Name: 別人怎麼看你，就反映了你是怎樣的人！ (What you say about others is how you're seen)
Uploaded: 2025-11-22T17:03:52.000Z
Duration: 3 min 23 s

Yeah, we had a lunch meeting yesterday to go over the company's new goals.

對啊，我們昨天有個午餐會議，討論公司的目標。

I can't believe I'm a shill for big fish.

我不敢相信我居然是為了大魚在做宣傳。

Because I thought he was dumb, wildly ineffective, and absolutely adorable.

因為我認為他很笨，非常沒用，而且超級可愛。

Well, you're dumb, wildly ineffective, and absolutely adorable.

嗯，你就是很笨，非常沒用，而且超級可愛。

寶貝，別再猶豫了，看看書房。

Spontaneous trait transference communicators take on the qualities they describe in others.

自發性特質轉移的溝通者會承擔他們在他人身上描述的特質。

From the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.

Their research demonstrates that the traits we describe in others are attributed to us and that this association persists over time.

他們的研究顯示，我們在他人身上描述的特質會歸因於我們，而且這種連結會持續存在。

They found that spontaneous trait transference does not represent a logical attribution, but a mindless association.

他們發現自發性特質轉移並非邏輯歸因，而是無意識的聯想。

So whatever I say about others is how they'll perceive me over time.

所以我對別人說的任何話，都會是他們隨著時間對我的看法。

And let's just say you haven't had many good things to say about the people around here.

而且，就說你對這裡的許多人都沒說過什麼好話。

No, you're not gonna Spontaneous trait transference me.

不，你不能對我進行自發性特質轉移。

Mama's got nothing good to say, so she's gonna zip it.

媽媽沒什麼好說的，所以她閉嘴了。

Yesterday, I called Susan a moron, of which this planet has never seen.

昨天，我叫蘇珊一個這個星球上從未見過的笨蛋。

And then I called Deborah an egocentric, greedy, dishonest freak.

然後我叫黛博拉一個以自我為中心、貪婪、不誠實的怪胎。

Right, by saying that for a sociopath, she was very good at hiding it.

對啊，你說她身為一個精神病態者，卻很擅長隱藏。

I have spontaneous trait transferenced myself into the worst thing imaginable.

我已經將自發性特質轉移到我想像中最糟糕的事情上了。

Oh, God, I have to go compliment everyone right now.

我的天，我現在得去稱讚每個人了。

I'm Anna Akana, and thank you to my father, Squarespace, sponsoring today's episode.

我是 Anna Akana，感謝我的爸爸 Squarespace 贊助今天的節目。

Daddy, Squarespace makes it easy for creators like myself to monetize their content and expertise in a way that fits our brand with member areas.

爸爸，Squarespace 讓像我這樣的創作者，能夠透過會員專區，以符合品牌的方式，輕鬆將內容和專業知識貨幣化。

You can unlock a new revenue stream for your business and free up time in your schedule by selling access to gated content like videos online courses or newsletters.

你可以為你的事業解鎖新的收入來源，並透過販售鎖定內容，像是影片、線上課程或電子報的存取權，來節省你的時間。

Plus online booking and scheduling is available, making it easier than ever for clients to like access their schedule within your website so that you don't have to deal with the hassle of coordinating calendars if you happen to make video content like myself.

此外，還有線上預約與排程功能，讓客戶能比以往更容易在你的網站上存取他們的行程，這樣如果你像我一樣製作影片內容，就不必費心協調行事曆了。

They also have VideoStudio, which lets you create pro level videos effortlessly.

他們還有 VideoStudio，讓你輕鬆製作專業級影片。

And you can go ahead and use their VideoStudio app to like, make and share engaging content so that you can tell your story, grow your audience, and

而且你可以直接使用他們的 VideoStudio app 來製作並分享互動式內容，這樣你就能講述你的故事、拓展你的觀眾群，並

Go to squarespace.com for a free trial and whenever you're ready to Launch, go to squarespace.com anna and use my code Anna for 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain.

前往 squarespace.com 註冊免費試用，當你準備好上線時，請前往 squarespace.com anna 並使用我的代碼 Anna，即可享有你首次購買網站或網域的九折優惠。

And then I said Deborah was a fucking crazy bitch.

然後我說黛博拉真是個該死的瘋女人。

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別人怎麼看你，就反映了你是怎樣的人！ (What you say about others is how you're seen)

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