some people do this by simply going up to their crush and asking them about it, but

有些人會直接走向他們迷戀對象並詢問，但

others feel too flustered and nervous to even strike up a casual conversation.

有些人則會因為太緊張而不敢開口哈拉。

So that's where social media enters the story, like a knight in shining armor.

這時候社群媒體就登場了，就像個帥氣的騎士。

Stage 3 Infatuation now that you know for sure you have a crush on this person, next comes infatuation.

第三階段：迷戀。一旦你確定自己迷戀上某人，接下來就是迷戀期。

And for many of us, this is the best part about having a crush.

對我們許多人來說，這也是迷戀一個人最棒的部分。

Because when you're infatuated with someone, your whole world starts to change.

因為當你迷戀某人時，你的整個世界都會開始改變。

Everything seems so much brighter, more vibrant and more beautiful to you.

一切在你眼中都變得更明亮、更有活力、更美麗。

Now that you've found someone who makes you giddy with excitement every time you think about them, there's this never ending flurry of butterflies fluttering in your stomach, and

現在你找到了那個讓你每次想到都會興奮不已的人，你的肚子裡總是有一群停不下來的蝴蝶在飛舞，而且

you always feel like you're floating on cloud nine with each glance or each word of conversation you share with your crush.

每次看到他們或和他們說話，你都感覺自己飄在九霄雲外。

They send you a text message and you feel like your whole day is made.

他們傳訊息給你，你覺得一整天都圓滿了。

They make you laugh and the memory doesn't leave your mind for days.

他們讓你開懷大笑，那個回憶久久都揮之不去。

Even the mere mention of their name is enough to make you blush and swoon.

只要提到他們的名字，你就會臉紅心跳、神魂顛倒。

在這個階段，一切似乎都完美無缺。

Your crush is everything you ever wanted and you just want this feeling to last forever.

你迷戀的對象就是你一直以來想要的一切，你只想讓這種感覺永遠持續下去。

You know you're really starting to get serious feelings about someone when you tell your friends about them.

當你開始跟朋友談論某人時，你就知道自己真的對他們產生了認真的感覺。

Of course, sometimes your friends can figure it out for themselves when you have a crush, but

當然，有時候當你迷戀某人時，你的朋友自己也會發現，但是

what matters most isn't that your friends already know, it's that you wanted to tell them about it.

最重要的是，你的朋友知不知道已經不重要了，而是你想要告訴他們。

You want to talk to your friends about how your crush makes you feel and tell them all the things you like about them.

你想跟朋友聊聊你的迷戀對象讓你感覺如何，告訴他們你喜歡他們的一切。

You want their advice about what to reply to your crush's text, or what to say next time you see them and you ask them what to say they think your crush meant when they told you this or that.

你想聽聽朋友的建議，關於該如何回覆你迷戀對象的訊息，或者下次見到他們時該說什麼，你問他們你迷戀對象說這說那時，他們覺得是什麼意思。

You want their support and their encouragement, but also their honest opinion.

你想要他們的支持和鼓勵，但也想要他們誠實的意見。

And it's usually because of your friends that you slowly start to realize the flaws your crushes have or where your relationship with them is going.

通常是因為你的朋友，你才慢慢開始意識到你迷戀對象的缺點，或是你和他們的關係將會如何發展。

Which can end with you either heading to stage five or straight to stage six.

這可能會讓你走向第五階段，或是直接跳到第六階段。

Stage five Falling in Love to like and to love are two very different things.

第五階段 墜入愛河 喜歡和愛是兩件截然不同的事。

But sometimes your crush turns into something more and you find yourself falling in love with them.

但有時候，你的迷戀對象會變成更進一步的關係，你發現自己墜入了愛河。

At this stage, your feelings for them are no longer clouding your judgment about them.

在這個階段，你對他們的感覺不再影響你對他們的判斷。

You stop putting them on a pedestal and thinking of them as perfect, and

你不再把他們捧上神壇，覺得他們完美無瑕，

instead get to know them well and grow closer to them in a way that allowed you to see them for who they really are.

相反地，你會深入瞭解他們，並以一種讓你真正看見他們真實樣貌的方式與他們變得更親近。

And if you're lucky enough that they feel the same way about you too, then you're on your way to starting a romantic relationship with your crush.

如果你很幸運，他們也對你有同樣的感覺，那麼你就能開始一段與你迷戀對象的浪漫關係了。

Stage six Falling out of Love on the other hand, however, you may find yourself falling out of love with your crush after having seriously thought everything out between the two of you.

第六階段 墜入愛河的另一種情況是，在認真思考了你們之間的一切之後，你可能會發現自己對迷戀對象漸漸失去愛意。

Maybe you realize they aren't as great as you used to think and it's made you lose interest in them.

也許你意識到他們不像你以前認為的那麼棒，這讓你對他們失去了興趣。

Or perhaps you feel that there's very little chance of them ever liking you back or seeing you as more than just a friend.

或者你覺得他們喜歡你的機會渺茫，或者他們只把你當成朋友。

Whatever the reason may be, it's made you reconsider your feelings and snap out of your crush.

無論是什麼原因，這讓你重新考慮了自己的感覺，並從迷戀中清醒過來。

It may take some time before you can accept it, and

你可能需要一些時間才能接受，

depending on how strongly you once felt about them, it can be a painfully devastating thing to go through, but

根據你曾經有多麼強烈地愛著他們，這可能是一段非常痛苦的經歷，但是

once it's all over and you finally moved on, you'll thank yourself for ending it.

一旦一切都結束了，你終於走出來了，你會感謝自己結束了這一切。

Because deep down inside you knew that this person wasn't right for you and that it just wasn't meant to be.

因為你心裡深處知道，這個人並不適合你，你們之間註定沒有結果。

Oh well, maybe the next one to come along will be better.

唉，也許下一個出現的會更好。

Do you relate to any of the things mentioned here?

你對這裡提到的任何事情有共鳴嗎？

How does having a crush feel like for you?

對你來說，迷戀某人是什麼感覺？

Can you identify the stage you're in right now?

你能辨識出你現在處於哪個階段嗎？

Do let us know in the comments below if you found this video interesting like and share it with others as well.

如果你覺得這個影片很有趣，請在下方留言告訴我們，也請按讚並分享給其他人。

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