Name: 尼采 - 先愛自己，再愛他人 (Nietzsche - Love Yourself First, Then Love Another)
Uploaded: 2025-10-25T18:37:44.000Z
Duration: 4 min 46 s

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A Letter for My Love I think love means accepting the truest parts of someone while destroying the false ones, helping them to become who they truly are, the strongest version of themselves.

給摯愛的一封信 我認為愛就是接受一個人最真實的部分，同時也要去除虛假的部分，幫助他們成為真正的自己，最強大的版本。

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But as long as I need you, I can't love you.

但只要我需要你，我就無法愛你。

In his autobiography, Nietzsche wrote, one has to be set firmly upon oneself.

尼采在他的自傳中寫道，一個人必須堅定地立足於自己。

One has to stand bravely upon one's own two legs.

一個人必須勇敢地站穩自己的雙腳。

If I need you, if I can't stand on my own two legs without you, I'll use you like a crutch.

如果我需要你，如果沒有你我就無法獨立，我就會像柺杖一樣利用你。

Instead of accepting you as you are, I'll shape you into what I need you to be for me.

我不會接受你原本的樣子，反而會把你塑造成我所需要的樣子。

這樣一來，我就會讓你變得虛假。

I'll make you into what I need you to be rather than what you really are.

我會把你塑造成我所需要的樣子，而不是你真實的樣子。

Without independence, it's impossible for me to love you.

But even though I don't need you to care for me, it doesn't mean I don't want you to.

但即使我不需要你照顧我，也不代表我不想你照顧我。

I want what's best in you to want to bring out what's best in me.

我希望你內心最好的部分，能激發出我內心最好的部分。

I want what's true in us to voluntarily go to war against what's false in us.

我希望我們之間真實的部分，能主動對抗我們之間虛假的部分。

So we're both each other's greatest ally, greatest enemy.

這樣我們就能成為彼此最棒的盟友，也是最棒的敵人。

But this type of partnership is impossible without independence.

但沒有獨立，這種夥伴關係是不可能的。

我就需要你成為我的某種東西。

I need you to be the parts of me that I refuse to develop.

我需要你成為我拒絕發展的那些部分。

And so you won't be you, you'll just be the missing parts of me.

這樣你就不是你了，你只會是我缺失的部分。

And if I love you for being a part of me, then I don't love you.

而且如果我愛你是愛我的一部分，那我就不是愛你。

I just love the parts of you that are me.

我只是愛你身上像我的那些部分。

Hearing my echo in your voice will only drive me crazy.

聽到你聲音裡的我的回聲只會讓我發瘋。

And like narcissists looking into the waters, I'm just gonna drown in your reflection of me.

就像自戀者看著水面，我只會在你的倒影裡溺斃。

I want independence so I can love you how you deserve.

我想要獨立，這樣我才能以你應得的方式去愛你。

I want to let you take your natural shape rather than forcing you into what I need you to be.

我想要讓你呈現你自然的樣子，而不是強迫你成為我需要的樣子。

And I realize now that this independence, this freedom, can only come through a psychological death.

我現在意識到，這種獨立、這種自由，只能透過心理上的死亡才能獲得。

I need to let go of the part of me that needs you to be or act a certain way.

我需要放下那個需要你變成或表現成某種樣子的我。

I don't want any expectations or ideals for you.

我不想對你有任何期待或理想。

I don't want to tell you you should do this or that.

我不想告訴你你應該做這個或做那個。

I don't want any ideas about what you should do.

我不想對你該做什麼有任何想法。

I want to accept you and work with you as you are, and

我想要接受你，並以你本來的樣子和你一起努力，

only by not needing you to be anything for me can I be independent, and

而且，只有當我不再需要你為我變成什麼時，我才能獨立，

only by being independent can I truly love you, which is to create a space for you to blossom into what you really are.

也只有獨立了，我才能真正地愛你，這就是為你創造一個空間，讓你綻放成你真正的樣子。

That concludes my exploration of Nietzsche's teaching, and

這就結束了我對尼采教誨的探索，

as you can tell, this time I did it a little differently in the form of a letter.

你看得出來，這次我用了比較不一樣的方式，寫成了一封信。

As always, this is just my opinion and understanding of Nietzsche, not advice.

一如往常，這只是我個人對尼采的看法和理解，並非建議。

If you're looking for another video to watch after this one, I recommend watching my video Nietzsche Stop running from your problems.

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看看他們最近重新設計的數學基礎課程中的這個例子。

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你可能還記得學校教的畢氏定理，像是公式是什麼，但是

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As always, thanks for watching and I'll see you next time.

一如往常，感謝你的收看，下次見！