每日口說挑戰友誼的意義 (The Purpose of Friendship)

■go adrift [əˋdrɪft] 出問題；鬆/脫開
■collectively [kəˋlɛktɪvlɪ] 集體地；共同地
■associate A with B [əˋsoʃɪet] or [əˋsosɪet] 把 A 和 B 聯繫/牽扯在一起
■declared[dɪˋklɛrd] 公開宣布的
■cynical[ˋsɪnɪk!] 偏激/憤世嫉俗的；為了一己之私利用他人的；挖苦的
【口說】Our attempts at friendship tend to go adrift because we collectively resist the task of developing a clear picture of what friendship might really be for. The problem is that we're unfairly uncomfortable with the idea of friendship having any declared purpose, because we associate purpose with the least attractive and most cynical of motives.
我們對友情下的功夫常常會適得其反，因為我們都抗拒去釐清友誼的真正目的何在。這個癥結在於，我們不合理地對於「友誼帶有具體目的」這種觀念，感到不自在；因為我們會把「帶有目的」聯想為動機讓人非常反感、非常啟人疑竇。
【心得】豬朋狗友比敵人還可怕。每次從媒體聽到那種閨密變小三的事件都會覺得OMG，到底是交錯朋友?還是找錯男人?＠＠
【背景音樂】Epic Orchestral Music Composed by Henrik Airaksinen

Day 301

attempts
go adrift
collectively resist the task of
unfairly uncomfortable
declared purpose
associate
cynical


Our attempts at friendship / tend to go adrift / because we collectively resist / the task of developing a clear picture of / what friendship might really be for. The problem is / that we're unfairly uncomfortable with the idea of friendship / having any declared purpose, because we associate purpose / with the least attractive and most cynical of motives.

Thank Kristi. Have a good day, everyone.

The true friend will help you when you are in the bad situation.
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1-1. attempt [əˋtɛmpt] (n.)(v.) 試圖、嘗試
* This is my first and very last attempt(n.) of knitting a scarf on my own.

1-2. tempt [tɛmpt] (v.) 引誘、誘惑
* He is tempted by the price and decided to go for a bet.

1-3. temptation [tɛmpˋteʃən] (n.) 引誘
* We should all try to resist the temptation of the first time using drugs.
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2-1. adrift [əˋdrɪft] (v.) 漂流著

2-2. drift [drɪft] (v.) 漂流
# drifting apart (ph.) 漸行漸遠
* They used to be the best friends, but this sense made them drift apart.
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3-1. collectively [kəˋlɛktɪvlɪ] (adv.) 全體地

3-2. collective [kəˋlɛktɪv] (adj.) 全體的
# collective wisdom = collective intelligence 集思廣益

3-3. collect [kəˋlɛkt] (v.) 收集
* I have a habit of collecting napkins from all around the world.
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4-1. declare [dɪˋklɛr] (v.) 宣告
# declare bankruptcy 宣告破產
# declare war 宣戰

4-2. claim [klem] (v.) 聲稱(負面)他這麼說卻不是事實
* He claimed to be rich. 事實並非如此
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5-1. associate [əˋsoʃɪɪt] (v.) 使... 有聯繫
* You should never associate everything with your previous experiences because everything is different.

5-2. association [ə͵sosɪˋeʃən] (n.) 聯盟
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Our attempts at friendship tend to go adrift because we collectively resist the task of developing a clear picture of what friendship might really be for. The problem is that we're unfairly uncomfortable with the idea of friendship having any declared purpose, because we associate purpose with the least attractive and most cynical of motives.

Our attempts at friendship tend to go adrift because we collectively resist the task of developing a clear picture of what friendship might really be for. The problem is that we're unfairly uncomfortable with the idea of friendship having any declared purpose, because we associate purpose with the least attractive and most cynical of motives.

【〠猴威 ㍿】－我懷疑自己到底看懂這篇文章了嗎？

－猴威版翻譯－
我們努力地發展並維繫友誼，但往往不太成功、總是出岔子。因為我們大家都抗拒去找出友誼明確的意義及真實的目的。

這問題來自：我們對於帶有特定意圖的友誼關係就是彆扭地感到不自在。因為我們覺得這種意圖其實就是另有所圖：最乏味又利用別人感情。

#Are we talking about “friendship” or “social networking”?

➊ go adrift ☞ 出問題；出岔子
➋ 今天有很多重音節母音[ɛ] →
attempt, friendship, tend, collectively, develop, unfairly, declared
➌ task, attractive → 重音節母音[æ]
➍ clear, picture, cynical →重音節母音[ɪ]

Day.187 ||

Our attempts at friendship tend to go adrift because we collectively resist the task of developing a clear picture of what friendship might really be for. The problem is that we're unfairly uncomfortable with the idea of friendship having any declared purpose, because we associate purpose with the least attractive and most cynical of motives.

到了這尷尬的天數了
誰是８７～丟細小柿子～

子曰：「益者三友，損者三友；友直、友諒、友多聞，益矣；友便僻、友善柔、友便佞，損矣。」

想太多了啦～
（小柿子才不解釋上面那段呢！哼！其實是小柿子國文差）

反正～就是交朋友
哪那麼多想法

不用太多心機
用當純的心
將自己不喜歡的對待避免掉
ヾ(●゜▽゜●)
合則來不合者去

謝謝Kristi&大家~~~
今天挑戰錄兩次!!
#雖然模仿英式四不像XDD
#一直卡在the後面接母音和接子音的不同念法
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Our attempts at friendship tend to go adrift because we collectively resist the task of developing a clear picture of what friendship might really be for. The problem is that we're unfairly uncomfortable with the idea of friendship having any declared purpose, because we associate purpose with the least attractive and most cynical of motives.

老師說過ㄧ個她自己的故事！她從小靠著小聰明不愛讀書喜歡吃喝玩樂，可是她身邊的朋友都超級認真讀書向上，她覺得無聊死了沒人陪她聊只有勉強抱著書本加入了，讀著讀著竟然產生興趣。所以她分享這故事就是要我們這些愛玩不求上進的人能多接近正面向上的朋友，浸硃者赤浸墨者黑，很高興我能在這裏認識那麼多優秀上進的好朋友。加油加油^^哈哈哈⋯⋯

<2.0-33>Thanks Kristi and every friend~
今天已有C.C.W.的版本，就不玩假日版筆記大家來找碴了，但錄音還是歡迎啦^^
#Kristi like collecting napkins before. (most important today ^^)

雖然要期中考了 可是也要來練練英文哭哭