每日口說挑戰交往了之後問題才開始！情侶會遇到的十大問題！ (10 Common Relationship Problems)

☺Asking for help is good when you're being honest about your needs, but if you need to consult your partner before making every decision, you'll forget to be your own person.
你誠實地面對自己的需求，並尋求他人的幫助是件好事，但如果你每件事都要先問過你的另一半才能作決定，你就會忘了如何獨立自主。
【心得】感覺伴侶間磨合和妥協的過程漫長而累人，老爸老媽磨了幾十年，到現在都還在磨，完全不想入坑。
■honest [ˋɑnɪst] 誠實的；正直的；用正當手段獲得的；坦率的；不摻雜的
■in all honesty [ˋɑnɪst] 老實說；誠實地
■honestly [ˋɑnɪstlɪ] 誠實地、如實地；公正地；(常用來修飾整句)老實說、說實在地
■consult [kənˋsʌlt] (與…)商量、商議[(+with)]；(向…)徵求意見
諮詢；請教；查閱；找(醫生)看病
當顧問[(+for)]
■partner [ˋpɑrtnɚ] 搭檔；合夥人；伴侶、配偶
與某人合作、合夥、成為搭檔

嘛.........
要先有伴侶.....獨立到根本懶得問人意見了Q^Q


[NOTE]
Asking for help is good when you're being honest about your needs, but if you need to consult your partner before making every decision, you'll forget to be your own person.

尋求幫助是好的，因為你誠實地展現了自己的需要，但如果你每件事都要問伴侶的意見，你會忘了如何獨立自處。

句子選自此影片：交往了之後問題才開始！情侶會遇到的十大問題！ (10 Common Relationship Problems)



1. _
* honest [ˋɑnɪst] (adj.) 誠實的，可信的
- Samantha is an honest person, I believe any single word she said.
+ 薩曼莎（Samantha）是一個誠實的人，我相信她說的任何一句話。
* in all honesty [ˋɑnɪst] (phr.) 老實說，嚴肅地，說真的
- In all honesty, I think competitor one thinks way better than competitor two.
+ 老實說，我認為競爭對手一比競爭對手二要好得多。
* honestly [ˋɑnɪstlɪ] (adv.) 誠實地，正直地
- Honestly, I thought competitor one was the worst he should really practice high pitch.
+ 老實說，我認為競爭對手一是最差，他應該練習高音。

2. _
* consult [kənˋsʌlt] (v.) 向...討論
- Dear manager, I would like to consult with you about our budget this month.
+ 尊敬的經理，我想就本月的預算向您諮詢。
- He is my life consultant.

3. _
* partner [ˋpɑrtnɚ] (n.) 配偶；情人；伴侶
- I would need you and your partner's signature in order for you to be married officially.
+ 我需要您和您伴侶的簽名才能正式結婚。
* partner [ˋpɑrtnɚ] (n.) 搭檔，夥伴，同伴
- My lab partner for this experiment is sick so I must do everything by myself.
+ 我為此實驗的實驗室夥伴生病了，所以我必須自己做所有事情。
* partner [ˋpɑrtnɚ] (v.) 在體育運動、遊戲或舞蹈中 與（某人）合作，與（某人）成為搭檔
- find a partner and partner up with someone that you haven't had partnered with ....

大事我說了算，小事我老婆作主…

還好，我們家發生的事都是小事…嗯

【sleep on it】 不馬上做決定、需要時間想一下（睡眠有助思考）
to wait before making a decision
- They should sleep on it before making the critical decision.

#忘了我是誰
Asking for help is good when you're being honest about your needs, but if you need to consult your partner before making every decision, you'll forget to be your own person.

#day11
#來自香港女孩的每日口說挑戰♫
#要解決以上問題前，可能先要解決如何尋找伴侶這個問題吧～

ᴀsᴋɪɴɢ ғᴏʀ ʜᴇʟᴘ ɪs ɢᴏᴏᴅ ᴡʜᴇɴ ʏᴏᴜ'ʀᴇ ʙᴇɪɴɢ ʜᴏɴᴇsᴛ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ʏᴏᴜʀ ɴᴇᴇᴅs, ʙᴜᴛ ɪғ ʏᴏᴜ ɴᴇᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ᴄᴏɴsᴜʟᴛ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀ ʙᴇғᴏʀᴇ ᴍᴀᴋɪɴɢ ᴇᴠᴇʀʏ ᴅᴇᴄɪsɪᴏɴ, ʏᴏᴜ'ʟʟ ғᴏʀɢᴇᴛ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴏᴡɴ ᴘᴇʀsᴏɴ.
尋求幫助是好的，因為你誠實地展現了自己的需要，但如果你每件事都要問伴侶的意見，你會忘了如何獨立自處。

~~Vocabulary~~
➜1. honest 誠實的，可信的
[ˋɑnɪst] (adj.)
誠實的，可信的
in all honesty
[ˋɑnɪst] (phr.)
老實說，嚴肅地，說真的
honestly
[ˋɑnɪstlɪ] (adv.)
誠實地，正直地
➜2. consult 向...討論
[kənˋsʌlt] (v.)
向...討論
➜3. partner 配偶；情人；伴侶
配偶；情人；伴侶
[ˋpɑrtnɚ] (n.)
搭檔，夥伴，同伴
[ˋpɑrtnɚ] (v.)
在體育運動、遊戲或舞蹈中 與（某人）合作，與（某人）成為搭檔

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Asking for help is good when you're being honest about your needs, but if you need to consult your partner before making every decision, you'll forget to be your own person.

尋求幫助是好的，因為你誠實地展現了自己的需要，但如果你每件事都要問伴侶的意見，你會忘了如何獨立自處。

Dear Professor X,
Wolverin has a concern about his claws. He would like to consult with you about changing THE material. Please reply ASAP.
(THIS IS SO CUTE XD)

Do you have a partner in life?

不要問
不要說
一切盡在不言中

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