Name: 小心你的說話用詞，每天別再說這些話了......► 羅賓-夏爾馬（中英字幕） (小心你的說話用詞，每天別再說這些話了... ► Robin Sharma（中英字幕）)
Uploaded: 2025-06-30T01:33:50.000Z
Duration: 4 min 25 s

A lot of people are very careless with their language.

And if you look at someone who is a victim, a lot of their victimhood comes down to the words they use.

如果你觀察一個受害者，他們的受害者身份很大程度上取決於他們使用的詞語。

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I mean, the words you use either lift up your energy, the words you use either make you more creative, the words you use either allow you to do world-class things.

我的意思是，你使用的詞語要麼能提升你的能量，要麼能讓你更有創造力，要麼能讓你做世界級的事情。

or the words you use, deny your talents, the words you use, could reduce your energy, the words you use, could hurt your leadership.

或者你使用的詞語會否定你的才能，你使用的詞語會降低你的能量，你使用的詞語會傷害你的領導力。

You can either be a victim or you can be a leader, but you can't be both.

你可以成為受害者，也可以成為領導者，但你不可能兩者兼得。

Think about the great dictators, their words of hatred, their words of toxicity, their words of breakdown.

想想那些偉大的獨裁者，想想他們的仇恨之言、毒辣之言、崩潰之言。

cause the people around them to do sometimes incredibly terrifying acts.

導致周圍的人做出有時令人難以置信的恐怖行為。

And then you look at people like a Nelson Mandela or Martin Luther King JR. or Mother Teresa.

再看看納爾遜-曼德拉、小馬丁-路德-金或特蕾莎修女這樣的人。

you look at the great business builders, you look at humanitarians, you look at a lot of the great artists, and they were so careful with their words, and their words lifted people up.

看看那些偉大的商業締造者，看看那些人道主義者，看看那些偉大的藝術家，他們都是如此謹言慎行，他們的言語讓人們振奮。

And that's really what great leaders do, they use the language of leadership.

這才是偉大領袖真正要做的，他們使用上司語言。

If you watch a victim speaking, you'll hear things like, I can't, I'm sick of, I'm tired of, I don't like this.

如果你觀看受害者的演講，你會聽到這樣的話：我做不到，我受夠了，我厭倦了，我不喜歡這樣。

And then if you hear a leader speak, you know, I call it leadership vocabulary, it's much more the language of possibility, much more the language of inspiration, much more the language of energy.

然後，如果你聽到一個領導者說話，你知道，我稱之為上司詞彙，它更多的是可能性的語言，更多的是靈感的語言，更多的是能量的語言。

much more the language of what can be made to happen.

更多的語言是可以讓什麼發生。

It makes me think of Steve Jobs. Steve Jobs had something called the reality distortion field, which is a term used by Bud Tribble who was working at Apple at the same time.

這讓我想起了史蒂夫-喬布斯。喬布斯有一個叫做 "現實扭曲場 "的東西，這是同時在蘋果工作的巴德-特里布爾（Bud Tribble）使用的術語。

And he said even if you didn't believe in Steve's vision, what he was going to bring into the world.

他說，即使你不相信史蒂夫的願景，不相信他將帶給這個世界的一切。

when you were with him, you almost got hypnotized by his language, by his belief in himself, by his energy, and you got pulled in in this reality distortion field.

當你和他在一起時，你幾乎被他的語言、他對自己的信念、他的能量催眠了，你被拉進了這個現實扭曲的領域。

so that you actually went, yeah Steve, this can be done.

這樣你就會覺得，是的，史蒂夫，這是可以做到的。

And so, do you have your own reality distortion field so that when people are around you, through your language, you uplift them?

那麼，你是否擁有自己的現實扭曲場，當人們在你身邊時，通過你的語言，你能振奮他們？

Because, bottom line, words can uplift or words can destroy.

因為，最重要的是，文字可以振奮人心，也可以摧毀人心。

And if you look at a Nelson Mandela or you look at a Martin Luther King JR. in his I have a dream speech, he used the language that lifted up an entire nation that showed people what was possible, that painted a gorgeous picture of the future.

如果你看看納爾遜-曼德拉或小馬丁-路德-金在他的 "我有一個夢想 "演講中使用的語言，他振奮了整個民族，向人們展示了什麼是可能的，描繪了一幅絢麗的未來圖景。

And then you've got some so-called leaders, and rather than the language of leadership, they use the language of hate, and the words they used didn't lift people up, but they destroyed entire nations.

有些所謂的領袖，他們使用的不是上司的語言，而是仇恨的語言，他們使用的語言並沒有讓人們振作起來，而是摧毀了整個國家。

I'm an absolute fanatic about the words I use, because I understand the words I use so influence the people around me.

我對自己使用的詞語絕對狂熱，因為我知道我使用的詞語會影響周圍的人。

You know, I I so understand the words I use affect my energy, call a problem a problem and it becomes a problem, call a problem an opportunity and it totally reframes your psychology and your emotional architecture about how you reply to it.

你知道嗎，我非常理解我使用的詞語會影響我的能量，把問題稱為難題，它就會變成難題，把難題稱為機會，它就會完全重塑你的心理和情感架構，讓你知道如何應對它。

You look at a victim, and they say things like, this is a problem.

你看著受害者，他們會說 "這是個問題"。

And the words you use really are like a context or a framework or a stained-glass window on the way you see the world.

你所使用的詞語就像是你觀察世界的背景、框架或彩色玻璃窗。

I mean, here's a game-changing insight, you see the world not as it is, you see the world as you are.

我的意思是，這裡有一個改變遊戲規則的洞察力，你看到的世界不是它的本來面目，你看到的世界是你的本來面目。

You see the world through a lens, and your language forms that lens of belief.

你用透視鏡看世界，而你的語言構成了這種信念的透視鏡。

Use the language of possibility, a problem's not a problem, a problem is an opportunity.

使用 "可能性 "語言，問題不是問題，問題就是機會。

It's not the language of can't, it's the language of I can. It's not the language of I hate doing this, it's the language of what's the opportunity here.

這不是 "不能 "的語言，而是 "我能 "的語言。這不是 "我討厭這樣做 "的語言，而是 "這裡有什麼機會 "的語言。

Get your words right and you you change entire worlds.

言之有物，就能改變整個世界。

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