Name: 如何面對人生抉擇？ (如何面對人生抉擇？► 查理·戴 Charlie Day 演講（中英字幕）)
Uploaded: 2025-06-16T01:39:39.000Z
Duration: 3 min 38 s

But my lesson is this: I don't give a shit.

情態助動詞 A2

I don't think you should do just what makes you happy, I think you should do what makes you great.

我認為你不應該只做讓自己快樂的事，我認為你應該做讓自己偉大的事。

過去簡單式

When I left this school, I was presented with two options.

離開這所學校時，我有兩個選擇。

I could move to New York City and begin my acting career, a city where I knew next to no one.

我可以搬到紐約，開始我的演藝生涯，在這座城市裡，我幾乎不認識任何人。

Or I could take the entry-level position that had been offered to me by Fidelity Investments.

或者，我也可以接受富達投資公司為我提供的初級職位。

And this this threw me for a loop, should I take this job? Is this my destiny? Am I the next great financial genius?

這讓我很糾結，我應該接受這份工作嗎？這是我的命運嗎？我是下一個偉大的金融天才嗎？

Should I come up with a plan B? Should I work in Boston for a few years and make enough money to have a cozy transition to New York?

我是否應該制定一個 B 計劃？我是否應該在波士頓工作幾年，賺到足夠的錢，然後舒適地過渡到紐約？

Well I have always had a half-baked philosophy that having a plan B can muddy up your plan A.

我一直有一個半生不熟的理念，那就是 B 計劃會讓 A 計劃變得一團糟。

I moved to the city, I bussed tables, I lived in a basement apartment next to a garbage chute that was filled with cockroaches.

我搬到了城裡，在公共汽車上當服務員，住在地下室的公寓裡，旁邊的垃圾槽裡到處都是蟑螂。

And I could not have made a better decision.

我做出了一個再好不過的決定。

Had I worked at at Fidelity, I am sure they would have fired me eventually.

如果我在富達工作，我肯定他們最終會解僱我。

But I didn't want to fail at Fidelity and I did not want to fail in Boston.

但我不想在富達失敗，也不想在波士頓失敗。

If I was going to run the risk of failure, I wanted it to be in the place where I would be proud to fail, doing what I wanted to do.

如果要冒失敗的風險，我希望是在我以失敗為榮的地方，做我想做的事情。

And let me tell you something, I did fail, over and over again.

讓我告訴你，我確實失敗了，一次又一次地失敗。

I was too short for this or too weird for that.

I had one casting agents say, "This man will never work in comedy."

有一個選角經紀人對我說 "這個人永遠不會演喜劇"

But I was in the fight, I was taking my punches, but I was in the fight.

但我還是參加了比賽，捱了拳頭，但我還是參加了比賽。

Don't wait for your break, make your break.

Now listen up, you cannot let a fear of failure or a fear of comparison or a fear of judgment stop you from doing what's going to make you great.

聽好了，你不能讓失敗的恐懼、比較的恐懼或評判的恐懼阻止你去做能讓你變得偉大的事情。

You cannot succeed without this risk of failure.

沒有失敗的風險，就不可能取得成功。

You cannot have a voice without the risk of criticism.

沒有責備的風險，就沒有發言權。

And you cannot love without the risk of lost.

如果沒有迷失的風險，你就無法去愛。

You must go out and you must take these risks.

你必須走出去，必須承擔這些風險。

Everything I'm truly proud of in this life has been a terrifying prospect to me.

我這輩子真正引以為豪的一切，對我來說都是可怕的前景。

From my first play to hosting Saturday Night Live, to getting married, to being a father, to speaking to you today.

從我的第一部劇到主持《週六夜現場》，到結婚，到做父親，再到今天和你們講話。

And people will tell you to do what makes you happy, but a lot of this has been hard work. And I'm not always happy.

人們會告訴你去做能讓你開心的事，但這其中有很多都是艱苦的工作。我並不總是快樂的。

And I don't think you should do just what makes you happy.

我認為你不應該只做讓自己開心的事。

I think you should do what makes you great.

我認為你應該做讓自己變得偉大的事情。

Do what's uncomfortable, and scary, and hard but pays off in the long run.

做不舒服的、可怕的、困難的，但從長遠來看是有回報的事情。

Fail in the way, in the place where you would want to fail.

以你希望失敗的方式，在你希望失敗的地方失敗。

Because without this struggle, what is your success anyway?

因為如果沒有這場鬥爭，你的成功又算得了什麼呢？

Look as best we know what we have one life.

In it, you have to trust your own voice, your own ideas, your honesty, your vulnerability, and through this, you will find your way.

在其中，你必須相信自己的聲音、自己的想法、自己的誠實、自己的脆弱，通過這些，你將找到自己的道路。

You do not have to be fearless, just don't let fear stop you.

你不必無所畏懼，只是不要讓恐懼阻止你。

Live like this as best you can and I guarantee you will look back on a life well-lived.

盡你所能這樣生活，我保證你回首往事時會發現自己活得很精彩。