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Do you ever have one of those thoughts that are real and true, but feel weird?
你曾經有過真實卻奇怪的想法嗎?
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Anna, I have a question.
Anna 我有個問題。
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Yeah, Mom.
是的,媽媽。
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- Okay, so when I'm playing the game... - Wow, I came out of there.
- 我玩遊戲的時候…… - 哇喔,我是從那裡出來的。
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That's crazy.
太瘋狂了。
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My mom's like a 3D printer.
我媽就像台 3D 印表機。
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A friend and I were recently having a conversation about a boy in her life.
最近我和朋友聊起她遇到的一個男孩。
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And, you know, no matter how articulate, poised, and intelligent you are, when you're excited for your friend, we all react the same.
無論你口才多好、多有風度、多聰明,當你為朋友激動時,反應都是一樣的。
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But as the conversation got deeper into the potential of a relationship with this guy, we somehow came upon this thought.
但隨著談話深入到與這個人建立關係的可能時,這個想法突然冒了出來。
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You know, the best-case scenario is you meet the perfect partner, and then you die, or he dies.
最好的情況就是你遇到完美伴侶,然後你死了,或者他死了。
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Because statistically, women are likely to live longer, and then you're forced to live out the rest of your life is totally alone.
因為從數據上看,女性的壽命會比較長,然後你的餘生就被迫活在完全的孤獨中。
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Never able to rekindle that romance with anyone else.
永遠無法和別人重燃那份愛戀。
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I mean, sure, maybe you might meet someone else.
當然,也許你會遇到別人。
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But how could that possibly live up to the life of friendship, love, and connection with the one that you lost?
但怎麼可能比得上你所失去的一生的友誼、愛情和情感連結?
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And you're just dead in the void.
你就這樣死在虛無中。
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- The end. - Yeah, that's the best-case scenario.
- 結局。- 對,這就是最好的情況。
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And I know that seems depressing, but we found it oddly comforting, you know, because it suddenly takes a lot of the pressure off.
我知道聽起來很令人沮喪,但神奇的是我們竟然感到很安慰,因為壓力突然減輕了很多。
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It's like a free pass to not take everything so seriously, to alleviate yourself from some suffering, and it just gives yourself permission to enjoy the moment.
這就像張免死金牌,讓你能不要把一切看得那麼重、減輕痛苦、允許自己享受當下。
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But then again, we're a very unique because our friendship motto is we all die and nothing matters.
不過話說回來,我們比較特殊,畢竟我們的友誼格言是「人都會死,什麼都不重要。」
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So if you're like me and have spent the majority of your life placing a priority on love and finding a partner, which I think is like 99% of us, to be fair,
所以如果你跟我一樣,花了大半輩子把愛情和尋找伴侶擺第一,就像 99% 的人一樣,
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just remember, the best-case scenario still ends the same way as the worst-case scenario.
請記住,不管是最好還是最壞的情況,結局都一樣。
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You die alone. So, I'm gonna make it more of a priority to just try and connect with people in the moment, to have fun, and to deepen my friendships with the people who inspire me.
你將孤單離世。所以我決定把和身邊的人交流、找樂子、加深與激勵我的人的友誼擺在優先。
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And then some day, if I'm lucky...
然後如果有天,我夠幸運……
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I am a 3D printer. I am the god. I am the maker of man and woman who brings life into this world.
我是 3D 印表機,我是神,我是為世界帶來生命的的創造者。
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I'm Anna Akana. Stay right here for a sponsored message from Audible.
我是 Anna Akana!別走開,一起來看看 Audible 的優惠項目。
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Thank you to audible for sponsoring today's episode.
感謝 Audible 贊助今天的節目。
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Audio books are perfect for summer activities like hiking, sunbathing on the beach or road tripping.
有聲書是夏季活動的最佳夥伴,爬山、去海邊或公路旅行,都很合適。
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I've been currently listening to how to be an adult in Relationships by David Rico because it was recommended by one of you guys,
我目前在聽大衛瑞科的《如何成為戀愛中的成年人》,是你們推薦的。
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and I found it to be very insightful about how to approach romantic relationships with respect, compassion, and a genuine desire to understand where the other person is coming from.
這本書對於如何以尊重、同情去理解對方及處理戀愛關係有獨到的看法。
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Audible members get a credit every month, regardless of price and unused credits roll over to the next month.
Audible 會員每月都能獲得一積分,無論價格高低,未使用的積分皆可轉入下月。
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If you don't like your audio book, don't worry.
如果你不喜歡你的有聲書,不要擔心。
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You can always exchange it. No questions asked.
你隨時可以無條件換掉。
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Go to audible.com/Anna or text Anna to 500-500 to get a free audiobook with a 30 day free trial.
上 audible.com/Anna 或用簡訊傳送「Anna」到 500-500,就可以獲得 30 天免費試聽。