Love isn't a fairy tale and while you may hate the superficial aspects of dating, you certainly can't go through it without getting your heart broken a few times or breaking someone else's.
@Verna Deng 我昨天四點睡，今天整天都在恍神狀態...身體還是最重要的，健康才能扛起更多責任哦！謝謝你近期的分享跟鼓勵，覺得超窩心！ 我看我爸中（偏老）年失業，我都不敢過問什麼，感覺關心會讓他更沈重，雖然他看起來沒事，但感覺得出來他的壓力！我想你去年一定也很難受，還好現在有個還過得去的工作，希望接下來能夠有更好的機會降臨：）
Love isn't a fairy tale and while you may hate the superficial aspects of dating, you certainly can't go through it without getting your heart broken a few times or breaking someone else's.
[從路邊撿來的筆記]
1. _ * superficial [ˋsupɚˋfɪʃəl] (adj.) 表面的 - He’s fun to be with but he’ superficial. + 跟他相處很有趣很好玩，但是他是一個膚淺的人。 * shallow [ˋʃælo] (adj.) 淺的、膚淺的 - The movie I saw yesterday was quite shallow. I was a little disappointed. + 我昨天看到的電影很膚淺。我有點失望。 - The stream is quite shallow. + 溪流很淺。
2. _ * aspect [ˋæspɛkt] (v.) 觀點、方面 - aspect(字根 spect, 有"看"得意思) - We should consider any aspect of this problem + 我們應該考慮這個問題的任何面相。 * respect [rɪˋspɛkt] (v.) 尊敬 - The person that I deeply respect. + 我最尊重的人。 * inspect [ɪnˋspɛkt] (v.) 檢查 - Health department officials inspect the restaurant regularly. + 衛生部門官員定期檢查餐廳。 * suspect [səˋspɛkt] (v.) 懷疑、察覺 - I suspect he is not telling the truth. + 我懷疑他不是說真話。
3. _ * go through sth (phr.) 經歷、仔細或系統地研究或檢查(尤為尋找、發現某事物) - He's been gone through bad patch recently. + Bad patch 很糟的事情 + 他最近在經歷很糟的事情。 - I always start my day with going through my mail. + 我總是開始我的一天通過我的電子郵件。 * encounter [ɪnˋkaʊntɚ] (v.) 遇到（困難，危險等） - I encountered a great obstacle while learning English. Fortunately, I met a nice teacher who helped me to get through it. + 我在學習英語的過程中遇到了很大的障礙。 幸運的是，我遇到了一位幫助我度過難關的老師。
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Yun7 年前
喜歡Juky說的這段話 "Don't be afraid of being who you truly are because the one who falling love with the real you is your Mr. or Ms. Right."
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unickname7 年前
■superficial [ˋsupɚˋfɪʃəl] 淺顯的、膚淺的；表面(上)的；僅在表面的、表層的 ■shallow [ˋʃælo] 淺的、不深的；膚淺的 ■aspect [ˋæspɛkt] 方面、觀點；方向、方位體；(螢幕的)長寬比； 外觀、神態 (文法)時態、體 ■go through sth 遭受、經歷；練習、排練；順利完成；討論；舉行；(指法律、法案等)被正式通過或接受 ☺Love isn't a fairy tale and while you may hate superficial aspects of dating, you certainly can't go through it without getting your heart broken a few times or breaking someone else's. 愛情不是童話故事，雖然你可能會討厭約會時某些很膚淺的部分，但跟別人約會，肯定免不了要經歷幾次自己心碎或讓對方心碎的過程。 【fun song一下】孫燕姿-預見(今天的主題讓我想到這首歌，就小唱一段囉!祝福大家無論單身雙身都幸福~)
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ShakesBeer7 年前
就是要先互相傷害幾次之後才能修成正果是吧？
話說今天又被亂入了…XD
fairy tale the superficial aspects of dating can't go through it breaking someone else's
Love isn't a fairy tale and while you may hate the superficial aspects of dating, you certainly can't go through it without getting your heart broken a few times or breaking someone else's.
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卡卡7 年前
謝謝Judy＆大家～ ＃慢速～中速～快速～ ＃Will you be anxious when going on a date? 不喜歡有目的的聯誼或約會 像是相親那種dating...光想就覺得很尷尬..... ～～～～～～～～～～～～～～ Love isn't a fairy tale and while you may hate the superficial aspects of dating, you certainly can't go through it without getting your heart broken a few times or breaking someone else's.
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Ann7 年前
Day 25 這段大概重錄了300次有了吧, 有夠難...
Love isn't a fairy tale and while you may hate the superficial aspects of dating, you certainly can't go through it without getting your heart broken a few times or breaking someone else's.
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小柿子7 年前
|| Day.630 || Jul.15,2018,Sun ||
Love isn't a fairy tale and while you may hate the superficial aspects of dating, you certainly can't go through it without getting your heart broken a few times or breaking someone else's.
Tale as old as time 和歲月一樣古老的故事 True as it can be 卻無比真誠 Barely even friends 原本僅是朋友 Then somebody bends, 然後成為知心人， unexpectedly 在毫無預期的情況下
Just a little change 只是一點點改變 Small to say the least 幾乎微不足道 Both a little scared 兩人都有些害怕 Neither one prepared 彼此都沒有準備 Beauty and the beast 美女與野獸
Love isn’t a fairy tale and while you may hate the superficial aspects of dating, you certainly can’t go through it without getting your heart broken a few times or breaking someone else’s.
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Cakie (人´∀｀)．☆．。．:*･°7 年前
DAY528 這兩天要衝看球啦！！ 不醉不歸！！(亂說ㄉ
-------不負責任偷懶第41彈------- Love isn't a fairy tale and while you may hate the superficial aspects of dating, you certainly can't go through it without getting your heart broken a few times or breaking someone else's.
undefined7 年前
還好放假了，暫時可以讓腦袋休息~
Will you be anxious when going on a date?
To be honest, I feel anxious when I was first dating.
[回覆留言]
@Wan Tzu
晚睡是慢性自殺噢！早點睡睡！最好在11-1點前睡著^^
@小柿子
同意丸子
( ^ω^)
黑阿，所以我都盡量早些睡覺~
@unickname
以前作息也是超亂，睡不夠對身心都很傷耶！
真的，以前大夜班的時候就傷很多QQ
@Geraldine
我也差不多XD真的最近身體亮紅燈所以你也早點睡吧
辛苦囉!!
Dolphin Tsou
嗯啊～要花時間再好好調養回來的～
拼完就好好休息喲～
對阿，所以周末就要好好休息~
@Verna Deng
我昨天四點睡，今天整天都在恍神狀態...身體還是最重要的，健康才能扛起更多責任哦！謝謝你近期的分享跟鼓勵，覺得超窩心！
我看我爸中（偏老）年失業，我都不敢過問什麼，感覺關心會讓他更沈重，雖然他看起來沒事，但感覺得出來他的壓力！我想你去年一定也很難受，還好現在有個還過得去的工作，希望接下來能夠有更好的機會降臨：）
辛苦了~可以睡的話還是稍微補一下眠，真的不太行的話，建議買B群來吃。我個人是只要有稍微晚一點睡覺，早上就會吃一些B群來補XD
不用客氣啦，因為看到您分享的一些經驗，有感而發而已QQ
其實失業對我來說是有一些些被打擊到，但影響並沒那麼多。真正影響的是其他事情。(本來就有想提辭呈了，既然被資遣那就爽領資遣費囉~~~~)
對現在的我來說，找工作真正難的的是找到薪資和方向都符合我自己想要的職位。
您父親的狀況不好處理，只能根據您家人之間平常的互動方式，找出一種跟他相處的方法，嘗試看看看能不能排解他的焦慮感。不過，如果平常父親覺得需要維護他自己的尊嚴的話，那最好還是別太深入，或許他根本不會跟孩子們說~~~~(這部分是我自己想的，參考就好，我跟我父親已經基本沒關係了(比路人還路人)，所以純粹是我個人想法)
另外，如果不具有太特殊的專業能力。中年失業確實只能找一些要求比較低的工作來做。當年我母親就是從清潔員到打掃工和作業員都做過。我自己也有去工廠做過作業員和便利商店的大夜班。但如果本身經歷不錯，只要不排斥一些文書作業工作。我相信還是很有機會找到工作的。
老實說，個人覺得雖然很多人都會說某些企業很黑心或是其他什麼不好的地方，巴拉巴拉之類的...但實際上很多真的找不到工作的人，需要的就是一份至少有付薪水而且有收入的工作。但這些工作有很多都很操勞，而且薪水也不高，當然環境和福利也不怎樣。唯一好處就是，讓某些沒工作的人可以有工作做。這比完全沒工作其實要好，因為如果沒準備妥當就長期在家裡閒散。真的會讓人的心理產生很多負面思想，個人認為至少有工作做都比完全不知道自己能做些什麼要來的好。
以上，是去年在家裡窩了四個月後的心得......
Love isn't a fairy tale and while you may hate the superficial aspects of dating, you certainly can't go through it without getting your heart broken a few times or breaking someone else's.
[從路邊撿來的筆記]
1. _
* superficial [ˋsupɚˋfɪʃəl] (adj.) 表面的
- He’s fun to be with but he’ superficial.
+ 跟他相處很有趣很好玩，但是他是一個膚淺的人。
* shallow [ˋʃælo] (adj.) 淺的、膚淺的
- The movie I saw yesterday was quite shallow. I was a little disappointed.
+ 我昨天看到的電影很膚淺。我有點失望。
- The stream is quite shallow.
+ 溪流很淺。
2. _
* aspect [ˋæspɛkt] (v.) 觀點、方面
- aspect(字根 spect, 有"看"得意思)
- We should consider any aspect of this problem
+ 我們應該考慮這個問題的任何面相。
* respect [rɪˋspɛkt] (v.) 尊敬
- The person that I deeply respect.
+ 我最尊重的人。
* inspect [ɪnˋspɛkt] (v.) 檢查
- Health department officials inspect the restaurant regularly.
+ 衛生部門官員定期檢查餐廳。
* suspect [səˋspɛkt] (v.) 懷疑、察覺
- I suspect he is not telling the truth.
+ 我懷疑他不是說真話。
3. _
* go through sth (phr.) 經歷、仔細或系統地研究或檢查(尤為尋找、發現某事物)
- He's been gone through bad patch recently.
+ Bad patch 很糟的事情
+ 他最近在經歷很糟的事情。
- I always start my day with going through my mail.
+ 我總是開始我的一天通過我的電子郵件。
* encounter [ɪnˋkaʊntɚ] (v.) 遇到（困難，危險等）
- I encountered a great obstacle while learning English. Fortunately, I met a nice teacher who helped me to get through it.
+ 我在學習英語的過程中遇到了很大的障礙。 幸運的是，我遇到了一位幫助我度過難關的老師。
Yun7 年前
喜歡Juky說的這段話 "Don't be afraid of being who you truly are because the one who falling love with the real you is your Mr. or Ms. Right."
unickname7 年前
■superficial [ˋsupɚˋfɪʃəl]淺顯的、膚淺的；表面(上)的；僅在表面的、表層的 淺的、不深的；膚淺的方面、觀點；方向、方位體；(螢幕的)長寬比；
外觀、神態
(文法)時態、體遭受、經歷；練習、排練；順利完成；討論；舉行；(指法律、法案等)被正式通過或接受
■shallow [ˋʃælo]
■aspect [ˋæspɛkt]
■go through sth
☺Love isn't a fairy tale and while you may hate superficial aspects of dating, you certainly can't go through it without getting your heart broken a few times or breaking someone else's.
愛情不是童話故事，雖然你可能會討厭約會時某些很膚淺的部分，但跟別人約會，肯定免不了要經歷幾次自己心碎或讓對方心碎的過程。
【fun song一下】孫燕姿-預見(今天的主題讓我想到這首歌，就小唱一段囉!祝福大家無論單身雙身都幸福~)
ShakesBeer7 年前
就是要先互相傷害幾次之後才能修成正果是吧？
話說今天又被亂入了…XD
fairy tale
the superficial aspects of dating
can't go through it
breaking someone else's
Love isn't a fairy tale and while you may hate the superficial aspects of dating, you certainly can't go through it without getting your heart broken a few times or breaking someone else's.
卡卡7 年前
謝謝Judy＆大家～
＃慢速～中速～快速～
＃Will you be anxious when going on a date?
不喜歡有目的的聯誼或約會
像是相親那種dating...光想就覺得很尷尬.....
～～～～～～～～～～～～～～
Love isn't a fairy tale and while you may hate the superficial aspects of dating, you certainly can't go through it without getting your heart broken a few times or breaking someone else's.
Ann7 年前
Day 25
這段大概重錄了300次有了吧, 有夠難...
Love isn't a fairy tale and while you may hate the superficial aspects of dating, you certainly can't go through it without getting your heart broken a few times or breaking someone else's.
小柿子7 年前
|| Day.630 || Jul.15,2018,Sun ||
Love isn't a fairy tale and while you may hate the superficial aspects of dating, you certainly can't go through it without getting your heart broken a few times or breaking someone else's.
小柿子很內向是需要來學一下
迷之聲:__________________
小柿子:什麼!?你說首先要有約會對象
好吧...看來是甭看了
Verna7 年前
Day 44
期待童話故事中的愛情，但現實是殘酷的XD
想像著公主們一手拿尿布、一手拿奶瓶，王子變成大肚腩大叔的畫面⋯
瞬間幻想破滅(￣∇￣)
《好歌分享》Beauty and the Beast- Tale as old as time
Tale as old as time
和歲月一樣古老的故事
True as it can be
卻無比真誠
Barely even friends
原本僅是朋友
Then somebody bends,
然後成為知心人，
unexpectedly
在毫無預期的情況下
Just a little change
只是一點點改變
Small to say the least
幾乎微不足道
Both a little scared
兩人都有些害怕
Neither one prepared
彼此都沒有準備
Beauty and the beast
美女與野獸
Love isn’t a fairy tale and while you may hate the superficial aspects of dating, you certainly can’t go through it without getting your heart broken a few times or breaking someone else’s.
Cakie (人´∀｀)．☆．。．:*･°7 年前
DAY528
這兩天要衝看球啦！！
不醉不歸！！(亂說ㄉ
-------不負責任偷懶第41彈-------
Love isn't a fairy tale and while you may hate the superficial aspects of dating, you certainly can't go through it without getting your heart broken a few times or breaking someone else's.
Boyeee7 年前
我朋友每次相親都會被嫌棄，因為他是個常浮潛的人，膚淺的人。
後來他不浮潛了，很少出門曬太陽，還是被嫌棄，因為他還是個膚淺的人，膚色很淺的人。