每日口說挑戰你好毒！？7 個你對他人有負面影響的徵兆 (7 Signs You're Becoming Toxic)

☺Toxic relationships aren't always necessarily manipulative, controlling, and abusive. Sometimes they stem from over-analysis.
有毒的關係並不一定都會涉及到擺佈、控制對方及語言或肢體暴力。有時候，這樣的關係是源自於過度鑽牛角尖。
【心得】不少政治人物會利用製造對立來增加自己的聲量和支持度，這對社會也是種毒啊!
■toxic [ˋtɑksɪk] (adj.)有毒的；中毒的；令人極不愉快的；不可接受的；惡毒的、造成陰影的
■manipulative [məˋnɪpjə͵letɪv] (adj.) 操作的、操縱的；用手控制的；巧妙處理的；試圖控制他人的、擺佈他人的、有控制慾的
■abusive [əˋbjusɪv] (adj.)有暴力傾向的；辱罵的；濫用的
■stem from sth [stɛm frʌm] (ph. v.)起源於；由...造成

Introduction

Heyo VoiceTubers. What’s good?

Have you ever wondered why you can’t seem to keep people around? How you can’t really bring yourself to trust your friends? Why drama seem to tail you wherever? Why you’re addicted to social media?

News flash: It might be because you’re toxic...or the other way around - your friends are toxic.

Either way, it’s important to recognize the signs of toxic relationships and character. With enough self-awareness, you may have a chance to stop being toxic. And with everyone else, you’ll have an idea on how to approach these relationships.

Here’s another sign of a toxic relationship from our video and it’s also our sentence of the day:

Sentence
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Toxic relationships aren't always necessarily manipulative, controlling, and abusive. Sometimes they stem from over-analysis.
有毒的關係並不一定都是充滿操弄、控制或惡意。有時候，他們來自於過度分析。



Pronunciation tips
Toxic
Necessarily
Manipulative
Over-analysis




Vocabulary

Toxic /ˈtɑːk.sɪk/
Adj. 有毒的；引起中毒的
poisonous

Example
Factories have been dumping toxic waste into this river, and thus the entire area has been contaminated.
工廠長期的排放有毒的廢料到河裡，於是這整個區域都被污染了。

Footnotes
pollution /contamination/stained 污染


Abusive /əˈbjuː.sɪv/
Adj. 辱駡的；譭謗的；惡語的
using rude and offensive words

Example
Children who grow up in an abusive environment are prone to suffer mental issues.
孩子們在一個惡毒的環境成長易患有精神疾病。

Footnotes
Domestic abuse 家庭暴力


Stem from something /stem/
Phr. 源自；由…造成
to start or develop as the result of something

Example
His abilities in languages stem from his nomadic-like upbringing.
他的語言能力源自於他遊牧般的成長背景。

Footnotes
Stem 莖
is rooted in...

Outro
To wrap up today’s episode, go check out “Toxic” by Britney Spears, it’s a classic. And don’t forget to leave your recording and watch the video (it’s super informative!). I’ll catch you again next time!

你好毒 你好毒
你好毒 嗚嗚嗚
你越說越離譜 我越聽越糊塗

Toxic(/ˈtɑːk.sɪk/惡毒的a.) relationships aren't always necessarily(/ˈnes.ə.ser.ɪl.i/必然地adv.) manipulative(/məˈnɪp.jə.lə.t̬ɪv/試圖控制他人的a.), controlling, and abusive(/əˈbjuː.sɪv/言語或肢體暴力的a.). Sometimes they *stem from(源自於) over-analysis(/əˈnæl.ə.sɪs/解析n.).
(以下翻譯取自unickname)有毒的關係並不一定都會涉及到擺佈、控制對方及語言或肢體暴力。有時候，這樣的關係是源自於過度鑽牛角尖。

Heyo VoiceTubers. What’s good? Have you ever wondered(疑惑v.) why you can’t seem(v.似乎) to keep people around? How you can’t really *bring yourself to trust your friends? Why drama(戲劇性場面) seem to tail(v.跟蹤) you wherever(adv.任何地方)? Why you’re addicted(成癮的a.) to social media?

■ bring sb to sth : 把…引到（某一話題），把某人帶到（某一地點）
This subject brings me to the second part of the discussion. 這個話題讓我談到了討論的第二部分。

■ tail /teɪl/ v. 跟蹤（某人），盯（某人）的梢
That car has been tailing me for the last ten minutes. 那輛車一直在跟蹤我，跟了有十分鐘了。

tail (n.) 尾巴；尾狀物
The dog wagged its tail excitedly. 那隻狗興奮地搖著尾巴。

News flash(飛快的一瞥n.): It might be because you’re toxic...or *the other way around(相反)- your friends are toxic. *Either way(不管怎樣), it’s important to recognize(v.識別) the signs of toxic relationships and character(n.特徵). With enough self-awareness(自我覺知), you may have a chance to stop being toxic. And with everyone else, you’ll have an idea on how to approach(v.接近) these relationships. Here’s another sign of a toxic relationship from our video and it’s also our sentence of the day.

■ the other way around : 相反；顛倒
You think I'm always rude to you? No, I think it's the other way around!
你覺得我一直對你很無禮嗎？不，我認為沒禮貌的是你才對！
 
■ either way : 無論怎樣、不管怎樣
You may accept or decline their offer. Either way , I'll support your decision. 你也許會接受或拒他們的提議，無論怎樣，我都會支持你的決定

1. toxic /ˈtɑːk.sɪk/ a. 有毒的；引起中毒的 = poisonous /ˈpɔɪ.zən.əs/
Factories have been dumping(v.傾倒) toxic waste into this river, and thus(/ðʌs/因此adv.) the entire area has been contaminated.

■ contaminate /kənˈtæm.ə.neɪt/ v. 污染；弄髒；毒害
contamination /kənˌtæmɪˈneɪʃn/ n.
Much of the coast has been contaminated by nuclear waste. 大部分海岸已受到核廢料污染。

■ pollute /pəˈluːt/ v. 污染
pollution /pəˈluː.ʃən/ n.
The pesticides used on many farms are polluting the water supply. 許多農場裡使用的殺蟲劑正在污染供水。

■ stain /steɪn/ v. 沾汙，染汙；留下汙跡
stain (n.) 汙漬；汙點
Tomato sauce stains terribly - it's really difficult to get it out of clothes. 蕃茄醬一沾上就很麻煩——很難把它從衣服上洗掉。

2.1 abusive /əˈbjuː.sɪv/ a. 辱駡的；譭謗的；惡語的 = using rude and offensive words
Children who grow up in an abusive environment are *prone(/proʊn/有..傾向的a.) to suffer mental(a.心理的) issues.

■ be prone to sth/do sth : 易於遭受（疾病）的；有（消極）傾向的
I've always been prone to headaches. 我總是容易頭痛。

2.2 abuse /əˈbjuːz/ n. 虐待；傷害；辱罵；誹謗
domestic(/dəˈmes.tɪk/家庭的,國內的a.) abuse : 家庭暴力

3.1 stem from sth (phr.) : 源自；由…造成 = to start or develop as the result of something
His abilities in languages stem from his nomadic(/noʊˈmæd.ɪk/遊牧的a.)-like upbringing(/ˈʌpˌbrɪŋ.ɪŋ/養育n.).

■ nomadic /noʊˈmæd.ɪk/ a. 遊牧的
nomadic people/herdsmen(/ˈhɝːdz.mən/放牧人)

■ nomad /ˈnoʊ.mæd/ n. 遊牧部落中的一員
a tribe of Somalian desert nomads : 索馬利沙漠裡的遊牧部落

■ upbringing /ˈʌpˌbrɪŋ.ɪŋ/ n. 撫養，養育；教育，教養
Is it right to say all the crimes he committed were simply the result of his upbringing? 把他犯下的所有罪行都歸罪於他所受到的教育，這樣說對嗎？

3.2 stem /stem/ n. 主幹；（植物的）幹，莖，梗，柄；（船）艏，艏柱
Bindweed(/ˈbaɪnd.wiːd/旋花植物) ran up the stems of the corn. 旋花纏繞著玉米杆往上長。

3.3 be rooted in sth (phr.) : 起源於⋯
+ Most prejudices(/ˈpredʒ.ə.dɪs/偏見n.) are rooted in ignorance(/ˈɪɡ.nɚ.əns/愚昧,無知n.).

To wrap up today’s episode, go check out “Toxic” by Britney Spears, it’s a classic. And don’t forget to leave your recording and watch the video, it’s super informative(/ɪnˈfɔːr.mə.t̬ɪv/增長見聞的a.)!

■ informative /ɪnˈfɔːr.mə.t̬ɪv/ a. 提供資訊的；增長見聞的
This is an interesting and highly informative book.
這是一本有趣且資訊豐富的書。

Toxic relationships aren't always necessarily manipulative, controlling, and abusive. Sometimes they stem from over-analysis.

【with flying colors】成績優異地；出色地
- If you do something such as pass an exam with flying colors, you do it very successfully.
・With all that practice, John will pass his driving test with flying colors.

Toxic relationships aren't always necessarily manipulative, controlling, and abusive. Sometimes they stem from over-analysis.

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Toxic relationships aren't always necessarily manipulative, controlling, and abusive. Sometimes they stem from over-analysis.

Thank you, Wen. Have a good one, everyone.
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Toxic relationships aren't always necessarily manipulative, controlling, and abusive. Sometimes they stem from over-analysis.
有毒的關係並不一定都是充滿操弄、控制或惡意。有時候，他們來自於過度分析。