每日口說挑戰如何結束一段感情 (How to End a Relationship)

We hesitate to be cold and try to be nice because we are sentimental. The essence of sentimentality is the desire to be liked, even by those you don’t like and can no longer be bothered with. It’s a narcissistic longing to continue to receive the emotion of love without wanting to pay for it.

We hesitate to be cold and try to be nice because we are sentimental. The essence of sentimentality is the desire to be liked, even by those you don’t like and can no longer be bothered with. It’s a narcissistic longing to continue to receive the emotion of love without wanting to pay for it.
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【回復大家】 00:39-4:48

【歌】 4:49-The End

Almost Lover – A Fine Frenzy

Your fingertips across my skin
The palm trees swaying in the wind
Images
You sang me Spanish lullabies
The sweetest sadness in your eyes
Clever trick
Well, I never want to see you unhappy
I thought you'd want the same for me
Goodbye, my almost lover
Goodbye, my hopeless dream
I'm trying not to think about you
Can't you just let me be?
So long, my luckless romance
My back is turned on you
Should've known you bring me heartache
Almost lovers always do

We walked along a crowded street
You took my hand and danced with me
Images
And when you left, you kissed my lips
You told me you would never, never forget
These images, no
Well, I'd never want to see you unhappy
I thought you'd want the same for me
Goodbye, my almost lover
Goodbye, my hopeless dream
I'm trying not to think about you
Can't you just let me be?
So long, my luckless romance
My back is turned on you
Should've known you bring me heartache
Almost lovers always do

I cannot go to the ocean
I cannot drive the streets at night
I cannot wake up in the morning
Without you on my mind
So you're gone and I'm haunted
And I bet you are just fine
Did I make it that easy to walk right in and out
Of my life?

Goodbye, my almost lover
Goodbye, my hopeless dream
I'm trying not to think about you
Can't you just let me be?
So long, my luckless romance
My back is turned on you
Should've known you bring me heartache
Almost lovers always do

■sentimental [͵sɛntəˋmɛnt!] 多愁善感的、感情用事的
■sentimentality [͵sɛntəmɛnˋtælətɪ] 多愁善感、感傷
■narcissistic [͵nɑrsɪˋsɪstɪk] 自我陶醉的、自戀的
■can’t be bothered 懶得做、完全不想費力去做某事
【口說】We hesitate to be cold and try to be nice because we are sentimental. The essence of sentimentality is the desire to be liked, even by those you don’t like and can no longer be bothered with. It’s a narcissistic longing to continue to receive the emotion of love without wanting to pay for it.
我們遲遲無法變冷淡，而且還試著想要當好人，是因為我們感情用事。感情用事的本質就是渴望被別人喜歡，即使那個別人你既不喜歡、而且也不再在意了。這是一種帶有自戀情節的渴望，渴望能夠繼續被愛卻又不想付出。
【心得】我不得不說這是一部很詭異的影片。影片一開頭就讓我整個很傻眼：一個光頭沒脖子沒表情的裸男牽著一個脖子直不起來邊睡邊走路的露2點金髮女在演電影，沒人要看，於是只好硬找來幾對蔬菜到電影院當觀眾，我傻眼到都忘了要聽影片的內容了。要找也找巧克力和起士蛋糕來演還比較誘人嘛～

Day 234

今天講的主題，是感情上的摳男…

影片主角真的太醜了，還是來看一下今天負能量滿滿的詞組吧！

hesitate
sentimental
The essence of sentimentality
be bothered with
a narcissistic longing
to receive the emotion of love

斷句的原則是：遇到逗點就休息一下，除非你氣很長。逗點之外如果撐不下去，至少要把一個詞組唸完...
以下是參考用，念熟了就不用斷這麼多次啊！！！

We hesitate to be cold // and try to be nice // because we are sentimental. The essence of sentimentality // is the desire to be liked, even by those you don’t like // and can no longer be bothered with. It’s a narcissistic longing // to continue to receive the emotion of love // without wanting to pay for it.

Hi, Colleen, nice to meet you and thank you!
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We hesitate to be cold and try to be nice because we are sentimental. The essence of sentimentality is the desire to be liked, even by those you don’t like and can no longer be bothered with. It’s a narcissistic longing to continue to receive the emotion of love without wanting to pay for it.
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我今天有點猴話（台語），請按捺下…
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【每天來點負能量之加油添醋翻譯】
#錄音的第2遍就是機車版…

我們磨磨蹭蹭地想著要不要冷淡點…然後還試著想當大好人？
（好跟大夥兒說「雖然我們分手了，可是我們還是好朋友！」）
其實是自己太愛耽溺於傷感情緒中，演著自己的內心戲。

這滿滿的多愁善感，追根究柢就是想要一直被別人喜歡。
但你根本就不喜歡那個人了，再也不會對他有感覺了啊！

這是一種自我陶醉的渴望，渴望著就算不再付出愛了，還是可以被對方一直愛著。
（上演八點檔連續劇，二十年後的他還深愛著你，喔～～～心好揪喔…有事嗎？）
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【影片心得】
口說練習這片段的道理大致上有理。
而整支影片而言，雖然是種建議…
但如同今天主講老師Colleen Jao所說…
感情的事兒，沒人可斷言什麼才是最好的方法，又或誰對誰錯。
而更要謹慎處理的部份是：不是每個當事人都可以接受「斷然」的處理方式

欵…愛注意啦！（台語）
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【小小回覆昨晚的分享】
昨晚我在自己的樓留言分享了在「字字分明」、「自然口說」間的練習心得
貼文有點長，就不再在這裡重複了～有興趣的人可再點進去看。
再次謝謝Nina的提醒與unickname 最後的總結與鼓勵！
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【延續昨天Hilario的勸敗】
最近的口說主題滿多都與resolutions, being positive等有關…
推薦一本書：Better Than Before: Mastering the Habits of Our Everyday Lives
與之前「過得還不錯的一年」一書同一作者，相較於通常我們不太有無所事事在家一年實驗的機會，這本新書在對於「習慣」這事的見解與方法上有更明確的分析，可以讓原本不論是什麼樣個性的人，較有機會因應自己的不同去實踐。（它的英文版也很好讀）
博客來今天還在會員日結帳88折喔～除了分享，完全是勸敗啊！http://www.books.com.tw/products/0010742332
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【負能量總結分享】
影片：https://www.facebook.com/techinasia/videos/1342707882434288/
#好啦～再也不用學外語啦！再也不用來練口說啦，我只要中文說的標準就好啦！XDD
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Day.120 |
We hesitate to be cold/ and try to be nice because we are sentimental.// The essence of sentimentality/ is the desire to be liked, even by those you don’t like/ and can no longer be bothered with.// It’s a narcissistic longing to continue to receive the emotion of love/ without wanting to pay for it.
/=小頓,//=大頓,小頓可省略

今天看完影片的時候小柿子並沒有想要整理出什麼
因為感覺今天的主題是沒有一定答案的

小柿子的經驗不足~
所以還是聽聽各方大大們的分享吧!!!
拿出筆記學習
..._〆(°▽°*)

回覆昨天留言
＠安東尼 應該是我們偷懶時間錯開ＸＤ
哈哈哈哈哈我已經恢復正常了～～～

＠丸子 謝謝丸子～～～～一起加油加油

＠小柿子 哈哈進步很多的小柿子棒

＠女神 好好不偷懶d(d＇∀＇)

其實我覺得最好的方法就是不再有任何聯繫
對於還喜歡的人可能會覺得很殘忍
別人看來也會覺得很無情
不過
當一方還喜歡你的時候，你怎麼能因為自己不想失去這個朋友就還是假裝一切都沒發生過
就像傷疤好不容易結痂了
你卻又來撕開
永遠好不了呀～～～～～～
所以各位有你不喜歡的人喜歡你
不要理他是最好的方式

Thanks Colleen and every friend.
Just practicing~

謝謝Colleen&大家~~
輕旅行之後回歸 好久不見阿各位
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(抱歉今天還是有奇怪爆破音亂入=.=")
We hesitate to be cold and try to be nice because we are sentimental. The essence of sentimentality is the desire to be liked, even by those you don't like and can no longer be bothered with. It's a narcissistic longing to continue to receive the emotion of love without wanting to pay for it.

一起床就鼻塞鼻塞鼻塞