to talk about on the first date.

在第一次約會時談論。

What do you talk about first date?

第一次約會怎麼談？

How can you convey your awesomeness

你怎樣才能傳達你的魅力呢？

through conversation? Here's the big rule about first dates. Everything

通過談話？這是關於第一次約會的大規則。一切

surrounding the date, especially conversation,

圍繞著約會，特別是談話。

needs to be fun,

需要有樂趣。

happy and sexy.

快樂和性感。

Remember this number one rule. We will come back to this. But first let's start

記住這第一條規則。我們會再來討論這個問題。但首先讓我們開始

off the list of stuff

題外話

that you shouldn't talk about on the first date.

你不應該談論 在第一次約會。

Number one,

第一。

do not talk about your

不說自己

ex-girlfriend,

前女友。

your past breakup or your divorce. This is not the time nor the place. Remember

你過去的分手或離婚。這不是時間也不是地點。你要記住

our big rule?

我們的大規則？

There's nothing

沒有什麼

fun about breakups.

關於分手的樂趣。

It didn't work out at the last one, which sucks, but those aren't the first things

上一次沒有成功，這很糟糕，但這些都不是第一件事。

you should be talking about with the girl you just met. Keep the ex

你應該和你剛認識的女孩談談。保持前

conversations to a minimum until you have at least a few more dates. Number two,

談話到最低限度，直到你有至少幾個日期。第二條

politics and religion.

政治和宗教。

Do your best to stay away from sensitive topics. This breaks the big rule.

儘量遠離敏感話題。這打破了大規則。

In general, there's nothing sexy about politics or religion. There is an

一般來說，政治和宗教沒有什麼性感的地方。有一個

exception. If politics or religion define who you are,

例外。如果政治或宗教定義你是誰。

maybe it's your job, maybe you're a religious person then fine, I

也許這是你的工作，也許你是一個宗教人士，然後罰款，我。

understand. You're maybe screening for someone who has similar interests but if none of

理解。你也許是在篩選一個有類似興趣的人，但如果沒有

that describes you

閣下

then stay away.

然後遠離。

Number three, don't talk about your problems.

第三，不要說自己的問題。

Listen, we all have issues and nobody is perfect

聽著，我們都有問題，沒有人是完美的。

but a first date is not the time to discuss those.

但第一次約會不是討論這些的時候。

Back to the big rule, keep things happy.

回到大規則，保持快樂的事情。

If you start talking about how you're stressed out at work

如果你開始談論你的工作壓力有多大。

or your mom is always nagging you,

或者你媽媽總是嘮叨你。

then you're going to be labeled as a complainer

那你就會被貼上抱怨者的標籤。

your stress is gonna make her stress

你的壓力會使她的壓力

and now

而今

you're making a bad impression.

你正在做一個壞的印象。

Okay, enough about what you shouldn't be talking about let me tell you what you

好了，不說你不該說的了，讓我來告訴你你該說什麼吧

should talk about on the first date.

應該在第一次約會時談論。

Here's a quick list: passions, hobbies and interests.

這裡有一個快速列表：激情、愛好和興趣。

What does she do for fun?

她是幹什麼的？

What is she interested in?

她對什麼感興趣？

What are you interested in? What's your favorite music and movies?

你對什麼感興趣？你最喜歡的音樂和電影是什麼？

Family background. Ask her about her brothers and sisters, where she grew up

家庭背景。詢問她的兄弟姐妹，她在哪裡長大。

and what it was like. Your careers, what do you both do for a living.

和它是什麼樣子。你們的職業，你們都是做什麼工作的。

The date itself, how's the food, any good people watching, what's going on around

約會本身，如何的食物，任何好的人看，什麼是周圍發生的事情

you that you can comment on?

你，你可以評論？

Interesting things you've done over the year. Have you

你這一年來做的有趣的事情。你有沒有

traveled anywhere cool lately, been to any fun concerts? Have any funny or weird stories

最近去了哪裡酷，去過什麼好玩的音樂會嗎？有什麼有趣或奇怪的故事嗎？

to share? If you haven't seen a pattern yet let me help you out.

要分享嗎？如果你還沒有看到圖案，讓我來幫你。

The more you've done with your life and the more you have going for you will make an

你的生活做得越多，你有的東西越多，就會讓你的生活更有意義。

easier first date

易如反掌

because you love interesting things to talk about.

因為你喜歡談論有趣的事情。

Go ahead and leave a comment down below if you have interesting stories of questions

如果你有有趣的問題故事，請在下面留言。

that you guys ask on a first date.

你們在第一次約會時問。

I want to hear them. And I have a free gift for you. If you haven't already downloaded

我想聽聽他們的聲音我有一個免費的禮物給你。如果你還沒有下載

my free ebook,

我的免費電子書。

"Ten Simple and Unknown Dating Tips to Increase Attraction,"

"十個簡單而又不為人知的約會技巧，以增加吸引力，"

than you're missing out because on page 22, I lay out a sample

因為在第22頁，我列舉了一個例子

perfect first date that you guys can use. Go to trippadvice.com. You can

完美的第一次約會，你們可以用。去trippadvice.com。你可以

actually click right here and it will take you to the download page where you

其實點擊這裡，它將帶你到下載頁面，在那裡你

can get your free e-book.

可以得到你的免費電子書。

Don't forget page 22. Don't forget to subscribe to my channel

不要忘記第22頁。不要忘了訂閱我的頻道

because I put out videos every single week for you guys to get the girl.

因為我每週都會放出視頻，讓你們去泡妞。

I'll see you next time.

下次見。