Name: 單身又怎樣？我們選擇單身的原因 (Why Our Generation Is Choosing To Stay Single | Digital Love)
Uploaded: 2020-09-20T21:01:20.000Z
Duration: 2 min 53 s

情態助動詞 A2

沒有跟我一樣可愛的人想要我。

這對我的心理治療師來說會是個好問題。

The universe was like, "You're gonna be single."

有個來自宇宙聲音說：「你會單身。」

And I also was like, I think it's time for me to be single.

我也想說，我想是時候讓我單身了。

I need time for myself after a breakup last year, and like, I'm growing exponentially by myself right now.

去年分手後，我需要留點時間給自己，而現在單身我覺得我正在呈指數型的成長。

I'm not accepting anything, you know, I'm not just taking anything, I'm very specific of what I want.

我不是任何東西都接受的，我不單單只是接受東西，我對我想要的東西非常具體。

Previously, I didn't set standards for myself in terms of the energy that I accepted from men.

以前我並沒有設立一個我從男人那裡獲得能量的標準。

And now I'm single because I have those standards.

而現在我單身，是因為我有了這些標準。

I'm just looking for some unicorn that hopefully will come one day.

我仍在尋找或許某一天會來找我的獨角獸。

I can't find anyone that wants to be with someone as talkative as me right now.

我現在找不到一個人願意和我這樣健談的人在一起。

And then they get so whiny and you have to text him so much.

然後他們就會變得很嘮叨，然後你必須跟他傳一堆訊息。

I feel like it's a lot of energy to date someone right now, and I feel like if I'm gonna exert that energy, you better be worth it.

我覺得現在跟一個人約會要花好多能量，所以我覺得你如果要我去付出這些能量，最好是值得的。

I don't believe someone has to be perfect, but I want people to, like, deal with their past traumas and heal themselves before, like, integrating into my realm, cause I'm really protective of my energy.

我不相信一個人必須是完美的， 但我希望人們在要跟我有所關聯時能更處理好過去的創傷和療癒好自己， 因為我真的很保護我自己的能量。

Like, I don't even hug people, so why would I date somebody that's not ready to, like, grow with me?

我甚至不擁抱的人， 所以我為什麼要與一個甚至沒準備好要跟我一起成長的人約會呢？

I think I just need to work on myself right now.

我想我現在只需要管好自己就可以了。

I think I just need to, like, find myself a little bit.

我覺得我需要多探索一點自我。

For the past two years, I've really been, like, thinking about me and, like, what do I need from myself, and what work do I have to do for me first？

在過去的兩年裡，我一直在思考我自己，思考我需要什麼，還有首先我該為自己做些什麼？

然後之後，也許我才會遇到那個人。

Before I was always in a relationship, back to back...

在這之前，我的戀情總是一場接著一場。

Just focusing on, like, priorities that I should be focusing on.

我專注在那些我應該首先專注的事。

So I'm trying to find somebody who's able to understand that.

所以我想找一個能夠理解這一點的人。

But if someone's just like, "I've been texting you all day, like, where have you been?"

但如果有人就是會說：「我已經發短信給你一整天，你去哪裡了？」

The people that I get in my DMs are crazy to even think that I would talk to them.

那些私訊我的人都瘋了，瘋到我不認為我會跟他們說話。

I'm not gonna be rude about it, but it's just like, I'm not interested.

我不是無禮，但就只是我不感興趣。

You see me, you see you, like, no thank you.

看看我，再看看你，謝謝再聯絡。

And you... you have to be just as ambitious as me and trying to, you know, get your goals out there.

你必須要像我一樣有雄心壯志並試著追尋你的目標。

I don't do the boring suburban thing, where you date the same person forever and just go through the check-marks of life: kids, marriage.

我不做那種很無聊的事情，永遠和同一個人約會，然後度過生活的各大里程碑生活，生小孩，結婚。

我的意思是，那是沒有意義的。

Because you marry somebody, they're entitled to half your stuff.

因為你跟某個人結婚，他們就有資格得到你一半的東西。

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