Also, I still love the pixel so call me Google, and I'm here you know hanging out also Ella's here. Hey it's Ella

and in the spirit of fairness I would also like to make a video called the

not-so perks of dating a girl

Number one; hair

It's everywhere, all the time

It's in my clothes

It's all over my shower

Yeah, I mean, but you have great hair.

So I've dated both men and women

Delicious.

First not-so-perk; I

really, thought and

This is this is just honestly maybe a personal thing.

I started comparing my body to her body

and specifically in our relationship. I started comparing my body your body.

Which is like. What are you gonna do? I have the body of a god.

It's true. We have we have it is true. She has such a good body, and she, it is true

I'm compact

You're small and cute like what more would anyone want from a body. I don't understand

It was really hard

and I talked about it

In therapy for a long time. In the process of me like talking about my like body and on confidence whatever she referred me to

YouTube videos. One of your videos was in in part of the ones that she referred to me

And I was like I don't need this from

My own therapist. Do you have like a closing statement about like how you got past comparing our bodies or like...

I'm not past it

How many cats is too many cats, you know like I'm pretty sure that if I just showed up with a third cat

You'd be all about it.

I don't see why that's relevant to this list at all.

Honey, I didn't know you felt that way... what's on your chest. I don't know I was looking at it earlier.

This is not some perks of dating an Ella

It's just dirty

34 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:12,729 You can share clothes. Yeah

Great it's it's actually a perk, but then there's also a downside

Yeah it's also a huge downside right yeah like for instance if someone like let's say you have a

Specific event coming up and you have to pre-plan your outfit ahead of time in your mind. You're like okay

I'll get back to LA I'll grab my

This pair of black jeans, and then I'll be able to make it to this thing on time ablahblahblahblahblah

And then you arrive and like for some reason the those jeans are just like

out of town

Covered in soy sauce

Who knows? Your clothes mix and you forget, what's yours and you forget like what you have and what

It's all her clothes

All i'm saying is

Whose shirt is this? It's yours

How hard do you try? Or ask,

or put in closet dividers or just kind of put things on a side-- If it fits, it sits

The next not-so-perk I would like to discuss is the following;

I am a verbal processor. I do enjoy talking about

Our feelings, I enjoy having productive

conversations about emotional

Subjects -and the thing is I do too

So that's a lot. Yeah, especially. If like one of us likes to have emotional

Conversation it's a lot like we're always like discussing our feelings

Constantly and some of us like to just have those feelings while we're talking about them

Yeah, and so it's like not even the subject is in question. It's just the expressions its feelings our feelings our feelings. I think I

Subtly implying that you're more emotional, I'm not because I think I think you are in a different way.What way?

Here we go

Let's move to the next

this next one is really in line with the

processing emotional one

You can always tell when something is off

I don't want to be a little stereotypical of women, but there is a stereotype that women are very

nonverbal communicators

It's the hair in the drink

That's your own hair! So there's the stereotype that women are non-verbal communicators

And I really find that true. Ella, would you say there is such a thing as woman's intuition? Yes, would you say and that it's

Psychic? - Woah. I was gonna say a lot

Yeah

Next I nag a lot and

You nag a lot

So two times the nagging equals two times the fun

Like we just nag each other constantly

Constantly - I would never call - back and forth - I wouldn't call what you do nagging dear. Thank you

Yeah, you know you know some, some might think of them as helpful reminders others might call it

Nagging, but I would like to say

You don't ever think you're nagging do you?

No, I think I'm nagging you all the time. I'm just saying you don't nag - I do nag - I would never say that.

I know

Your words not mine

Another not-so-perk of dating your girlfriend is that your, your friend

Groups kind of just like the lines get blurred right because like you become friends with my friends

Or I become friends your friends

And then it's like if we had

Bachelorette parties who would be invited to what and it's like do we do a big group hang like where does the separation of church

And state? Like that's complicated. We have a lot of similar friends, and I would love I love our friends

We friends of each other I'd love them to celebrate together

I just thought of something but it's actually a perk um you get to share makeup - That's not a perk. I literally

Literally again with like trying to insert closet dividers my my brushes

Are you talking about when I left all your brushes all out on the floor?

I thought they our brushes

So this one doesn't apply to us, but I hear in the media.

On Twitter, Tumblr as this happens, but that everybody in the lesbian community

Has dated everybody oh, yeah

I've heard that too. I've not experienced that but they do say it's a thing you know, it's like in dating like you've dated so-and-sos ex

I mean if I dated one of your exes

I'd be bi now

Although Im willing to hook up with someone you've hooked up with yeah. Yeah, I mean I know maybe with we ever opened our relationship

Come on. Okay another not-so-perk which is the following you happen to

Despite the fact that we have moved in together into our shared home

somehow

One of us always buys tampons and the other one

Always uses all of them some of it's like ever since I've taken

Some of us use diva cups now which I really really like I love a diva cup. I plus one that

you don't

Mm-hmm I'll buy you one I'll buy a new one next time

I had no option long story short what matters is is that your perks outweigh your not-so-perks and I would have

To say between you and me, I think our relationship is pretty perky it is

on a scale of 10 how would you rate our relationship one being the pits 10 being the the bits as in the best

Okay, so on the count of three. We'll say a number ready

one two three

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