每日口說挑戰開學人際關係斷捨離！5 種跡象告訴你誰是假朋友！ (5 Signs Someone Is a Fake Friend)

[Transcript]
Introduction :
Hello VoiceTube friends! How are we all doing?

Have you ever wondered whether or not your friends have the purest intentions at heart? That they have other motives other than hanging out with you because you’re super cool? Well, today’s the day for a little evaluation.

Our video looks into 5 signs that identify a potential fake friend to know if you truly know what a real friendship is about. Check out our sentence today that tells you how a true friendship should make you feel :

Sentence:
A solid friendship is about having fun with someone and providing a safe space where both parties can confide in one another.
一段堅實的友誼應該是很開心，且提供雙方安心的避風港。

Pronunciation tips :

provide /prəˈvaɪd/
confide /kənˈfaɪd/
one another

Vocabulary:

Solid /ˈsɑː.lɪd/
Adj. 確定的；紮實的；可信賴的
certain or safe; of a good standard; giving confidence or support

Example:
Andy is a solid friend, you can always trust him to be there whenever you need him.
Andy 是一個可靠的朋友，你可以指望他在你需要陪伴時出現在你身邊。


Footnotes:
Synonyms - trustworthy, dependable, reliable, etc.


Safe space
Phr. 避風港

Example:
My therapist sessions are a safe space for me to get out what I wouldn’t otherwise say aloud.
我的心理諮詢時段是我的避風港，讓我可以說出一些我平常說不出的話。

Footnotes:
Synonyms - sanctuary, safe harbor, etc.


Party /ˈpɑːr.t̬i/
N. 當事人，參與方
one of the people or groups of people involved in an official argument, arrangement, or similar situation


Example:
A collaboration often requires effort and empathy from all parties.
一個合作案子通常需要各個參與者的投入和同理心。



Outro:
And to wrap up our time here today, I’m leaving you with a final message: if you doubt yourself too much, don’t. If you’re trying your best to be the best you can be already, no one should ask you for more. So take heart! Don’t forget to leave your recordings and comments! I’ll see you again next time.

A solid(/ˈsɑː.lɪd/穩固的,可信賴的) friendship is about having fun with someone and providing a safe space where both parties(人) can confide(/kənˈfaɪd/吐露秘密v.) in one another.
一段穩固的友誼是雙方都是開心的，並且提供一個互相吐露心事的安全空間。

◆ confide in sb : 向…傾訴；向…吐露情感（或秘密）
She's nice, but I don't feel I can confide in her. 她人很好，但我還是覺得我不能對她推心置腹。

◆ solid /ˈsɑː.lɪd/ adj. 固體的
When water freezes, it becomes solid. 水結冰時變成固體。

（尤指給嬰兒或病人吃的食物）固體的
That rice pudding was the first solid food he's eaten since his operation. 那種米布丁是他手術後吃的第一種固體食物。

實心的；無空隙的；充實的
This is a solid rubber tyre. 這是實心橡膠輪胎。

純的，純粹的
This spoon is solid silver. 這把湯匙是純銀的。

（顏色，音調等）同一的，單一的
These curtains are solid blue. 這些窗簾是純藍色的。

結實的；堅固的；堅牢的
People like solid furniture. 人們喜歡結實的傢俱。

（公司，事業等）牢靠的，穩固的；（人）可信賴的 ; 確定的；紮實的
This provided solid evidence that he committed the crime. 這提供了確鑿證據，證明他犯了罪。

團結的，一致的[（+for/against）]
We are solid for peace. 我們一致擁護和平。

立體的，立方的
The students are learning solid geometry(/dʒiˈɑː.mə.tri/幾何學). 這些學生正在學習立體幾何學。

連續的；完整的，完全的
James studied at the university for eight solid years. 詹姆士在大學學了整整八年。

慎重的，嚴肅的

【俚】（音樂）極好的，（表演）精彩的

◆ solid (n.)[C] 固體
Iron and stone are solids. 鐵和石頭是固體。

立體；立體圖形
A cube and a pyramid are both solids. 立方體和棱錐體都是立體圖形。

固體食物，非流質食物 ; （液體中的）固態物
Now he is well enough to take solids. 現在他病好了，可以吃非流質食物了。

◆ safe space :（保護人們不受傷害、沒有危險的）安全空間，安全區
The Black Women's Club movement has been around since the mid-19th century, trying to create safe spaces for black women to organize.黑人婦女俱樂部運動自19世紀中葉開始，致力於為黑人婦女創造一個安全的空間。

◆ confide /kənˈfaɪd/ vt. 透露，吐露[（+to）][+that]
Did she confide her plans to you? 她把她的計畫告訴你了嗎？

將……委託，將……託付[（+to）]
She confided her personal documents to her lawyer. 她把她的私人文件託付給她的律師保管。

(vi.) 信任，信賴 ; 吐露祕密
I confide in him and he has never deceived me. 我信賴他，他從來沒有欺騙過我。

◆ party (n.) [C] 聚會，集會，派對
I met a childhood friend at the party. 在宴會上我遇見一個兒時的朋友。

（共同工作或活動的）一團人，一夥人，一行人[（+of）]
A party of retired doctors is touring western Europe. 一群退休醫生在周遊西歐各國。

政黨，黨派
Which party does John belong to? 約翰屬於哪個黨派？

當事人，參與方
The UN called on all parties in the conflict to take a positive stance(立場) towards the new peace initiative(/ɪˈnɪʃ.ə.t̬ɪv/倡議). 聯合國呼籲衝突各方對新的和平倡議採取積極態度。

【口】【幽】人

◆ party (vi.)（尤指在聚會上）吃喝玩樂，狂歡
Let's party! 我們盡情玩吧！
They partied till dawn. 他們一直玩到天亮。

◆ one another = each other 相互 (代名詞)
My boyfriend and I call each other / one another every day.（我和我的男朋友每天和對方講電話。）

#速速猴話完畢，結果錄音沒送出，重錄！>_<
A solid friendship is about having fun with someone and providing a safe space where both parties can confide in one another.

☺A solid friendship is about having fun with someone and providing a safe space where both parties can confide in one another.
一段穩固的友誼關係應該是要可以一起同樂，且彼此可以很放心地跟對方吐露心聲。
【心得】現在很多人會把心聲po在網上。
■solid [ˋsɑlɪd](adj.)固體的；實心的；純(粹)的；堅固的；牢靠的、穩固的；可信賴的；持續不間斷的；完整的；立體的；團結的、一致的[(+for/against)]；慎重嚴肅的；[口語]極精彩的
(n.C )固體；立方體
(n.P)(液體中的)固態物；固態食物、非流質食物
■safe space (ph. C) 避風港；(保護人們不受傷害、沒有危險的)安全空間、安全區
■party [ˋpɑrtɪ] (n.C) 政黨、黨派；聚會、集會、派對；(契約等的)當事人、參與方、一方；(共同工作或參與活動的)一團人、一夥人、一行人[(+of)]
(vi.) (尤指在聚會上)吃喝玩樂、狂歡

A solid friendship is about having fun with someone and providing a safe space where both parties can confide in one another.

Today's quote: Good friends are like stars, you don't always see them, but you know they're always there.

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When you're old enough to know better, the last thing you should do with friends is to confide in them!