Name: 隨遇而安的可怕後果 (The Terrible Consequence of Being Easy-Going)
Uploaded: 2025-01-04T03:31:13.000Z
Duration: 11 min 26 s

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And that's perfect, because doing things that anybody can do is part of step one.

這很完美，因為做任何人都能做的事情是第一步的一部分。

Always do the easy things now and save the hard things for later.

現在總是做容易的事情，把困難的事情留到以後去做。

Since it's always now, that should make everything easy and nothing hard.

既然總是現在，那就應該讓一切都變得簡單而不困難。

Simply put everything off that's arduous, challenging, or intimidating and you'll never encounter any of those things, because the easy things never lead to harder, more difficult situations.

只要把所有艱鉅、具有挑戰性或令人生畏的事情都推掉，你就永遠不會遇到這些事情，因為容易的事情永遠不會導致更難、更困難的情況。

The best way to avoid hard things is to always go the pre-worn paths.

避免困難的最好辦法就是永遠走 "老路"。

Desire paths worn down by the stampedes of others' feet are always there for a good reason, because they are the easiest and shortest paths.

被別人的腳踩踏出的慾望之路總是有其存在的理由，因為那是最容易、最短的路。

And the easiest, shortest paths, especially those in which everyone else goes, are always the best.

而最簡單、最短的路，尤其是別人都走過的路，總是最好的。

There is rarely anything else in any other direction.

There is never any reason to stop and consider other potentially unknown or different paths.

從來沒有任何理由停下來考慮其他潛在的未知或不同的道路。

Plus, going different unknown ways is scary.

另外，走不同的未知道路是很可怕的。

And nothing good has ever come from facing the unknown.

面對未知，從來沒有什麼好事。

You could fail, mess up, or need to return to where you started.

你可能會失敗、搞砸，或者需要回到起點。

And that is, of course, the worst possible case.

Of course, whenever you do anything, people are watching.

當然，無論你做什麼，都會有人在看。

They're always focused on you, waiting for you to mess up, to say and do the wrong things.

他們總是盯著你，等著你搞砸，等著你說錯話、做錯事。

Their own problems, their own self-interests, and their own complicated array of experiences perceived from the solitary viewpoint of their head suddenly fall to the wayside when you come around and do anything.

他們自己的問題，他們自己的利益，以及他們自己從頭腦中的孤獨視角感知到的一系列複雜經歷，在你來到他們身邊並做任何事情的時候，突然就被拋到了九霄雲外。

Whenever you do inevitably say and do the wrong things, it's important to remember that not only will other people notice and care, but they'll also remember and think about it again.

每當你難免說錯話、做錯事的時候，一定要記住，別人不僅會注意到、在意，而且還會記住、再想起。

Perhaps it will be at a dinner, a weekend outing, or an early morning at the office.

也許是在晚宴上，也許是在週末郊遊時，也許是在辦公室的清晨。

In any or all of these moments, that one thing you did that one time will surely come up and be thought of or talked about.

在任何或所有這些時刻，你曾經做過的那件事一定會被提起，被人想起或談論。

It's important for you to dread and ruminate about this so that you avoid doing or saying anything risky, different, or hard moving forward.

重要的是，你要對此感到恐懼和反思，這樣才能避免做出或說出任何冒險、與眾不同或難以啟齒的事情。

Think about every little detail of every action and choice you make, as well as every moment that occurs, no matter how big or small.

想想你所做的每一個行動和選擇的每一個小細節，以及發生的每一個瞬間，無論大小。

More importantly, think especially long and hard about the uncertainty of the outcomes of your actions and choices and the events that happen regardless of your actions and choices.

更重要的是，要特別長時間地認真思考你的行動和選擇的結果的不確定性，以及無論你的行動和選擇如何都會發生的事件。

All the things that you have no control over and cannot change.

所有你無法控制、無法改變的事情。

For the things that you're worried about that you can change, don't do anything.

對於你擔心的那些你可以改變的事情，什麼都不要做。

That would require work and likely be very difficult, which is to be avoided.

這將需要大量工作，而且很可能非常困難，這是應該避免的。

Whatever it is you're worried about can be solved quite simply by just not doing it.

不管你擔心什麼，只要不做就能很簡單地解決。

By avoiding it, by denying it, by running away from it, or by hiding from it.

迴避它、否認它、逃避它，或者躲避它。

Even if you have the means to leave, stay in that job you have for as long as you can.

即使你有能力離開，也要儘可能長時間地留在現有的工作崗位上。

Don't accept any invites to any new things.

The easiest way to never fail, to never mess up, to never exert, and to never be perceived negatively, is to never try anything risky, never do anything new, and never be perceived at all.

要想永遠不失敗、永遠不出錯、永遠不出力、永遠不被負面評價，最簡單的方法就是永遠不做任何冒險嘗試、永遠不做任何新鮮事、永遠不被任何評價。

If steps one through six are not working for you, complain.

如果第一至第六步對您不起作用，請投訴。

Assuming you are following the process here, you have done everything right and nothing wrong.

假設你遵循了這裡的流程，那麼你所做的一切都是正確的，沒有任何錯誤。

Not only are you a victim, but you're a special kind of victim.

你不僅是受害者，還是一種特殊的受害者。

Sure, other people's lives are probably hard, and they are probably struggling with a similar process, but no one has your brain and your misfortune.

當然，其他人的生活可能也很艱難，他們可能也在類似的過程中掙扎，但沒有人擁有你的頭腦和你的不幸。

And your brain and misfortune are uniquely bad.

而你的大腦和不幸是獨一無二的。

And, like worrying, complaining doesn't mean you have to do anything or solve anything.

而且，就像擔心一樣，抱怨並不意味著你必須做什麼或解決什麼問題。

沒有自我，就拼不出自我保健。

And so, put the self, yourself, above all else.

是以，要把自我、自己放在第一位。

將你的陷阱合理化為積極因素。

You would never do anything wrong or bad.

Practice affirmations to remind yourself of this, but just stop there.

練習肯定句來提醒自己，但僅此而已。

So to avoid any sort of self-reflection or work that might be hard or painful.

是以，要避免任何形式的自我檢討或可能是艱難或痛苦的工作。

Guided or internal affirmations work equally fine.

Listen to or think things like the following.

For the avoidance of any confusion here, note that you don't have to be or do any of these things.

為了避免混淆，請注意您不必成為或做這些事情。

The more delusional, in fact, the better.

Whenever someone gets in your way, does something wrong, or is inconsiderate to you in any way, know that it's because they are a uniquely dreadful, selfish person, and they are singling you out.

每當有人擋你的路，做錯事，或以任何方式對你不體貼時，你要知道，那是因為他們是一個獨特的可怕、自私的人，他們在挑你的刺。

對他們來說，這就像是一項運動。

They have all the right information about the situation and about you, and they have no reason to ever be impatient, foolish, short, slow, inconsiderate, in the way, or defensive.

他們掌握著有關情況和你的所有正確資訊，他們沒有理由不耐煩、愚蠢、矮小、遲鈍、不體貼、礙事或防衛。

There is nothing going on in their lives that could possibly justify any mistakes or behavioral lapses.

在他們的生活中，沒有任何事情可以為他們的錯誤或行為失誤開脫。

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隨遇而安的可怕後果 (The Terrible Consequence of Being Easy-Going)

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